# 13 yr old dad??? **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [February 13, 2009, 6:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848 "2009-02-13T18:21:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 1:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/41 "2009-02-17T13:47:06Z")
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**Author:** ![tom\_vito](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tom_vito/32/6000_2.png) [@tom\_vito](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tom_vito)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 1:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/42 "2009-02-17T13:58:24Z")
> [@wtb: cheap tach for winterbeater](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/wtb-cheap-tach-for-winterbeater/39631/2): > > either you have a very mature 8 year old or my kid is very immature. > > My 7 year old still thinks that kissing girls is disgusting and girls in gereral are disgusting. I can’t imagine him changing in less than a year. not really overly marture, but mature enough to know he liked girls, and liked girls with blonde hair and bobbies. And by 10, there were plenty of girls in his school getting boobies. > [@X-box live gamertag thread\*\*edited with list\*\*](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/x-box-live-gamertag-thread-edited-with-list/22265/1185): > > I would have to agree. My dad gave me the “talk” when I was 10 and even then I thought it was disgusting and the whole idea kinda grossed me out. Maybe I was just too sheltered before that, but I didn’t really ever think about sex and stuff. I was too busy playing baseball and running around in the mud for that stuff to even cross my mind. Maybe times are different now? 😕 he does his share of football, track, and riding quads. All things that seem to attarct girls more these days. Hell the boy must be a man whore or something, he has had girls calling the house for him since 1st grade. Last I checked that was 6 years old. And by 8 years old he had girls asking him if he wanted a BJ, that was a major decideing factor for when he got the talk. I sorta figured I would rather him get the talk from me than some 8 year old girl that has watched way too much of the wrong TV shows when her parents were no where around to parent her. ---
**Author:** ![foxrus14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f05b48/32.png) [@foxrus14](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/foxrus14)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/43 "2009-02-17T14:00:15Z")
Chastity Belts… ---
**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/44 "2009-02-17T14:04:38Z")
[ame=“[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIXlwYoOV9k](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIXlwYoOV9k)”]YouTube - RIP George Carlin - Kids[/ame] ---
**Author:** ![OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/olds_rocketman/32/5942_2.png) [@OLDS\_ROCKETMAN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OLDS_ROCKETMAN)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/45 "2009-02-17T14:11:06Z")
i think fathers should teach their sons to treat a girl like theyd want someone to treat their own daughter someday. mothers need to stop teaching their daughters to be money grubbing whores. “any fool with a dick can make a baby but it takes a man to raise his children” furious styles( laurence fishburn) from boyz n tha hood ---
**Author:** ![neonracer01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/9fc348/32.png) [@neonracer01](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/neonracer01)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/46 "2009-02-17T14:14:21Z")
> [@77rednecktruck"](#): > > agreed, but once you have kids, your outlook on a lot of things instantly changes. At least it did for me. > > I do not want my kids to know about the shitty side of life right now, they have better things to occupy their time with. Like learning how to work a clutch on a dirtbike or how to beat the last level of mario on the Nintendo DS. Definatly!, im a better person since having kids. if i were to meet myself 10 years ago i would punch myself in the throat. i was an asshole for sure. Thats the same level of parenting im at… and agreed. ---
**Author:** ![Zack01GC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a183cd/32.png) [@Zack01GC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zack01GC)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/47 "2009-02-17T14:22:40Z")
And… George Carlin saves the thread. ---
**Author:** ![Zack01GC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a183cd/32.png) [@Zack01GC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zack01GC)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 2:23pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/48 "2009-02-17T14:23:57Z")
> [@Allow myself to introduce...myself](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/allow-myself-to-introduce-myself/39632/7): > > i think fathers should teach their sons to treat a girl like theyd want someone to treat their own daughter someday. mothers need to stop teaching their daughters to be money grubbing whores. > > “any fool with a dick can make a baby but it takes a man to raise his children” furious styles( laurence fishburn) from boyz n tha hood x2. And George Carlin FTW. ---
**Author:** ![Darkstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@Darkstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Darkstar)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 4:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/49 "2009-02-17T16:47:56Z")
> [@BMW 1 Series Discussion Thread (128i/135i)](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bmw-1-series-discussion-thread-128i-135i/39624/20): > > [YouTube - RIP George Carlin - Kids](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIXlwYoOV9k) w3rd ---
**Author:** ![foo714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/58956e/32.png) [@foo714](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/foo714)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 6:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/50 "2009-02-17T18:02:33Z")
here is what i think is going on, and feel free to disagree with me, i didn’t read through all the posts in this thread, but i read plenty of them. A lot of us on this forum are in at least our mid to late twenties, i for instance am twenty five. Nos if i think back twelve years ago or so, i was in 6th grade. Things were way different, i mean of course i snuck porno mags, hell my friends and i even got caught trading them back and forth in school ( you want to talk about embarassing?). But we were looking at mature women that had come into their own because the girls our age didn’t have boobs or the adult looks we liked. Now in todays world with kids being so much more advanced it’s not uncommon for a 6th grader to be way past a training bra, and wearing the kind of clothes she sees hoochies on MTV wearing. I have an 11 year old sister n law, and i think she is at any given time moments away from sex. When we were that young, that thought was the most far fetched fantasy we had. Today it is reality, kids are having sex, they are unable to control their hormones. They act out because of it. Watch an episode of maury or springer, or any of those daytime shows, young girls want to become pregnant, giving them selves away. They have no idea what they are getting themselves into. I am the proud parent of a 6 year old boy, and 10 month old girl, and i still don’t always know what i’m getting myself into with these kids. I think in this situation there is a lot of fault to be placed on the parents. I mean obviously there is no way a 13 year old can support a baby, it’s just not possible. So of course grandma and grandpa are going to have to save the day. And trust me i never think abortion should be the first thought, but in certain circumstances like rape, or a situation like this, perhaps that may have been the best route. I mean this new baby is going to be well into elementary school before dad can even go to a bar and have a drink. The dad will be trying to finish college and put money away for his kids college at the exact same time. It is an unfortunate circumstance for these young kids. I don’t feel that they were in the wrong for having sex, sex is natural, it is in our genetic makeup. Without it our species doesnt exist. And it was a one in a million chance that the girl would even get pregnant, but it happened. Kids are going to experiment, think back in your lives, to the first time you smoked a ciggarette, or tasted a beer, or your first kiss, it’s all experimenting, these kids just got a lowsy deal out of it. Had she not gotten pregnant, none of us would even know about them having sex. Think of it that way, it could have happened to a lot of us, luckily for myself it didn’t, and i didn’t have kids til i was slightly more prepared. Ok i’m starting to ramble. Have fun with your rebuttals. ---
**Author:** ![Darkstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@Darkstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Darkstar)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 9:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/51 "2009-02-17T21:33:22Z")
great response, minus citing springer and povich as a barometer for average human behavior. ---
**Author:** ![foo714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/58956e/32.png) [@foo714](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/foo714)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2009, 4:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/52 "2009-02-18T04:25:02Z")
true, now i know citing them wasn’t really take a cut from the norm, however there are plenty of people like that that never make it on those shows. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848.md?page=2)