# dilemna........ **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [May 24, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000 "2008-05-24T19:38:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/1 "2008-05-24T19:38:35Z")
should i wait to tell my parents(1 golfing in oregon, the other spending family time in pitt.) bad news until after they get back or just man up and tell them tomorrow, effectively ruining their vacations and also my sense of self worth? yay, nay? (p.s. my pops just called me and told me to “turn over” his baby since he hasnt driven her in two weeks) ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/2 "2008-05-24T19:41:27Z")
Edited because its just too easy to be right. ---
**Author:** ![Nikuk](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/nikuk/32/7254_2.png) [@Nikuk](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Nikuk)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/3 "2008-05-24T19:44:09Z")
> [@SoloIIscoob"](#): > > (p.s. my pops just called me and told me to “turn over” his baby since he hasnt driven her in two weeks) Oh man, I was gonna say let them enjoy their time away… until you posted this part above. ☹ Worst part is that the dealer isnt even going to look at it until Tuesday… so you have at least two full days to :ohnoes: ---
**Author:** ![cky89](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cky89/32/4945_2.png) [@cky89](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cky89)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/4 "2008-05-24T19:44:16Z")
I’m sorry for what happened, I felt terrible. Honestly, tell him the truth asap. Tell him how it happened and that you are going to take care of it, and not for him to worry. You made an honest mistake, and owning up to it and fixing the problem is the best and most mature thing you can do. You know damn well he will respect you for doing that, and won’t be as upset with you. Best of luck man:tup: ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/5 "2008-05-24T19:47:26Z")
> [@2TurboZ](#): > > So you “stole” his car and blew the motor up at the track day and you are asking NYSpeed what you should do? > > I am pretty sure the moral patrol would say tell them asap and get it over with. > > Hiding something never ends well. Plus you want them to lose the anger while as far away from you as possible and by the time they come home it will probably be easier on you. > > Or lie and say you turned it over and it was making a weird noise :gotme: what the fuck kyle. go fucking die. seriously. asap:shrug: ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/6 "2008-05-24T19:48:47Z")
and im not scared of them or worried that they will be angry or hiding anything. obviously they have every right to be im just asking if i tell them tomorrow and ruin a week they would otherwise enjoy, or tell them when they get back in person? ---
**Author:** ![Bacon](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bacon/32/7230_2.png) [@Bacon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bacon)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/7 "2008-05-24T19:50:08Z")
Tell him. Fix it. ---
**Author:** ![micah](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/micah/32/7257_2.png) [@micah](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/micah)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/8 "2008-05-24T19:50:14Z")
i saw the car on the flat bed but what exactly happened? ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/9 "2008-05-24T19:51:39Z")
> [@SoloIIscoob](#): > > what the fuck kyle. go fucking die. seriously. asap:shrug: Not trying to be a dick dude but come on. There is no dilemna. Be honest about it and take your lumps. You cant hate on me for pointing out the obvious…you fucked up…Deal with whatever comes your way. ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/10 "2008-05-24T19:52:53Z")
made a rootbeer float with either the intake/exhaust valves in the#3 or 4 cylinder ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/11 "2008-05-24T19:53:23Z")
over night parts from japan and fix it by the time they get home… ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:54pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/12 "2008-05-24T19:54:49Z")
> [@2TurboZ](#): > > Not trying to be a dick dude but come on. There is no dilemna. Be honest about it and take your lumps. > > You cant hate on me for pointing out the obvious…you fucked up…Deal with whatever comes your way. dude im fucking telling him. straight up, exactly what happened. i just want some feedback as when would be the best time. not some fucking “life advice” about my “fuck up” so please logoff and keep ur smartass comments to urself. seriously. i was trying to be discrete about the situation, but obviously that cant happen around here. ---
**Author:** ![RedConquestTSi](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redconquesttsi/32/7326_2.png) [@RedConquestTSi](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedConquestTSi)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/13 "2008-05-24T19:55:30Z")
This sucks alot of cock. ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/14 "2008-05-24T19:56:28Z")
You post it up on a public forum and expect to keep it discrete? Good luck with all that. ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/15 "2008-05-24T19:57:48Z")
there is a difference between refering to something as “bad news” and “stolen” and/or “blown up”…like seriously. use ur head dood ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 7:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/16 "2008-05-24T19:58:53Z")
Is there? Or does it just make you sound better to call it “bad news”? ---
**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 8:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/17 "2008-05-24T20:01:38Z")
make me sound better? get off ur high horse there champ. bad news is a term you use when the actual “bad news” does not directly need be discussed. but im glad u took the initiative to just jump right and spell out what happened. good work ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 8:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/18 "2008-05-24T20:04:58Z")
cliffs for people in the dark? edit: you know what…nevermind i think i get the idea. double edit: and the car is?.. ---
**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 8:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/19 "2008-05-24T20:07:32Z")
tell them ---
**Author:** ![2TurboZ](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/2turboz/32/7577_2.png) [@2TurboZ](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/2TurboZ)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2008, 8:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000/20 "2008-05-24T20:11:26Z")
> [@SoloIIscoob](#): > > make me sound better? get off ur high horse there champ. > > bad news is a term you use when the actual “bad news” does not directly need be discussed. but im glad u took the initiative to just jump right and spell out what happened. good work The best part is that someone with about a 3rd grade reading comprehension could have figured out between 2 threads in 10 min what exactly happened. I wasnt there…I didnt hear about it aside from on these threads. Pretty funny you are trying to cover your ass on an internet forum if you planned on being so honest… [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dilemna/49000.md?page=2)