# Cheating or Not?
**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [May 20, 2009, 6:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094 "2009-05-20T18:40:04Z")
**Posts on this page:** 12
**Page:** 7
### Author:  [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 10:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/121 "2009-05-21T10:51:17Z")
At least this didn’t happen! Cheer up!
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### Author:  [@Wahoo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wahoo)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 10:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/122 "2009-05-21T10:59:36Z")
yeah he looks pretty up set but his heart is still in one piece…see these crazy girls didn’t even help there kid go pottie!!!
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### Author:  [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 11:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/123 "2009-05-21T11:00:51Z")
Bathtub as a storage closet?
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### Author:  [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 11:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/124 "2009-05-21T11:12:50Z")
Right? What the hell is going on there?
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### Author:  [@97FormulaWS-6](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/97FormulaWS-6)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 11:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/125 "2009-05-21T11:14:28Z")
My bad… got everything all fubar’d and off topic… had one of those days… fuck, had one of those years…
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### Author:  [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 3:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/126 "2009-05-21T15:34:24Z")
> [@Mr. T](#):
>
> Def rough situation man some women are just whores and it sucks.
>
> I was with my ex since sept of 05 we finally broke up in march of this year because of the fighting and what not. Its pretty much like we were married because we were together almost every day.I loved the girl even tho she cheated on me a few times and did some shitty stuff behind my back and lying to my face. Tried my best to work it out with her and treated her like gold but it wasn’t good enough. After all she did I still forgave her and treated her like gold and when we broke up she wanted nothing to do with working it out and has had a new bf since april/early may.Mean while I tried working something out with her even just trying to be friends for now but she wanst having it, and havent spoken to her in a month or two now.
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> Women are really hard to trust these days. I dont believe it when they say they cant trust us, From my point of view that is. I have never cheated on a broad in my life. But its always happend to me. Shit doesnt make sense.
:word:
and girls are only whores when they are with other girls, i could send my girlfriend to a party with all guys, drinking, and i bet nothing would happen, unless she was raped, which wouldn’t count :meh: . But i bet something would if there was another girl there doing shit.
I Would rather have a girl break up with me, and then hook up with a guy while i was there, than to go behind my back and cheat on me.
:picard:
I think i would rather date an ugly/decent bitch than a hot one. Even if the hot one is amazing in everyway, makes 400k a year, has a pHD and won the lottery.
I Guess the only thing “good” about being cheated on, is that the girl hooked up with a guy, but she still “loves/likes” you enough to stay with you and not him.
I’m really sorry about your situation 97formula
It’s amazing how people change
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### Author:  [@Bull49](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bull49)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 3:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/127 "2009-05-21T15:58:13Z")
> [@deebo](#):
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> I Guess the only thing “good” about being cheated on, is that the girl hooked up with a guy, but she still “loves/likes” you enough to stay with you and not him.
um, no. fuck that.
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### Author:  [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/128 "2009-05-21T16:02:07Z")
Lol, i wouldn’t stay with her. fuck that shit.
I Don’t put myself in those situations, i’ve learned enough
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### Author:  [@baseball24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/baseball24)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 8:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/129 "2009-05-21T20:42:41Z")
I Approve of this message
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### Author:  [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)
#### Post date: [May 21, 2009, 9:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/130 "2009-05-21T21:48:24Z")
> [@deebo](#):
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> I Guess the only thing “good” about being cheated on, is that the girl hooked up with a guy, but she still “loves/likes” you enough to stay with you and not him.
WHAT? She obviously doesn’t/didn’t love or like you. She’s using you like a fucking tool.
On a positive Note: NYSpeed Get together at some pub for 97Formula? I’d buy him a shot/drink or so.
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### Author:  [@LUKE\_L](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LUKE_L)
#### Post date: [May 27, 2009, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/131 "2009-05-27T08:41:17Z")
I feel bad for Mike. He is a nice guy, really. I know it will only help him to get out of the situation but to think of how much he, or anyone, invested only to get screwed over is just sickening. Sorry Buddy.
As far as Dawn’s question…is it cheating? Of course. You need to look at it from all angles and not default to “it was just a kiss.” If it was “just a kiss” then it is not worth defending. If it is not worth defending it is not worth doing. (Granted this is a “hypothetical question” as that is what MOST girls do is speculate which always turns into an arguement and what not but…for me for you…I think it still applies).
Would you eat a sandwich that you saw some skank rub her tongue and slober all over before you got a chance to eat it? Didn’t think so.
Simple rules/guidelines to live by:
If you want a good relationship. Don’t Fuck with it when you have one. Don’t say shit or do shit just to piss someone off intentionally. If it is in our nature to be destructive that why pour gas on the fire?
If you are in a bad relationship. Get the Fuck out.
When you get mad keep your mouth shut. Nothing said out of anger ever pays off.
If you are unhappy. You better change something.
If you are still lost. Seek help.
And lastly, always be honest.
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### Author:  [@TradersBASE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TradersBASE)
#### Post date: [May 27, 2009, 9:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cheating-or-not/68094/132 "2009-05-27T09:14:46Z")
> [@97FormulaWS-6](#):
>
> Eh… we had a bad patch and I basically said I was done dealing with the shit she was pulling shortly after we got married (she turned into a super bitch and did some things I didn’t like). So I wanted a “seperation” and wasn’t sure if I wanted to work on it or not.
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> So instead of being a better woman/girl/etc and trying to help me want to make it work; she started going on dates, and haging out with all her old BFs, and ex-fiance, etc… This guy she has been hanging out with till who the fuck knows when it just the latest… and I’m SOOO sick of hearing about him because she talks about him all the fucking time even when I tell her I don’t want to know!!!
>
> Ok, who’s up for some drinks?!?!?!?
I hate fuckin skanks! I’m in for a drink with you and anyone else having gone through similar shit. A drink in celebration for being without SKANKS! I’ve been skankless since Jan this year and man do I feel good now. Better the other dude than me, he’s _accepting_ a known cheater. Way to start a relationship. LOL
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