# Dining Etiquette

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [December 13, 2010, 3:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162 "2010-12-13T15:43:09Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Ciaran](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ciaran/32/5612_2.png) [@Ciaran](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ciaran)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 3:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/1 "2010-12-13T15:43:09Z")

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ok ok i want opinons on something that happened last week.

a medium sized group goes out for some kbbq.

everyone sits and gets comfy, then we realize they dont take debit so a few of us dip out for literally 2 minutes to grab cash from a bank in the parking lot.

when i come back my seat has been pilfered, and it was a good seat also because it was beside a someone who cooks at kbbq like a mofo. naturally i wanted the seat back, as i had been sitting there for a good few minutes and was positioned around all my friends. bitched refused to give it up so i get stuck sitting at the end of the table with some randoms i dont give a shit about.

what the fuck.

who does this.

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**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 3:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/2 "2010-12-13T15:45:12Z")

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Did she see you sitting there? Sounds like a cunt punt was in order.

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**Author:** ![Ciaran](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ciaran/32/5612_2.png) [@Ciaran](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ciaran)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 3:48pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/3 "2010-12-13T15:48:15Z")

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yeah she knew i was there, she migrated from the far other side and took it. i told her i was sitting there when i got back and told her to move repeatedly. if it was a dude i would have pulled the chair right from under them and took it back.

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 3:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/4 "2010-12-13T15:49:17Z")

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Rip that cunts uterus out.

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**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:08pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/5 "2010-12-13T17:08:26Z")

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Sounds like you may have made yourself look dumb by making a big deal out of it.

She obviously sucks for doing that, but I would just take it in stride and move on as to avoid an awkward situation for the group.

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**Author:** ![Ciaran](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ciaran/32/5612_2.png) [@Ciaran](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ciaran)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/6 "2010-12-13T17:13:19Z")

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> [@Paulo](#):
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> Sounds like you may have made yourself look dumb by making a big deal out of it.
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> She obviously sucks for doing that, but I would just take it in stride and move on as to avoid an awkward situation for the group.

nah i dont give a shit if i look like an asshole for calling someone out on being a cunt.

if this was something small id have let it go, but i hate being the cook at kbbq, especially when im sitting with people i dont know and they jack my meat.

i was literally positioned beside the only people at the table i knew and gave a shit about.

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**Author:** ![Jagermeister](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f19dbf/32.png) [@Jagermeister](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jagermeister)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/7 "2010-12-13T17:15:39Z")

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Stop being a Whiny Bitch.

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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/8 "2010-12-13T17:16:14Z")

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> [@Paulo](#):
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> Sounds like you may have made yourself look dumb by making a big deal out of it.
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> She obviously sucks for doing that, but I would just take it in stride and move on as to avoid an awkward situation for the group.

this

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**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/9 "2010-12-13T17:17:22Z")

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> [@breaker77](#):
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> if this was something small id have let it go,

Agree to disagree.

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**Author:** ![BOBBYGRV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BOBBYGRV](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BOBBYGRV)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/10 "2010-12-13T17:20:27Z")

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If you wanted your seat back that bad, you would have gotten it back. Just sayin…

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**Author:** ![Spam16v](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/spam16v/32/5287_2.png) [@Spam16v](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Spam16v)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/11 "2010-12-13T17:21:12Z")

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did you wipe your dick after taking a leak?

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**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/12 "2010-12-13T17:22:35Z")

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grow up

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**Author:** ![Ciaran](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ciaran/32/5612_2.png) [@Ciaran](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ciaran)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/13 "2010-12-13T17:24:12Z")

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apparently you buffaloers dont know what its like to cook at a korean bbq place with strangers.

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**Author:** ![jt76](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jt76/32/5100_2.png) [@jt76](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jt76)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/14 "2010-12-13T17:25:19Z")

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really?

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**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/15 "2010-12-13T17:28:40Z")

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I understand the situation, I would just never make a big deal out of it in front of a group. Choose your battles.

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**Author:** ![bing](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bing/32/7211_2.png) [@bing](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bing)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 5:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/16 "2010-12-13T17:36:57Z")

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i don’t think this is a dining etiquette issue, it’s more of ‘what are the rules of musical chairs’ or ‘this one time, at KBBQ I…’

it’s not really a big deal at all. sit next to new people, discover new things, risk salmonella

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**Author:** ![travisn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/travisn/32/5046_2.png) [@travisn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/travisn)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 6:10pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/17 "2010-12-13T18:10:55Z")

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same thing happened to me in “CAD class” today. Ive had the same seat all quarter and this fuck wad takes my seat. I ask him to move twice and he says 'I want to sit next to my friend (points to friend) so he can help me". I say “with an attitude like that you wont have any friends.” as I walk away towards the back of the room.

ruined my day the next 3 hours of my day. I wanted to punch babies.

fuck tard

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**Author:** ![Ciaran](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ciaran/32/5612_2.png) [@Ciaran](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ciaran)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 6:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/18 "2010-12-13T18:18:55Z")

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high five, you know whats up

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**Author:** ![bing](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bing/32/7211_2.png) [@bing](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bing)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 7:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/19 "2010-12-13T19:21:01Z")

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> [@travisn](#):
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> “with an attitude like that you wont have any friends.” as I walk away towards the back of the room.

man, what a terrible come-back 🙂

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**Author:** ![NYstanger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/6a8cbe/32.png) [@NYstanger](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/NYstanger)\
**Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 7:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/dining-etiquette/207162/20 "2010-12-13T19:52:29Z")

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> [@travisn](#):
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> same thing happened to me in “CAD class” today. Ive had the same seat all quarter and this fuck wad takes my seat. I ask him to move twice and he says 'I want to sit next to my friend (points to friend) so he can help me". I say “with an attitude like that you wont have any friends.” as I walk away towards the back of the room.
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> ruined my day the next 3 hours of my day. I wanted to punch babies.
> 
> fuck tard

Back of the room is where it is at anyways!

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