# Bus monitor bullied **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 21, 2012, 6:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041 "2012-06-21T06:52:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blue_eyed_devil/32/7292_2.png) [@Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Blue_Eyed_Devil)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 10:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/61 "2012-06-21T10:50:55Z")
Again back to the fear of God. 🙂 ^^Some kids would rather stay after than go home to their crappy homelife… sad. ---
**Author:** ![TradersBASE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tradersbase/32/5321_2.png) [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/62 "2012-06-21T11:02:47Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > Again back to the fear of God. 🙂 > > ^^Some kids would rather stay after than go home to their crappy homelife… sad. I don’t believe in a “god” (nor was I ever made to) yet I feel I behave in a pretty moral fashion. To behave morally is to just behave. If you’re behaving out of fear of punishment (hell) or the lure of a reward (heaven) you’re not really behaving morally. That said I don’t begrudge religion and I do think some people require the guidance of explicit rules. At the end of the day whatever gets people to understand and stop impeding on the free will of others will make me happy. ---
**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/63 "2012-06-21T11:03:32Z")
> [@Motocrossx23](#): > > Why I’m not bothering to find another teaching job next year? Hmm. > > Kids are a lost cause. > > You know what we have to do when our students act up like this? We write an incident report and send them to the front office. 99% of the time they get after school detention and are back in the classroom the next day or so. What do they learn? If you act up, we make you stay 45 mins extra after school and you get to do your homework. > > Bullshit. FUck that … It was 2 hours after and the disciplinarian teacher was a scary as fuck Vietnam vet. He wouldn’t hesitate to throw you around the room if you deserved it. ---
**Author:** ![OriginalSterm](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/originalsterm/32/4964_2.png) [@OriginalSterm](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OriginalSterm)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/64 "2012-06-21T11:04:09Z")
I’d be embarrassed if any of those kids were mine. Any word on what action the school might take against them (if any)? Suspensions? Expulsion? Detention? Do nothing because that’s what schools do? ---
**Author:** ![JayS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jays/32/15375_2.png) [@JayS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JayS)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/65 "2012-06-21T11:25:05Z")
The school says they will face the maximum punishment allowed under their handbook once an investigation is complete. The police have said they will not press any charges, at the request of the bus monitor. At this point if I was her I’d be calling the little bastards laughing “who’s poor now you little shit, you just made me 1/4 million dollars”. ---
**Author:** ![Jagermeister](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f19dbf/32.png) [@Jagermeister](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jagermeister)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/66 "2012-06-21T11:56:49Z")
While I do not condone anything that those kids said, what exactly was she “Monitoring”? Looks like she just gets sympathy pay from the school district to ride around on a school bus. The next story could easily be the school district being sued because a student beat the crap out of another and the bus monitor was unable to perform the duties of their job and control the situation. It’s a sad, sad world. ---
**Author:** ![rugsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rugsr/32/7474_2.png) [@rugsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rugsr)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/67 "2012-06-21T11:59:06Z")
lol she should make a video of her “making it rain” with all that money ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 11:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/68 "2012-06-21T11:59:55Z")
> [@Jagermeister](#): > > While I do not condone anything that those kids said, what exactly was she “Monitoring”? Looks like she just gets sympathy pay from the school district to ride around on a school bus. The next story could easily be the school district being sued because a student beat the crap out of another and the bus monitor was unable to perform the duties of their job and control the situation. > > It’s a sad, sad world. I think its more so the bus driver can focus on the driving part and the monitor is there to tell kids to sit down and stuff. I am assuming not all buses have them and this bus already is full of winners. With all that money, it will be very interesting to see if she goes back to work and really likes her job or if she says “Fuck you kids” and enjoys her life. ---
**Author:** ![drvnkd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drvnkd/32/109615_2.png) [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 12:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/69 "2012-06-21T12:26:41Z")
People do not drive busses or aid bus drivers because they like kids. They do it for a little extra money in retirement. If they liked kids, there are more than enough activities they could volunteer their time toward that might actually help society rather than act as an authoritarian figure so the bus driver does not have to pull over every few minutes. IMO, if there is an aid on a bus, that bus should be a shining example of zero tolerance for shitty behavior. If you give kids an inch, they will walk all over you. They are like really smart dogs. ---
