# Divorced: how did you deal with it? \[now with more drama!\] **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [February 10, 2010, 3:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162 "2010-02-10T03:04:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 16
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 3:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/301 "2010-02-11T15:56:48Z")
> [@theblue](#): > > no, I literally don’t know what it means to run with a yahoo crew? Bored at night drunk, a group of people bare the same tag sign, like Metal\_daze\_blahblah all friends who hung out together and would go boot other crews off messenger ect. Basically, get drunk and argue with people on the mic. good times when your bored at 1am. those days died when yahoo messenger got rid of user rooms. ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/302 "2010-02-11T16:03:29Z")
corpus christi texas, i lived there, i miss the SPID, ah good times in christi. i once made it back from corpus to buffalo in 24 hours driving. ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/303 "2010-02-11T16:03:32Z")
this can be locked aswell. its gone far above and beyond its first intention. ---
**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/304 "2010-02-11T16:05:24Z")
^ ignore this post. ---
**Author:** ![JayS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jays/32/15375_2.png) [@JayS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JayS)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/305 "2010-02-11T16:30:42Z")
So wait… how old was she and how old were you when this alleged seedy motel cherry popping took place? ---
**Author:** ![klug](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/klug/32/5222_2.png) [@klug](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/klug)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/306 "2010-02-11T16:36:04Z")
17 and 19/20 i would say ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/307 "2010-02-11T16:41:11Z")
:lol: :wtf: ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/308 "2010-02-11T16:44:27Z")
fyi littlefoot is a real person because i have met her before, twice i think ---
**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 4:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/309 "2010-02-11T16:57:30Z")
:bigtdown: sorry sir, but you have lost all respect. ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/310 "2010-02-11T17:13:49Z")
Wait, wait, wait. You met on Yahoo Messenger, went to Texas to meet her, while she was still in high school. Then she lost her virginity in a motel room to some dude who she barely knew, and then dropped and moved here with you? And this bitch is talking shit to ME? 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/311 "2010-02-11T17:14:46Z")
> [@Just Karter](#): > > Well I tried to keep the personal info to a minimum in this thread, but ofcourse, she would post here warped side of things and people would jump on it. > > Lets go to the real details > > karter picked up his entire life to move to texas, her father promised my father and told me he would hook me up with a job that wasnt there once i sold everything i had and drove to corpus christi texas. > > When i get there, hes pretty set on making me leave, even after he said it was cool for me to come be with his daughter , 2 faced much ? > > then there wasnt a place in all of corpus christi that would rent to me with cash, and i put in 200 applications and didnt get one call back. > > So i continued to stay in a red roof inn for 4+ weeks at 365 a week, fun times. > > I never brought her home late ect I ended up taking her virginity at the hotel, we fucked alot blah blah, one night we got caught. Her stalker liar father was outside the hotel, we were supposed to be at a movie. > > He didnt know we fucked but must of known we fucked. Anyways he said I’d never see her again blah blah blah. I drove from corpus to hope arkansas straight shot in one night. > > Next morning i get a call, yeap you guys can get married ect, I drive all the way back, and her 2 faced father was a fucking liar again. > > So hes in the hotel room with her and me, and is laying all these rules on us to make it impossible to date, threatening to have me arrested if we ever changed our plans ect, as I was older then her, but not by enough. > > Anyways, I cant do it so I bail state again, full wel intended to marry her the second she can get out of school. > > In the meantime we talk for a while then suddenly big bad dad, or whom I could pummle with a blindfold, takes her to a psychiatrist to try to pry for info. Doctor tells her its confidential, she confides in doctor, doctor blabs to aprents, big bad daddy intentionally trys to ruin my life by going to the police. > > Thankfully, I was no longer in texas, and was less than 3 years older than her, so nothing happened. but it dosent change the fact he intentionally tried to ruin my life for no gains at all, it wasnt going to bring her virginity back, in any of her holes. > > Now some months go by, were not allowed to talk per her dad, but finally we start talking. > > Alls good and well, we get back together, she quits school i send her a plane ticket. > Then I find out she lied to me about mad shit after she gets here, including sucking 2 dicks in 24 hrs. getting fingered by some dude ect ect. > > So needless to say i was pissed, and upset, so i said make it up to me. > She swore she would and as the months went by, she didnt, didnt even fucking try, so being shut out from her became a habbit. > > But I managed to forgive her enough to stay with her, even tho she put in no fucking effort the entire time. > > So yeah ofcourse, when a relationship is one sided Im not going to show tons of emotions. > > and it was my fault for hating her father after he ruined everything on purpose, I wasnt supposed to, I wasnt allowed too. > > Fuck that hes a pile of shit. i’m just quoting this so you can’t delete it. ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/312 "2010-02-11T17:20:05Z")
Im not going to delete posts. she knows what was posted. Weve been texting the entire time. ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/313 "2010-02-11T17:21:10Z")
I kind of feel bad for you. ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/314 "2010-02-11T17:25:30Z")
> [@dawn](#): > > I kind of feel bad for you. Thanks dawn. I really got outted in all of this. I probabaly shouldnt have waited forever for her to not make it up to me, I should have just showed her how I felt I guess. It really sucks when you love someone enough to look past everything, but they dont love you enough to wipe the slate clean and start over fresh with the past burried. I offered to forgive her family and try to get along with them, I offered a fresh start and gave my word id treat her better than I treated her in the honeymoon stage of our relationship which she held near and dear. I offered her a ticket back to texas if it didnt work, She had nothing to lose, and she wont get over herself and give me another chance. We faught tooth and nail about her going because i knew this bullshit would happen, shit made me crazy. ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/315 "2010-02-11T17:27:45Z")
I need to wear a sign that says Seeking female who cleans, does not need to cook, ever. Not scared of commitment faithful loves me how i love them knows if I say ill never leave, i wont. freak in the bedroom her having a job is optional. ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/316 "2010-02-11T17:32:59Z")
You need a hug bruh ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/317 "2010-02-11T17:35:17Z")
> [@deebo](#): > > You need a hug bruh i need something. 🖕 ---
**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/318 "2010-02-11T17:36:18Z")
you really do need to post pics of little foot. nudes or not. ---
**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/319 "2010-02-11T17:36:48Z")
> [@dawn](#): > > you really do need to post pics of little foot. nudes or not. i wouldnt do her like that. edit: even thru all of this ---
**Author:** ![glitch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/0ea827/32.png) [@glitch](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/glitch)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 5:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/320 "2010-02-11T17:39:05Z")
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