# Divorced: how did you deal with it? \[now with more drama!\]

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**Created:** [February 10, 2010, 3:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162 "2010-02-10T03:04:31Z")\
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**Post date:** [February 10, 2010, 8:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/divorced-how-did-you-deal-with-it-now-with-more-drama/79162/49 "2010-02-10T08:56:21Z")

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> [@Carnut](#):
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> Fuck that. Go to the gym, focus on you. Do what makes you happy call it a day. When you surround yourself with positive energy, positive things happen to you! Take control of your life.

I was waiting for that :deadhorse:, each case should not be based on other people’s thoughts. Seek help, find compassion, mercy and communicate…

Everyone has issues and has soon has you find out what other peoples issues are, you will want yours back!

Using NYspeed to help give you direction will not work

> [@something to make a rat rod](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/something-to-make-a-rat-rod/78499/6):
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> So is this project before or after you [_get your GED_](http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showthread.php?t=81517), [_build your 10 second drag car_](http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showthread.php?t=81326) while [_not being able afford gas in a Jeep Wrangler_](http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showpost.php?p=1563363&postcount=17) and [_bitching about an extra $25/month_](http://www.nyspeed.com/forums/showthread.php?t=81669) to insure a beater grand am?

You need ask her for time away for each other, and think about all the “other” things that make you… I have project A.D.D but I use the internet and magazines to obtain that fix.

Wise up- you made a vow- the church said it was going to be hard from the start… marriage isnt easy, pimping isnt easy, mo money = mo problems. Wise- up. You need to pimp slap yourself.

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