# 13 yr old dad??? **URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848 **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic **Created:** [February 13, 2009, 6:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848 "2009-02-13T18:21:26Z") **Posts on this page:** 1 **Showing post:** 21
### Author: ![Darkstar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@Darkstar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Darkstar) #### Post date: [February 16, 2009, 11:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848/21 "2009-02-16T11:55:06Z")
> [@Motor Trend Test: New Sti](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/motor-trend-test-new-sti/39580/13): > > i dont think teenagers in general is a big shock the girl was 15 so thats not really too far from the normal i would think however 12 and 13 is a bit too young to be a father or should i say more like an older brother that tells you what to do. i dont blame video games, mtv,satan or even rap music but i do blame the parents because they are the ones that should be the final say into what their kids are subject to. i dont think kids are all fucked but thats all you ever hear about. if a kid is getting all A’s in school , never gets outta line you dont hear shit, but as soon one kid skips school one day and get caught with a cigarette ALL kids are having sex and doing coke at the play ground.both of my kids are great kids and do the right thing for the most part. ive been their friend and father and it seems to me you have to be both. there are some many variables when raising kids . you just need to be able to read your own kid , give them positive direction and trust them… if your a fucked up parent dont be surprised if little johnny has a drug problem at 14 and your daughter is a mother at 15. really its common sense and not really a big surprise at all. Meh. once you’re 12 or 13 you’re responsible for your own actions. You know right from wrong and how to act (assuming your parents aren’t TOTAL trash). > [@Buffalo Bills 2007 Season Discussion](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/buffalo-bills-2007-season-discussion/35063/779): > > omg i must have a bastard family. my dad worked for bell telephone as a lineman worked 5-6 days aweek easily 55-60 hours a week. my mom worked 5 days a week 50 hours or so only off sunday and wednesday. and i had sex at 13 years old. but i was lucky enough not to have kids. my parents are awesome parents and i fuckin turned out pretty damn good. went to college did good in highschool and college but i guess my parents sucked because i had sex at 13 and they worked alot. its all on the fuckin kid. just beat the sperm out of him with a hammer to the back of the head. all is well then. w3rd. Exactly what I was trying to say x 10 > [@Easy stats problem ...](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/easy-stats-problem/39619/6): > > how about if we pass a bill through legislation that will fund millions of dollars to hand out contraceptives to kids way too young to need them. I’m sure that will teach them proper morals and ethics, knowledge about sexual activity at a young and impressionable age and send them the right message about abstaining, with a pocket full of free government handed out condoms. > > :ugh2: :ugh2: How about we don’t do that instead. However, I love how we feel like sex is something we have to hide from kids, like that is doing them some sort of favor. It’s funny how this country views sex. Like it’s some horrible thing that we have to hide from everyone. It cant be on tv, you can’t talk about it openly, etc. Janet Jacksons wrinkled old titty came out at the super bowl for half a second and we have to have a sweeping overhaul of the FCC. Vehemently repressing the most primal and natural function of human behavior is not particularly good for your psyche either. I’m not going to hide anything from my kids. The world is a big bad scary place and they’re going to know about it from day one. --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/13-yr-old-dad/201848)._