# can men and women be friends?

**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [October 19, 2008, 12:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713 "2008-10-19T12:04:42Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![Schema](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/779978/32.png) [@Schema](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Schema)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/41 "2008-10-20T13:22:24Z")

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:bigclap:

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/42 "2008-10-20T13:30:00Z")

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whats rude is the fact that you would call someone a jealous bitch… that is what is rude and we may over analyze things because you fuck nuts make us feel like we should… because all men are pigs, and pricks.

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### Author: ![Gus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gus/32/5112_2.png) [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/43 "2008-10-20T13:37:06Z")

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> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> whats rude is the fact that you would call someone a jealous bitch… that is what is rude and we may over analyze things because you fuck nuts make us feel like we should… because all men are pigs, and pricks.

I’m a very good boyfriend. I would never think of cheating, I have 100% trust in my gf, and we have been together for almost a year now. Don’t try to make me look like the bad guy, just because of my sex.

:banghead: holy repost… here we go again.

I am a prick… No, I’m a complete dick, but I will always stand up for my woman, and treat her with respect. & I am a pig. I drink beer, look at porn, and love being lazy.

And you know what… We have fun, she loves cars, going fast, and she puts out.

:gotme:

…She is also 2 years older than me, and a lot more mature than yourself.

Now go make me a samich.

-Gus

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/44 "2008-10-20T13:40:47Z")

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> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> whats rude is the fact that you would call someone a jealous bitch… that is what is rude and we may over analyze things because you fuck nuts make us feel like we should… because all men are pigs, and pricks.

n00dz?

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### Author: ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/45 "2008-10-20T13:41:43Z")

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n00dz!

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/46 "2008-10-20T13:41:50Z")

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i never said you were a bad boyfriend holy christ i don’t even know your prick ass… and you don’t know me so don’t sit here and try to compare your gf to me because you don’t know anything about me…and i trust my boyfriend… i just don’t trust other cunts around him… and i like cars and i like to go fast… and i am mature thanks so much… and fucker get off your lazy piece of shit ass and make your own “samich” or call your mommy to make you one dick… or better yet call your bitch and have her make you one!

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### Author: ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/47 "2008-10-20T13:43:33Z")

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> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> i never said you were a bad boyfriend holy christ i don’t even know your prick ass… and you don’t know me so don’t sit here and try to compare your gf to me because you don’t know anything about me…and i trust my boyfriend… i just don’t trust other cunts around him… and i like cars and i like to go fast… and i am mature thanks so much… and fucker get off your lazy piece of shit ass and make your own “samich” or call your mommy to make you one dick… or better yet call your bitch and have her make you one!

Fast girls :tup:

If your boyfriend hangs out with other girls who are “cunts” whats that make you??? The lucky cunt?

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/48 "2008-10-20T13:45:23Z")

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> [@LZ](#):
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> Fast girls :tup:
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> If your boyfriend hangs out with other girls who are “cunts” whats that make you??? The lucky cunt?

:lol:

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/49 "2008-10-20T13:47:24Z")

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i guess so.

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### Author: ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/50 "2008-10-20T13:47:45Z")

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Do you also have daddy issues???

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/51 "2008-10-20T13:48:21Z")

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what do you mean daddie issues?

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/52 "2008-10-20T13:49:52Z")

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> [@Gus](#):
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> I’m a very good boyfriend. I would never think of cheating, I have 100% trust in my gf, and we have been together for almost a year now. Don’t try to make me look like the bad guy, just because of my sex.
> 
> :banghead: holy repost… here we go again.
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> I am a prick… No, I’m a complete dick, but I will always stand up for my woman, and treat her with respect. & I am a pig. I drink beer, look at porn, and love being lazy.
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> And you know what… We have fun, she loves cars, going fast, and she puts out.
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> :gotme:
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> …She is also 2 years older than me, and a lot more mature than yourself.
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> Now go make me a samich.
> 
> -Gus

and wow a year holy shit that’s a real fucking long time… not!

