# best way to get over... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [August 25, 2006, 11:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497 "2006-08-25T23:12:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/21 "2006-08-26T08:18:00Z")
> [@BikerFry](#): > > Wow, I totally agree with Beck. Cut all ties and do your own thing while Dr. Time does his thing. of course you do. i’ve dumped more broads, than 90% of this forum has dated…combined. ---
**Author:** ![Locutus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/locutus/32/7574_2.png) [@Locutus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Locutus)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/22 "2006-08-26T08:19:17Z")
unless you want to work things out. cut off ALL communication with her. only way man only way ---
**Author:** ![MiniSRT4](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minisrt4/32/7225_2.png) [@MiniSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MiniSRT4)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/23 "2006-08-26T08:27:59Z")
this reminds me of when i broke up with my ex…but she decided to hook up with a couple of my frends, then become a faghag… that shit makes it easy…but id say just go out there do your own thing, if you wanna still be frends with her without it stirring up old feelings, then go for it, i mean its not easy to get over someone you care about… it just takes time, it took me FOREVER to get over my ex, but now we r really good frends and thats it…time is key dude, good luck ---
**Author:** ![Dr.Stevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/da6949/32.png) [@Dr.Stevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dr.Stevil)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/24 "2006-08-26T08:48:16Z")
go get drunk 🙂 helped me out quite a bit from the last evil woman 😃 ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/25 "2006-08-26T08:53:36Z")
like already said… the only constant is going to be time. now never post these type of lame threads again ---
**Author:** ![MiniSRT4](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minisrt4/32/7225_2.png) [@MiniSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MiniSRT4)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 8:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/26 "2006-08-26T08:56:01Z")
> [@SC\_Steve](#): > > go get drunk 🙂 helped me out quite a bit from the last evil woman 😃 yes yes, i became an alcholic too :lol: being drunk is more fun the feeling shitty 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![OfficerK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/4da419/32.png) [@OfficerK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OfficerK)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 9:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/27 "2006-08-26T09:20:29Z")
“nothing like a depresant to chase away the blues” ---
**Author:** ![RedGoober4Life](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redgoober4life/32/7610_2.png) [@RedGoober4Life](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedGoober4Life)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 9:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/28 "2006-08-26T09:28:38Z")
You write her a note and put it in her locker before homeroom. This is how Dolly and Whitney would have done it. Whitney never did crack. Crack is cheap… ![http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v332/jeepsrule1/IMG_4864.jpg](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v332/jeepsrule1/IMG_4864.jpg) fold it up like this so it’s confidential: ![http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v332/jeepsrule1/IMG_4868.jpg](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v332/jeepsrule1/IMG_4868.jpg) ---
**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 9:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/29 "2006-08-26T09:43:36Z")
rofl corey ---
**Author:** ![Zong](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zong/32/7580_2.png) [@Zong](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zong)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 10:06am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/30 "2006-08-26T10:06:39Z")
lol …yeah lol …burn? ---
**Author:** ![AfXtc777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@AfXtc777](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AfXtc777)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 10:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/31 "2006-08-26T10:18:38Z")
I could show her cousin this thread??? I’m sure that would get the point across I guess. that way she would hate you and you’d be forced too… ---
**Author:** ![Willybeen](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/willybeen/32/7351_2.png) [@Willybeen](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Willybeen)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 11:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/32 "2006-08-26T11:26:49Z")
R O F L @ corey… quality post… quality post… hahaha ---
**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 12:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/33 "2006-08-26T12:29:56Z")
oh corey. ---
**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 1:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/34 "2006-08-26T13:07:23Z")
haha take corey’s idea. but seriously, dont keep going back to her and falling right back into it. it will just continue to get worse… get out of it now and keep yourself occupied another way. it’s hard but it’ll work eventually. ---
**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 1:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/35 "2006-08-26T13:48:29Z")
keep trying to hack her myspace that way, you’ll at least lock her out, and she’ll suspect you - which will piss her off ---
**Author:** ![double\_j](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/double_j/32/7380_2.png) [@double\_j](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/double_j)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 3:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/36 "2006-08-26T15:33:14Z")
buy an old audi like i did when my ex and i broke up. you will be so busy maintaining it that you will forget you ever had a girlfriend. ---
**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 3:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/37 "2006-08-26T15:43:51Z")
> [@OfficerK](#): > > yeah there is a serious amount of vag on here for a car forum… > > honestly… > > Why would you ever come to a public forum to bitch about your relationship problems, walmart problems, may dog humps me problems etc etc etc > > that is what real friend are for, right sherm? dont fucking read it then if you are going to bitch… no one is forcing you. thanks for allthe help guys… its not going to be easy but im just going to stick it out and cut off all contact… ---
**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 3:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/38 "2006-08-26T15:45:46Z")
> [@AfXtc777](#): > > I could show her cousin this thread??? > I’m sure that would get the point across I guess. > that way she would hate you and you’d be forced too… no… you hbave no idea who i am talking about…this is a no-name thread.got it? :2fingers: haha…btw…we dont need anymore drama…i think i came off the wrong way…shes not obsesive at all. she has nto called me all day… and i have not spoke to her…she is in the same boat i am…where it is healthier to just stay away. ---
**Author:** ![JEG](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jeg/32/7246_2.png) [@JEG](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JEG)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 3:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/39 "2006-08-26T15:59:20Z")
> [@Minglor](#): > > Yeah. > Just look at how much it helped your spelling! no thats not the alcohal, thats because I’ve been poping lortab like pez for the last month. 😛 Thank god you have never made a spelling mistake. I have something to strive for. ---
**Author:** ![whitenblue](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/da6949/32.png) [@whitenblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/whitenblue)\ **Post date:** [August 26, 2006, 4:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497/40 "2006-08-26T16:06:02Z")
im in that boat with ya… i broke off my engagement to my fiance cuz he did too much shit, lied about too much, etc… absence makes the heart grow founder, or it just makes u realize how much you really dont need that person in your life… time is key. surround yourself with your friends, go out, meet new people [not hookup, but mingle, see whats out there]… take some time to think without too many distractions… go for a drive at 3am for no reason to think… ur gonna go 1 of 2 ways- either u two will find your way back to eachother if its meant to be, or ur gonna find yourself happier without her and chuckle about how much you put up with for no good reason. i hope it all works out for ya… life isnt over just cuz u break up with someone. goodluck 🙂 [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/best-way-to-get-over/16497.md?page=3)