**Author:** ![Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blue_eyed_devil/32/7292_2.png) [@Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Blue_Eyed_Devil)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 12:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/70 "2012-06-21T12:38:56Z")
> [@TradersBASE](#): > > I don’t believe in a “god” (nor was I ever made to) yet I feel I behave in a pretty moral fashion. To behave morally is to just behave. If you’re behaving out of fear of punishment (hell) or the lure of a reward (heaven) you’re not really behaving morally. > That said I don’t begrudge religion and I do think some people require the guidance of explicit rules. At the end of the day whatever gets people to understand and stop impeding on the free will of others will make me happy. Not to get off topic but, whether you know it or not you are living by God’s Morals. Morals don’t exist without God. Otherwise you just fear prison. lol ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/71 "2012-06-21T13:07:21Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > Morals don’t exist without God. > Otherwise you just fear prison. lol FUCK. THAT. I believe in no god whatsoever. I just treat others as I want to be treated (sort of), because I’m not a huge dick and it makes me feel good to respect others (to an extent) ---
**Author:** ![jay\_g](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jay_g/32/111288_2.png) [@jay\_g](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jay_g)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/72 "2012-06-21T13:09:40Z")
> [@Motocrossx23](#): > > Why I’m not bothering to find another teaching job next year? Hmm. > > Kids are a lost cause. > > You know what we have to do when our students act up like this? We write an incident report and send them to the front office. 99% of the time they get after school detention and are back in the classroom the next day or so. What do they learn? If you act up, we make you stay 45 mins extra after school and you get to do your homework. > > Bullshit. My g/f takes kids down puts them in holds when they act up in her class. She works for the Folk school system so its different than public school. They have councilors walking the halls which is just another name for body guards. Its amazing how crazy a 3rd grader can be. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/73 "2012-06-21T13:16:33Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > Not to get off topic but, whether you know it or not you are living by God’s Morals. Morals don’t exist without God. > Otherwise you just fear prison. lol You’re either too close minded or too enlightened for this discussion. I’m not sure which. Depends on what “God” means to you. ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/74 "2012-06-21T13:27:14Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > Not to get off topic but, whether you know it or not you are living by God’s Morals. Morals don’t exist without God. Your are saying that they need religion to be good people? Lets look back at history and show the good values that relegion has instilled in people: ![http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/04/WBC_20051202_sacco-topeka5.jpg/220px-WBC_20051202_sacco-topeka5.jpg](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/3X/3/f/3f2ef8d70d64be905e396977727d216d2cc282aa.jpeg) ![http://i.ytimg.com/vi/a4D9C62l6RE/0.jpg](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/3X/7/d/7d7ce80db4e3a579123af5aaa298fd3748f3b7ca.jpeg) ![http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_51-Q8QAJcQw/S6whfd8E2yI/AAAAAAAAH7U/tpyAYqzPYh4/s1600/Picture+4.png](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/3X/7/3/73915504c2f894803e9819802de74d59bc695259.png) ---
**Author:** ![Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blue_eyed_devil/32/7292_2.png) [@Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Blue_Eyed_Devil)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/75 "2012-06-21T13:34:31Z")
I didn’t say all religion. I really don’t want to try to convince people to believe in God in this thread. ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/76 "2012-06-21T13:36:24Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > I didn’t say all religion. I really don’t want to try to convince people to believe in God in this thread. Oh so now you are the determining factor of what religion is good and what is bad? ---
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/77 "2012-06-21T13:38:07Z")
And then this thread got awesome ---
**Author:** ![jt76](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jt76/32/5100_2.png) [@jt76](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jt76)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/78 "2012-06-21T13:40:21Z")
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**Author:** ![TradersBASE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tradersbase/32/5321_2.png) [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/79 "2012-06-21T13:41:31Z")
> [@Blue Eyed Devil](#): > > Not to get off topic but, whether you know it or not you are living by God’s Morals. Morals don’t exist without God. > Otherwise you just fear prison. lol I don’t fear or believe in any “god” personally. At times I may be considered spiritual but not religious. I freely acknowledge both what I DO and what I DO NOT know, I’m all about balance. I don’t want to debate evolution NOR religion because who the fuck is truly qualified to sell either stance with 100% evidence & conviction? I respect you and agree to disagree & just leave it at this. 🙂 > [@newman](#): > > FUCK. > THAT. > > I believe in no god whatsoever. **I just treat others as I want to be treated** (sort of), _because I’m not a huge dick and it makes me feel good to respect others_ (to an extent) The bold I agree…the golden rule sounds cliche to some but it simply boils down to free will and respecting humanity for me. The italic…:tif:. Of course I don’t know you personally and perhaps your online persona shows you in a different light, as does mine. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 1:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041/80 "2012-06-21T13:56:54Z")
> [@TradersBASE](#): > > The italic…:tif:. Of course I don’t know you personally and perhaps your online persona shows you in a different light, as does mine. I don’t like to see people hurt, physically or emotionally. While I may be rude and a bit insensitive at times, I think it’s a combination of me not realizing how much people take things that are said by people they don’t know to heart (my fault) and a them needing to harden the fuck up. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041.md?page=3) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/bus-monitor-bullied/224041.md?page=5)