# 1 week 400 miles (long read) \[Victim of Road Rage\]

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Automotive\
**Created:** [August 22, 2009, 10:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494 "2009-08-22T22:28:08Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![JayS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jays/32/15375_2.png) [@JayS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JayS)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/101 "2009-08-24T08:39:37Z")

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> [@reval](#):
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> I would have pressed charges. Maybe not b/c of what he did to you… but in the fear of what he could do to some one else.

Exactly. If he seriously injures or kills someone the decision to help him out by not pressing charges is going be on you.

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**Author:** ![slow84ta](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/slow84ta/32/7265_2.png) [@slow84ta](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/slow84ta)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/102 "2009-08-24T08:41:11Z")

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WOW I’m suprised you sat there, I probably would have tried to push my door and knock him down or drive away and run him over. but then again, I am a nut case and you are not…

It sucks, good luck with everything. People like that need to get deleted from the jean pool. :gotme:

I’m not far from Fla, what part does he live in?

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**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/103 "2009-08-24T08:41:28Z")

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> [@TsiTalon](#):
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> thank you at least someone understands

Seriously life goes on. One time I was riding shotty in my friends car and a guy ran us off the road. Literally forced us up onto the curb. He was freaking out and I was trying to calm him down. He was about 45 250lbs 5’10" or so, yelling at my friend who is maybe 5’6" and 125 lbs. He was ready to punch my friend in the face, so I diverted his attention to me by blowing him kisses. He got uber mad and slapped me in the face. YES SLAPPED, I was bitch slapped. I laughed it off, and he moved his truck and we drove away. The entire thing was started because he thought we cut him off on purpose, when in reality an old lady pulled out in front of us and my friend made an evasive maneuver in order to miss the old lady. Life goes on.

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**Author:** ![Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blue_eyed_devil/32/7292_2.png) [@Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Blue_Eyed_Devil)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/104 "2009-08-24T08:42:15Z")

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pepperspray FTW.

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/105 "2009-08-24T08:43:29Z")

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$20 says he’s got domestic abuse on his record. Dudebro’s got a severe anger problem. That shit doesn’t just pop up out of nowhere.

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**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 8:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/106 "2009-08-24T08:49:39Z")

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> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#):
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> pepperspray FTW.

My fiancee always carries pepper spray even if she is packing. Non-lethal is so much better.

I always try to diffuse an anger situation, just because it is the right thing to do. Hell I usually have my Walther on my ankle, and a knife in my pocket, but I’ve never pulled either, even when some bum tried starting a fight with me in the city.

Diplomacy FTW.

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**Author:** ![TradersBASE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tradersbase/32/5321_2.png) [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/107 "2009-08-24T09:08:50Z")

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> [@TsiTalon](#):
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> as most of you can see im not a violent person at all, cause i never even thought to hitting him back. which sucks because he was about the same size as me and i probably could have taken him if i wanted to. legally it is probably better that i didnt get out of the car and defend myself… idk coulda woulda shoulda but i didnt do anything…

Take him on Judge Judy. She will humiliate the asshat, and compliment you on NOT getting out of the car and being the reasonable one.

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**Author:** ![pirite](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pirite/32/5308_2.png) [@pirite](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/pirite)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/108 "2009-08-24T09:16:49Z")

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> [@TradersBASE](#):
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> Take him on Judge Judy. She will humiliate the asshat, and compliment you on NOT getting out of the car and being the reasonable one.

:lol:

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**Author:** ![TradersBASE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tradersbase/32/5321_2.png) [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/109 "2009-08-24T09:20:53Z")

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> [@slow84ta](#):
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> WOW I’m suprised you sat there, I probably would have tried to push my door and knock him down or drive away and run him over. but then again, I am a nut case and you are not…
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> It sucks, good luck with everything. **People like that need to get deleted from the _jean_ pool.** :gotme:
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> I’m not far from Fla, what part does he live in?

I KEED, I KEED.

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**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/110 "2009-08-24T09:26:23Z")

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Holy shit. I can’t believe you’re taking this so well. If you’re not going to press charges, I would at least pay a little visit to him in FL if I were you. Get him when he least expects it…

When my bimmer was totaled by a sweet 45 year old douche bag I started running down the road chasing him. Hahaha. He will get what is coming to him one day. I have it all planned out…

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**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/111 "2009-08-24T09:30:42Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> Holy shit. I can’t believe you’re taking this so well. If you’re not going to press charges, I would at least pay a little visit to him in FL if I were you. Get him when he least expects it…
> 
> When my bimmer was totaled by a sweet 45 year old douche bag I started running down the road chasing him. Hahaha. He will get what is coming to him one day. I have it all planned out…

What are you going to rape him?

