# Am I an asshole because..

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**Category:** Shift518 Automotive\
**Created:** [March 2, 2009, 6:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/am-i-an-asshole-because/242520 "2009-03-02T18:43:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![Cliff](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b38774/32.png) [@Cliff](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Cliff)\
**Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 10:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/am-i-an-asshole-because/242520/53 "2009-03-02T22:47:40Z")

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> [@crx motor](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/crx-motor/14976/18):
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> Gotcha. Want to know what pissed me off tonight (i’m sure you’ve had it happen)…I was on my last set of dumbell presses, and this dude that I don’t know, or even had acknowledged his presence decides to come over and spot me…and then he laughed when I did the set until failure?!
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> Then to top it off, the bitch that runs the shitty ass local gym bitched that I ‘dropped’ the weights, and the dude was like ‘yeah I tried to help him’ and laughed, like I’m a fucking beginner or something…
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> I know he was just trying to help but he was making himself look stupid to anyone thats been to the gym more then 5 times…but how do you tell someone that…you can’t really. Just gotta let them figure it out, thats if they lift more then 3 times and quit.

Guys obviously a douche. I worked every set to failure… I dunno, I’d find it very strange if someone came up to me and tried spotting me without me knowing them. I also _HATE_ when someone I do not know asks me to spot them when I’m in the middle of a routine. Its like wtf? I have my own shit to do… friends I’m at the gym with, or friends that are there… if they ask, or help, thats fine. But a complete stranger? Cmon, gimme a break.

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