# Divorced: how did you deal with it? \[now with more drama!\] **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [February 10, 2010, 3:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162 "2010-02-10T03:04:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 23
**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/441 "2010-02-12T12:43:23Z")
> [@Onyx Z32](#): > > You bitch that we lock threads, then want your thread locked. Funny. > > You also said you’re done with this forum, except for the classifieds section. Then you keep posting. Pick one. this > [@vq30de](#): > > do you think before you speak or do you just open your mouth and let shit fall out? > > This is a free site. You pay nothing to use it. Be happy for that instead of bitching about the owner, who is sinkinng his time and money into it. > > And it’s astonishing this piece of crap thread made it 5 pages without anyone pointing out the obvious; that you are an immature dipshit. And I’m totally blown away that it took this long for anyone to mention that there is NO divorce here, just your retarded whore girlfriend leaving your loser ass. this ---
**Author:** ![BOBBYGRV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BOBBYGRV](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BOBBYGRV)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/442 "2010-02-12T12:44:13Z")
> [@LittleFoot](#): > > I honestly dont give a shit if it gets locked or not. It is what it is. > Just stop posting in it, you should know this by now. “Shut your fat-ass, Rayvie! I can’t go buy a pack of smokes without runnin’ into nine guys you’ve fucked!” /rocco quotes ---
**Author:** ![copperlegend](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/copperlegend/32/7445_2.png) [@copperlegend](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/copperlegend)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/443 "2010-02-12T12:45:25Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > Don’t air your dirty laundry in public if you don’t want people making fun of the skid marks. :fry: ---
**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/444 "2010-02-12T12:46:05Z")
> [@bobbyg1243](#): > > “Shut your fat-ass, Rayvie! I can’t go buy a pack of smokes without runnin’ into nine guys you’ve fucked!” /rocco quotes that movie is awesome ---
**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:46pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/445 "2010-02-12T12:46:53Z")
> [@Just Karter](#): > > re kindle your thread in here > > k thanks Meh, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Not like the guy who makes the decisions is going to start giving a shit what people think, especially me. ---
**Author:** ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/446 "2010-02-12T12:52:37Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > Don’t air your dirty laundry in public if you don’t want people making fun of the skid marks. QFMFT what kind of idiot does that, and thinks it will go well…and when it doesn’t crys to have the thread locked. ---
**Author:** ![BOBBYGRV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BOBBYGRV](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BOBBYGRV)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/447 "2010-02-12T12:53:55Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > Don’t air your dirty laundry in public if you don’t want people making fun of the skid marks. QFTW! This quote needs to be sent out to 75% of facebook users. ---
**Author:** ![NYstanger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/6a8cbe/32.png) [@NYstanger](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/NYstanger)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:54pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/448 "2010-02-12T12:54:20Z")
> [@Joe](#): > > Meh, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I prefer to think of it as determination. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/449 "2010-02-12T12:55:17Z")
Do it. Make one of those groups or clubs or whatever the fuck those things are that people join. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/450 "2010-02-12T12:59:04Z")
lol there are some good pictures if you search google images for “attention whore” [http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&rls=com.microsoft%3Aen-US&um=1&sa=1&q=attention+whore&aq=f&oq=&aqi=&start=0](http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&rls=com.microsoft%3Aen-US&um=1&sa=1&q=attention+whore&aq=f&oq=&aqi=&start=0) ![http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_hhlwY1Gqrm0/SvMoeAkFIAI/AAAAAAAAALM/bVhVYyHWAGk/s400/38-attention_whore.jpg](http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_hhlwY1Gqrm0/SvMoeAkFIAI/AAAAAAAAALM/bVhVYyHWAGk/s400/38-attention_whore.jpg) Not that this has anything to do with this thread. I’m just saying there are funny pictures of people doing things for attention on the google. ---
**Author:** ![vq30de](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/9dc877/32.png) [@vq30de](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/vq30de)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 12:59pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/451 "2010-02-12T12:59:46Z")
Here Karter maybe this will help you > **[Testicular Cancer](https://www.verywell.com/testicular-cancer-4012706)** > > Testicular cancer, most often diagnosed in young men, is highly treatable. Learn about causes, risk factors, symptoms, treatment, and impact on fertility. ---
**Author:** ![Spam16v](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/spam16v/32/5287_2.png) [@Spam16v](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Spam16v)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 1:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/452 "2010-02-12T13:15:48Z")
> [@Onyx Z32](#): > > You bitch that we lock threads, then want your thread locked. Funny. > > You also said you’re done with this forum, except for the classifieds section. Then you keep posting. Pick one. YES! ---
**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 3:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/453 "2010-02-12T15:17:25Z")
Watch out karter… Onyx will ban you from everything BUT the classifieds :cjerk: ---
**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 3:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/454 "2010-02-12T15:18:28Z")
So Karter were you guys married or not? ---
**Author:** ![Hass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/51bf81/32.png) [@Hass](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Hass)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 9:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/455 "2010-02-13T09:33:35Z")
> [@burnt\_toast](#): > > quiet down, men are talking. \<3 ---
**Author:** ![VANDIT](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vandit/32/4977_2.png) [@VANDIT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/VANDIT)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 11:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/456 "2010-02-13T23:28:34Z")
I have been here once. I hope to never go through it again… however the whole “time heals everything” saying is only half true but still is the best answer to any issue like this what will happen, (and will be hard to see now) is that as time passes you will understand what happened better, (less emotions will be involved, or perhaps less raging feelings) and you will gain perspective. and with this newfound understanding about yourself or your ex you will then better understand what makes you happy. And that is good shit because you can use this new enlightenment to make wiser decisions next time =) best of luck -steve ---
**Author:** ![Justin](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justin/32/7459_2.png) [@Justin](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Justin)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2010, 10:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/457 "2010-02-14T22:06:04Z")
I somehow missed this thread until now. Must have had to of been the fastest growing NYSpeed thread ever. Now I have no desire to read 19 pages. Although I did just break up with my girlfriend of 2yrs about a month ago. Just take it as a learning experience. ---
**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2010, 10:34pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/458 "2010-02-14T22:34:08Z")
LittleFoot, You say you broke it off cause Karter never showed enough emotion. But me and every other dude on NYSpeed knows you better than you know yourself. Never showing emotion makes women attracted to men. If Karter had showed his “softer” side you would have slowly drifted away from him and the reason for the break up would have been “He’s too needy” or “He could never be my shoulder to cry on, because he was always the one crying”. So do us all a favor and not tell us what women find attractive. And the next time some guy you met seems like an asshole, don’t pretend not to like it. ---
**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2010, 11:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/459 "2010-02-14T23:05:58Z")
> [@PureXTC](#): > > LittleFoot, > You say you broke it off cause Karter never showed enough emotion. But me and every other dude on NYSpeed knows you better than you know yourself. Never showing emotion makes women attracted to men. If Karter had showed his “softer” side you would have slowly drifted away from him and the reason for the break up would have been “He’s too needy” or “He could never be my shoulder to cry on, because he was always the one crying”. > > So do us all a favor and not tell us what women find attractive. And the next time some guy you met seems like an asshole, don’t pretend not to like it. Dude, first off, dont try and tell me what I do or dont like. Also, I said that was one of the reasons. Notice how you havent heard any stories from my side. Unless you know exactly wtf is going on which you dont, keep your mouth shut. ---
**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2010, 11:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/460 "2010-02-14T23:07:01Z")
> [@LittleFoot](#): > > Dude, first off, dont try and tell me what I do or dont like. You like being treated like shit. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162.md?page=22) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162.md?page=24)