# can men and women be friends?
**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [October 19, 2008, 12:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713 "2008-10-19T12:04:42Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
**Page:** 2
### Author:  [@MOBOOST4U](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MOBOOST4U)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 3:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/21 "2008-10-19T15:31:12Z")
> [@articzap](#):
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> Since you had your penis offed, give me the numbers to the girls you use to talk too.
No… im still gonna be a lesbo!
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### Author:  [@articzap](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/articzap)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 3:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/22 "2008-10-19T15:33:11Z")
:lol:
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### Author:  [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 3:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/23 "2008-10-19T15:35:37Z")
not possible.
i had this talk with a friend of mine the other day
i either fall for the girl, or they fall for me, or there is no connection at all, there is absolutely no gray territory.
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### Author:  [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 3:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/24 "2008-10-19T15:40:46Z")
i ususally dont try to be friends with them, other than having a few for slam pieces.
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### Author:  [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 3:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/25 "2008-10-19T15:40:57Z")
gtfo of your relationship. she is a jealous one.
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### Author:  [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 5:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/26 "2008-10-19T17:26:28Z")
The only reason your girlfriend says it is impossible, is because she fucks all of her guy friends behind your back. Or, she has done that before with guy friends, and she’s had more dicks in her mouth than a porn star
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### Author:  [@Resurrected\_J](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Resurrected_J)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 5:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/27 "2008-10-19T17:38:34Z")
as said above she said one person has fallen for the other. Now in my case i have a friend who’s a girl whom i’ve been friends with for over 10years now w/ no thoughts of ever anything happening between the two of us. Now of course that friendship is a different kind then that of my good guy friends. And she is not really a jelous girl at all if she was she’d be out the door 😉
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### Author:  [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 6:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/28 "2008-10-19T18:15:09Z")
> [@Gus](#):
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> She’s a jealous bitch and doesn’t want you talking to other women
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> /thread
+1
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### Author:  [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 6:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/29 "2008-10-19T18:18:44Z")
i agree with punk ass layzie.
yes they can but only if they’ve had sex already … it takes it out of the equation…
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### Author:  [@layzie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/layzie)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 6:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/30 "2008-10-19T18:44:27Z")
> [@Freek](#):
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> yes they can but only if they’ve had sex already … it takes it out of the equation…
REPOST
> [@layzie](#):
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> yes, if you already fucked the girl
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### Author:  [@ineedacar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ineedacar)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 8:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/31 "2008-10-19T20:58:39Z")
> [@Gus](#):
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> She’s a jealous bitch and doesn’t want you talking to other women
That, or she’s hinting that she’s a huge slut
now, /thread
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### Author:  [@Schema](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Schema)
#### Post date: [October 19, 2008, 9:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/32 "2008-10-19T21:07:20Z")
Well, truth be told, my best friend has (always) been a girl. Never had a problem.
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### Author:  [@91CRXSI](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91CRXSI)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 12:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/33 "2008-10-20T12:57:42Z")
im voting a big NO.
tell me this. Your GF starts talking about her new friend (insert guys name). How would you feel about that? You’d instantly figure the guy’s tryin to bang her… because you know if you meet a new girl the only reason you’re talking to her and hanging out with her is b/c you wanna bang…
guys usualy understand this… im surprised its not your GF that thinks girls can have friends that are guys and you saying it never works.
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### Author:  [@justa4door](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/justa4door)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/34 "2008-10-20T13:00:43Z")
lol i dont even have to answer
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### Author:  [@Syrup](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Syrup)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/35 "2008-10-20T13:04:14Z")
the answer is clearly no.
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### Author:  [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/36 "2008-10-20T13:07:34Z")
i don’t think it’s that she is a jealous bitch… p.s that was rude to say… anyways i think that guys are always looking for more than just a friend, i also believe that girls are very untrustworthy, it’s not that i don’t trust my boyfriend it’s that i don’t trust other girls around him… that’s why i only have a few girl friends, because in the end girls suck.
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### Author:  [@Schema](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Schema)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/37 "2008-10-20T13:11:10Z")
Oh shit, is that OP’s GF? ^^^ BUSTED!
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### Author:  [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/38 "2008-10-20T13:15:24Z")
no im nones girl friend on here im a girl friend tho and im just sayin…
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### Author:  [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:19pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/39 "2008-10-20T13:19:01Z")
> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> i don’t think it’s that she is a jealous bitch… p.s that was rude to say… anyways i think that guys are always looking for more than just a friend, i also believe that girls are very untrustworthy, it’s not that i don’t trust my boyfriend it’s that i don’t trust other girls around him… that’s why i only have a few girl friends, because in the end girls suck.
Whats rude about it?
You don’t like girls as friends, you don’t like your bf having girls for friends… And that is the basis of this question. A guy should not even be thinking about a question like this, but unfortunately women need to over analyze every detail because in the end it’s the woman that is having trust issues.
And that would be you.
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### Author:  [@Silver](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Silver)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:19pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/40 "2008-10-20T13:19:07Z")
L.O.L.
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