# can men and women be friends?
**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [October 19, 2008, 12:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713 "2008-10-19T12:04:42Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
**Page:** 5
### Author:  [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/81 "2008-10-20T14:27:17Z")
> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> FUCK YOU… and my boyfriend and i will not be just another statistic because we have gone through a lot and we are still together after almost 3 years so go fuck yourself, or get your cunt to do it for you
I’d hate to meet the poor sob you’re speaking for…
And your run on sentence doesn’t even make sense… Did you drop out of high school, or even plan on making a contribution to society some day?
Or on the contrary… You really do, let him “fill ya up” every night, shut up, and just look good. (for now)
Seriously bring something to the table or shut up. (nudes)
\<3 Gus
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### Author:  [@turbo\_ls1\_ss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/turbo_ls1_ss)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/82 "2008-10-20T14:27:34Z")
wow…
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### Author:  [@blewbyu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blewbyu)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/83 "2008-10-20T14:27:57Z")
> [@Bsp TC](#):
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> wait, what are these girls doing posting anyways
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> its almost 5:30 shouldn’t you all be in the kitchen preparing dinner?
just made steaks on the grill… i prefer charcoal instead of gas grill for my steaks… done medium… if thats ok with u. wanna come over for dinner… i made extra:)
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### Author:  [@burnt\_toast](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/burnt_toast)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/84 "2008-10-20T14:29:00Z")
> [@blewbyu](#):
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> just made steaks on the grill… i prefer charcoal instead of gas grill for my steaks… done medium… if thats ok with u. wanna come over for dinner… i made extra:)
i fucking love steak!
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### Author:  [@Bsp\_TC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bsp_TC)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/85 "2008-10-20T14:30:01Z")
> [@blewbyu](#):
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> just made steaks on the grill… i prefer charcoal instead of gas grill for my steaks… done medium… if thats ok with u. wanna come over for dinner… i made extra:)
deal…
but my steaks just got finished cooking too
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### Author:  [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/86 "2008-10-20T14:30:40Z")
> [@blewbyu](#):
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> just made steaks on the grill… i prefer charcoal instead of gas grill for my steaks… done medium… if thats ok with u. wanna come over for dinner… i made extra:)
if you get it at the most mid rare, men will like you more 😉
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### Author:  [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/87 "2008-10-20T14:31:20Z")
> [@burnt\_toast](#):
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> i fucking love steak!
2+ If not already “2+'ed” by now.
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### Author:  [@burnt\_toast](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/burnt_toast)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/88 "2008-10-20T14:32:42Z")
> [@Gus](#):
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> 2+ If not already “2+'ed” by now.
It’s steak, it can be 2+'ed alllll week long.
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### Author:  [@Syrup](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Syrup)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/89 "2008-10-20T14:33:44Z")
> [@TaylorA.69](#):
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> whats rude is the fact that you would call someone a jealous bitch… that is what is rude and we may over analyze things because you fuck nuts make us feel like we should… because all men are pigs, and pricks.
all girls are lieing sluts too though. even if you are with them \>2 yrs and think otherwise
I was a good b/f though lol
for 3 months ☹
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### Author:  [@blewbyu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blewbyu)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/90 "2008-10-20T14:34:51Z")
> [@Freek](#):
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> if you get it at the most mid rare, men will like you more 😉
i bet i got a few thick ones that are about med rare. its all yours.
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### Author:  [@blewbyu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blewbyu)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/91 "2008-10-20T14:35:32Z")
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### Author:  [@TaylorA.69](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TaylorA.69)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/92 "2008-10-20T14:39:31Z")
> [@burnt\_toast](#):
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> those look like letters and numbers. not noodz. :banghead:
shut the fuck up
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### Author:  [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/93 "2008-10-20T14:40:45Z")
I think guys and girls can just be friends.
I’ve always been partial to only having guy friends. Girls suck.
But yeah, I ended up hooking up with a select few, and am still friends with them, but JUST friends now. With those ones though, there was sexual tension right from the start. So it was innevitable.
Then there are plenty more that I never did and never ever would touch. I’ve had more guy roomates then girls…and nothing ever happened with those ones.
Am I rambling?
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### Author:  [@fbrendan](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fbrendan)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/94 "2008-10-20T14:40:54Z")
LOL. Quality thread.
I voted I don’t give a shit. I have mixed thoughts on the OPs question. It’s complicated… And really, who gives a shit?
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### Author:  [@Gus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gus)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/95 "2008-10-20T14:46:03Z")
I’m leaving the house ☹
byebye bitches
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### Author:  [@blewbyu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blewbyu)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 2:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/96 "2008-10-20T14:48:52Z")
I am going to drink a beer after this thread. peace
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### Author:  [@turbociv](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/turbociv)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 3:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/97 "2008-10-20T15:07:22Z")
bah, wtf. i read 4 pages of crap and no nudez. ☹ wtf is wrong with this place.
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### Author:  [@MOBOOST4U](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MOBOOST4U)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 3:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/98 "2008-10-20T15:25:45Z")
> [@walter](#):
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> This sounds like a problem with hanging out with girls instead of women.
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> This thread reaks of the actual age of the posters on this board.
Listen… Im only 20 but I work/flirt with girls who are upwards of 24 (Girls working on their masters and bachelors ect), And even in those conversations, all I can get out of them is more articulate and better structured conversations about gossip and the newest hip hop trends and ect. I have dated and been with girls my age and a lot younger too, and in the end… I just see almost every girl as the same. Obviously thats not to say much as im young and have yet to mingle with 30 year olds and such, but I cant see it being much more different.
I would say 3 out of the top 100 people I have ever met in my life who earn the most respect from me are women, and one is my mom so thats just a shitty bias.
Women are stupid and have no attention spans, therefore makings them lesser humans, and when you factor in their emotional instability, they are 95% less effective than men in anything imho. Thats why there are so few women CEO’s, Government Officials, and other high ranking jobs. Even women who do accel in well paying jobs, are usually in task based positions that dont involve creativity to yield better results for a companys, a jobs, or even the worlds benefit. (eg.A lot of women are doctors right, which obviously takes a long time to become and a great deal of work, but how many innovative momen doctors do you see creating groundbreaking ways to preform a surgery or to replace old outdated techniques[SIZE=2][FONT="]? Lets just[/SIZE][/FONT] say you see a lot more men doing it.)
Granted men have kept women down unrightfully for years, and still do to a point, but they are still just mentally a few centurys behind men… its science lol.
Id so be gay if it wasnt for the gaybuttsex and gayblowjobs part…
In responce to the last 2 pages of arguing… yeah guys have a shitty rap for cheating and they should because most guys are scumbags imho… But at the same time for all the good ones out there… there are a lot of shitty girls too, not as many, but a lot so there is no reason a girl should not worry about infidellity just based on the overall concencious of american men.
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### Author:  [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 3:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/99 "2008-10-20T15:44:26Z")
but not every girl is a girly-girl who only cares about fashion and gossip. :shrug:
perhaps we are few and far between…but it’s not fair to say every single girl is like that, just as well not every single guy is a scumbag.
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### Author:  [@94excivic](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/94excivic)
#### Post date: [October 20, 2008, 3:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/can-men-and-women-be-friends/56713/100 "2008-10-20T15:49:26Z")
:bigclap: this thread
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