# Cheating or Not? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [May 20, 2009, 6:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094 "2009-05-20T18:40:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/1 "2009-05-20T18:40:04Z")
Since a majority of this board is guys, I figured this would be a good place to ask my question. If your girlfriend was out with her friends at the bars drinking and made out with her best friend (who is also a girl), would you consider this cheating? And no, this has nothing to do with me. It was brought up among friends, and I was wondering what you guys think. ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/2 "2009-05-20T18:47:10Z")
no ---
**Author:** ![Hass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/51bf81/32.png) [@Hass](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Hass)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/3 "2009-05-20T18:48:56Z")
Katy Perry yo? I remember once this girl I knew, said it was perfectly acceptable for someone that is Bisexual to have one boyfriend, and one girlfriend. I was like, Uhm… okay… sure. Eh, I’d be annoyed tbh. Probably pissed too. Depends if she told me or I found out on my own. Err too many variables. and im overthinking it. /done ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/4 "2009-05-20T18:51:14Z")
Told you. And IS NOT bisexual. Completely straight. ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_T](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mr_t/32/7454_2.png) [@Mr\_T](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mr_T)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/5 "2009-05-20T18:58:48Z")
Eh Idk if id call it cheating exactly. But yea it would def be annoying. That shit was cool back in high school watching drunken whores make out and shit but now a days im more concerned with me making out with them myself. It would piss me off if I was dating a girl doing that,but Id just figure it as an excuse to Mack it up with a broad at a bar or party then and not feel guilty. ---
**Author:** ![Hass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/51bf81/32.png) [@Hass](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Hass)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 6:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/6 "2009-05-20T18:59:09Z")
> [@dawn](#): > > Told you. > And IS NOT bisexual. Completely straight. I know, I was making the assumption from the standpoint of my current relationship. ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 7:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/7 "2009-05-20T19:05:29Z")
if it happens once, then it’s okay… ---
**Author:** ![Beck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/beck/32/28683_2.png) [@Beck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Beck)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 7:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/8 "2009-05-20T19:06:35Z")
meh, any girl that i would date would have her shit together enough to not be doing any of the described. :gotme: ---
**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 7:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/9 "2009-05-20T19:25:55Z")
Cheating. No. Trashy? Yes. ---
**Author:** ![Justin](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justin/32/7459_2.png) [@Justin](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Justin)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/10 "2009-05-20T20:07:43Z")
As long as she is kising another girl I’m fine with it. ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/11 "2009-05-20T20:07:46Z")
I dig it…just bring the friend home and carry on. ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/12 "2009-05-20T20:37:35Z")
it would be cool if she asked a text message saying “I’m about to kiss a girl. Should I?” could NEVER hurt. Guys like to feel in control 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![66impalass](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/66impalass/32/7429_2.png) [@66impalass](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/66impalass)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/13 "2009-05-20T20:39:35Z")
Depends on the hotness of the other female in question. ---
**Author:** ![91MR2](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/91mr2/32/7217_2.png) [@91MR2](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91MR2)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/14 "2009-05-20T20:45:10Z")
I voted that I would not consider it “cheating” however, I would not exactly be thrilled about it. It is a bit trashy. ---
**Author:** ![nitroinsane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@nitroinsane](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/nitroinsane)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/15 "2009-05-20T20:46:26Z")
I dumped my last ex for hooking up with her female boss. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/16 "2009-05-20T20:48:46Z")
If she’s whoring for male attention that hard without her boyfriend around then she’s not a keeper anyway, so might as well call it cheating. ---
**Author:** ![suzukiriderman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/suzukiriderman/32/7421_2.png) [@suzukiriderman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/suzukiriderman)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 8:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/17 "2009-05-20T20:58:52Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > If she’s whoring for male attention that hard without her boyfriend around then she’s not a keeper anyway, so might as well call it cheating. :word: ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 9:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/18 "2009-05-20T21:00:13Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > If she’s whoring for male attention that hard without her boyfriend around then she’s not a keeper anyway, so might as well call it cheating. If no one saw it? ---
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/19 "2009-05-20T21:04:08Z")
I would file it under too many issues to deal with and end it. Oh and trashy. ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2009, 9:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/20 "2009-05-20T21:07:46Z")
> [@cougarspeed](#): > > I would file it under too many issues to deal with and end it. Oh and trashy. Hahaha. [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094.md?page=2)