# Divorced: how did you deal with it? \[now with more drama!\]

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [February 10, 2010, 3:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162 "2010-02-10T03:04:31Z")\
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**Author:** ![boosting4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5e9695/32.png) [@boosting4me](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boosting4me)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 12:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/101 "2010-02-11T00:04:18Z")

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[http://vodpod.com/watch/404542-george-strait-all-my-exs-live-in-texas-live-1990](http://vodpod.com/watch/404542-george-strait-all-my-exs-live-in-texas-live-1990)

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**Author:** ![Karter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@Karter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Karter)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 12:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/102 "2010-02-11T00:44:34Z")

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lolll

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**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/103 "2010-02-11T07:16:28Z")

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I guess I was wrong. I just saw little foot browsing the forums. POST NUDEZ PLZ.

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**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/104 "2010-02-11T07:21:53Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> I guess I was wrong. I just saw little foot browsing the forums. POST NUDEZ PLZ.

What part of keep the bullshit out of this thread dont understand? Stfu

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**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/105 "2010-02-11T07:22:05Z")

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in for seeing what she posts.

> [@LittleFoot](#):
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> What part of keep the bullshit out of this thread dont understand? Stfu

WEAKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

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**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/106 "2010-02-11T07:23:22Z")

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Ugh if I was the girl seeing this thread would end any chance I had of working things out…Guys that show feelings and emotions :meh:

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**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/107 "2010-02-11T07:25:15Z")

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> [@Joe](#):
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> Ugh if I was the girl seeing this thread would end any chance I had of working things out…Guys that show feelings and emotions :meh:

It was the lack of any emotion coming from him that sucked so bad.  
He said that I did a good job at showing that I didnt care, I only did that cause it seemed like he never gave a fuck.

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**Author:** ![copperlegend](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/copperlegend/32/7445_2.png) [@copperlegend](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/copperlegend)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/108 "2010-02-11T07:27:23Z")

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oh boy, here we go!

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**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/109 "2010-02-11T07:27:26Z")

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feelings = beta male = unattractive

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**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/110 "2010-02-11T07:29:06Z")

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> [@Joe](#):
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> feelings = beta male = unattractive

Rubbish!  
He didnt have a problem showing his feelings before I got to NY.  
And after I got there the whole feelings thing only lasted for about a week.

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**Author:** ![AFhockey31](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/afhockey31/32/5086_2.png) [@AFhockey31](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AFhockey31)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/111 "2010-02-11T07:32:13Z")

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Ahh… Im bored at work, and its dead here, I was wondering what was going to fill my day…

This thread = potential greatness…

+1 for use of the word rubbish

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**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/112 "2010-02-11T07:33:32Z")

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i want to ask for nudes but i have to say im actually a little scared.

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**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/113 "2010-02-11T07:33:59Z")

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Who posts shit of this nature on a forum like this and thinks there wont be BS? Also who posts on a forum like this when his girl is a member? You shut the fuck up.

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**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/114 "2010-02-11T07:34:45Z")

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> [@Just Karter](#):
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> Thanks for all the replys and sound advice.
> 
> Wny is small, so ofcourse we did all the things I ebnjoyed single, together. That makes the little shit like going to tim hortons suckkk.
> 
> As for who left who, This relationship was fucked from jump street. It was the greatest thing ever, 3 years ago, before her parents intervened (sp?) and fucked up everything.
> 
> We managed to rekindle things and get another 2.25 out of it, but the damage was done.  
> Thats why I despise them.
> 
> As far as the kids thing, well I made sure to keep her on BC, I dont want kids at all or til im 30 or something.
> 
> Reason behind us splitting? You’d really have to know her, to see how she was. She was really good at acting like she didnt care. After a while it kind of consumes you.
> 
> Its hard I guess to be away from your family as long as she was, and I’m sure they got in her head.
> 
> I guess Its just differences that pushed us away.  
> Its not like I whopped her ass or either or us cheated or anything, its not clean cut.  
> It would probabaly be easier if there was one stone cold event to blame it all on.
> 
> its funny because she helped me get thru my last bad break up, in 2005. and every relationship between then and her was just BS dating.
> 
> I’ll have a project to wrench on, and just stare at in the garage come saturday when I bring it home. That will help.
> 
> If I could drink, believe me I would, my eye permits such fun behavior. If I could id have 2 litres of vodka and a gallon of ocean spray light cranberry and id never leave this chair except to piss.
> 
> I got a few sound invites from people to hang out, I’m going to have to take them up on it.
> 
> and yes joe, your computer did it. haha

I got over my parents shit a long ass time ago, you are the one that wouldnt let it go, so if you wanna say thats what screwed it up from jup street, go for it, but that wasnt it.

And I will say again I only acted like I didnt care cause you acted like you didnt give a fuck, Id try and talk to you about it and you would have an answer for everything and nothing ever changed.  
I triewd to talk to you about a lot of stuff, and nothing ever changed.

And I will tell you once again that my family had nothing to do with me staying here. I promise you that.

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**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/115 "2010-02-11T07:35:21Z")

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And here we go!

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**Author:** ![AFhockey31](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/afhockey31/32/5086_2.png) [@AFhockey31](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AFhockey31)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/116 "2010-02-11T07:35:27Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> Who posts shit of this nature on a forum like this and thinks there wont be BS? **Also who posts on a forum like this when his girl is a member?** You shut the fuck up.

THIS

EDIT: You think theyre in other rooms of the house posting on this thread??

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**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/117 "2010-02-11T07:35:37Z")

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So are you still taking him to Olive Garden sunday?  
 ![http://www.faniq.com/images/blog/2b905b61651f3a85ea0cc92f96a49517.jpg](http://www.faniq.com/images/blog/2b905b61651f3a85ea0cc92f96a49517.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/118 "2010-02-11T07:37:07Z")

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OOOOOOOOOooOoOOOoOOoOOo

JERRY!! JERRY!! JERRY!! JERRY!! JERRY!!

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**Author:** ![LittleFoot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e9a140/32.png) [@LittleFoot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LittleFoot)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/119 "2010-02-11T07:37:18Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> Who posts shit of this nature on a forum like this and thinks there wont be BS? Also who posts on a forum like this when his girl is a member? You shut the fuck up.

Cunt much?  
Someone who wants fucking help and doesnt know how to deal with it and needs all the advice possible. Can it, bitch… or be helpful

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**Author:** ![AFhockey31](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/afhockey31/32/5086_2.png) [@AFhockey31](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AFhockey31)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2010, 7:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/120 "2010-02-11T07:37:59Z")

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You all better not lock this thread… Ive found my entertainment for the day at work

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