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**Author:** ![ericvw7989](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ericvw7989/32/5070_2.png) [@ericvw7989](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ericvw7989)\
**Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 9:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/112 "2009-08-24T09:48:48Z")

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8 punches to your head and you didnt throw one back?

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**Author:** ![08GT500](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/08gt500/32/5417_2.png) [@08GT500](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/08GT500)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 1:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/113 "2009-08-25T01:27:09Z")

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> [@TradersBASE](#):
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> Take him on Judge Judy. She will humiliate the asshat, and compliment you on NOT getting out of the car and being the reasonable one.

I hate that cunt. My wifey is always watching that show too.

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**Author:** ![TradersBASE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tradersbase/32/5321_2.png) [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 6:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/114 "2009-08-25T06:40:10Z")

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> [@08GT500](#):
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> I hate that cunt. My wifey is always watching that show too.

I love & hate her. She’s such a bitch but she’s right 9/10 times. I’d elect her for some kind of high office rank if she ran. She would likely end up corrupted as they all do but it would be our best shot. LOL

If your wife starts talking to you like Judge Judy or using all her sayings I’d get a divorce tho. I would NEVER go in her courtroom…I’d prolly be out for assault. haha

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**Author:** ![Nessuno3400](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nessuno3400/32/7228_2.png) [@Nessuno3400](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nessuno3400)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 8:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/115 "2009-08-25T08:04:44Z")

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always keep my torque wrench in my back seat FTMFW!

sucks to hear about this. I hope he gets his in return… maybe you can get someone to sabotage his bike and he will have an “accident” :snky:

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**Author:** ![TrueBlue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/trueblue/32/7245_2.png) [@TrueBlue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TrueBlue)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 8:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/116 "2009-08-25T08:39:58Z")

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Hamburg’s turning into the mean streets, I guess. Fuck.

Crazy story. I admire your reserve in not hammering him legally (I couldn’t) but I think you’re holding something back from this story. Obviously you don’t want to say, and that’s cool too, you’ve got reasons. Good luck in getting your car fixed up.

I have a 4 D-cell Maglite in my door pocket for situations similar to this, which, I’ve never had the pleasure of being part of.

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**Author:** ![frost12850](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/2acd7d/32.png) [@frost12850](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/frost12850)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 8:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/117 "2009-08-25T08:58:50Z")

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Im not sure how badly I woulda rolled this guy… or if I even would have period. What I do know is I wouldnt sit there and take 8 punches to the face. Roll up the window, block them, do something

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**Author:** ![Xander](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/xander/32/7597_2.png) [@Xander](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Xander)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 9:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/118 "2009-08-25T09:23:35Z")

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Hurt in a car call William Mattar?

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**Author:** ![fourseasonsandles](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/90ced4/32.png) [@fourseasonsandles](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fourseasonsandles)\
**Post date:** [August 25, 2009, 12:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/119 "2009-08-25T12:20:03Z")

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I agree that you should be pressing charges.

I had almost an identical situation happen to me less the punching/phone throwing. Guy got out of his car and was bitching. Something about being a Marine and he’d kill me, yadda yadda. It was winter and my window was up. I just sat there, let him yell and then drove off with him standing in the road.

I ran into the same guy a second time and he was acting all hard ass. I rolled my window down and asked him if he was a Marine, shouldnt he have some self control? He told me “not this Marine.” Long story short, I filed a PR in case I run into him again, it is on record. Heart rate was a little elevated, but I was literally twice the size of this guy and didnt think much of it. If he was mad enough he would have followed me as I was really close to home.

Either way, I probably wouldnt have done anything about it unless it got physical. I still would have pressed charges if it happened again.

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**Author:** ![TsiTalon](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tsitalon/32/5012_2.png) [@TsiTalon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TsiTalon)\
**Post date:** [August 26, 2009, 8:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/1-week-400-miles-long-read-victim-of-road-rage/72494/120 "2009-08-26T08:51:39Z")

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> [@TrueBlue](#):
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> Hamburg’s turning into the mean streets, I guess. Fuck.
> 
> Crazy story. I admire your reserve in not hammering him legally (I couldn’t) but I think you’re holding something back from this story. Obviously you don’t want to say, and that’s cool too, you’ve got reasons. Good luck in getting your car fixed up.
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> I have a 4 D-cell Maglite in my door pocket for situations similar to this, which, I’ve never had the pleasure of being part of.

not holding anything back except if i press charges and he is in florida they will not go and get him i will have to wait for him to come back to ny, and when he does they wont be looking for him i will have to wait for him to get caught again. im not gonna spend the next 5 years of my life worrying about some douche bag who hit me a couple times and taking him to court.

chances are we will have a court date ill show he wont, it will be rescheduled and then ill go he wont so on and so forth, you get the picture the police wont go to florida for a crime this small!

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