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### Author: ![Gus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gus/32/5112_2.png) [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/53 "2008-10-20T13:52:28Z")

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> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> i never said you were a bad boyfriend holy christ i don’t even know your prick ass… and you don’t know me so don’t sit here and try to compare your gf to me because you don’t know anything about me…and i trust my boyfriend… i just don’t trust other cunts around him… and i like cars and i like to go fast… and i am mature thanks so much… and fucker get off your lazy piece of shit ass and make your own “samich” or call your mommy to make you one dick… or better yet call your bitch and have her make you one!

:mamoru:

Listen, if I wanted to here some bullshit, I would go read some threads started by Just Karter. You gave your opinion, but also called me out.

If you trusted your boyfriend you shouldn’t care about any other “cunts” that are around him. Thats not too mature now calling any other girl that just happens to breathe his name a “cunt.”

…BRB

Now that I have a beer and can do some thinking…

Does your bf have any friends that happen to be girls? Not really anymore?  
I believe that he does, but just avoids talk/conversation about them to get around the 10 questions that follow.

I’d be afraid of you too…

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### Author: ![walter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/walter/32/7202_2.png) [@walter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/walter)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/54 "2008-10-20T13:53:32Z")

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> [@MOBOOST4U](#):
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> Other than sex, and maybe acceptance, I really see no way a girl can ever provide a better relationship to you than a guy can (no homo).
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> Is there a reason no girls have hobbies these days… I find all chicks are interested in, is shitty TV shows, and talking about their relationships to others (gossip mostly). This is an obvious statement but this is also the reason why I will never be able to be friends with girls. I have a few friends who are girls but never would I value those friendships anywhere near where I would put my top guy friends (no homo). I just cant talk about other people all day… Girls just have no substance!

This sounds like a problem with hanging out with girls instead of women.

This thread reaks of the actual age of the posters on this board.

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### Author: ![Pass\_McGass](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pass_mcgass/32/7616_2.png) [@Pass\_McGass](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pass_McGass)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/55 "2008-10-20T13:56:15Z")

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I don’t feel like reading all the replies in this thread, because most guys are jealous assholes, anyway.

The answer is yes, they can. Of course, you will run into a situation where one of the 2 in the relationship has feelings for the other, but it is possible to just be friends.

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/56 "2008-10-20T13:56:47Z")

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> [@Gus](#):
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> :mamoru:
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> Listen, if I wanted to here some bullshit, I would go read some threads started by Just Karter. You gave your opinion, but also called me out.
> 
> If you trusted your boyfriend you shouldn’t care about any other “cunts” that are around him. Thats not too mature now calling any other girl that just happens to breathe his name a “cunt.”
> 
> …BRB
> 
> Now that I have a beer and can do some thinking…
> 
> Does your bf have any friends that happen to be girls? Not really anymore?  
> I believe that he does, but just avoids talk/conversation about them to get around the 10 questions that follow.
> 
> I’d be afraid of you too…

he does talk to other girls it just so happen that he doesn’t talk to a few of them anymore and thats because one of my best friends told him that i stole him away from her… so if you had a girl friend and she said that your present girl friend stole you away from her your girl friend would still b ok with you talking and hanging out with that girl?

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/57 "2008-10-20T13:58:41Z")

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so wait…you were the cunt that stole him away? :mamoru:

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 1:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/58 "2008-10-20T13:58:44Z")

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> [@Pass McGass](#):
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> I don’t feel like reading all the replies in this thread, because most guys are jealous assholes, anyway.
> 
> The answer is yes, they can. Of course, you will run into a situation where one of the 2 in the relationship has feelings for the other, but it is possible to just be friends.

:word:

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### Author: ![TaylorA.69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e79b87/32.png) [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/59 "2008-10-20T14:00:40Z")

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im just trying to say that it doesn’t mean that she is jealous… it may just make her uncomfortable… and you should just b okay with that… or compromise some how…if you have the undying need to be friends with women

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### Author: ![blewbyu](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blewbyu/32/5055_2.png) [@blewbyu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blewbyu)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/60 "2008-10-20T14:01:12Z")

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> [@Eazy716](#):
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> so wait…you were the cunt that stole him away? :mamoru:

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