# focusinprogress is a free man **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 25, 2006, 10:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055 "2006-07-25T22:29:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![JEG](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jeg/32/7246_2.png) [@JEG](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JEG)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 5:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/41 "2006-07-26T05:58:13Z")
lol when i broke up with my gf i said “we should be friends”…havnt seen her since. she tries, but i want nothin to do with the drama. ---
**Author:** ![StairSRT4](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/stairsrt4/32/7585_2.png) [@StairSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/StairSRT4)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/42 "2006-07-26T06:13:41Z")
Don’t be afraid to be stern with her…as a girl, i’m telling you…just say you have no feelings for her anymore and that’s the bottom line. leave it at that…don’t talk about in the past how good everything was etc…just hand her ALL of her stuff so she has no reason to stop by or call and be done with this. give yourself 5 minutes with her…that is it, anything longer and you won’t be getting out of there without her back in your life. good luck. ---
**Author:** ![L8APEX1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/l8apex1/32/7276_2.png) [@L8APEX1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/L8APEX1)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/43 "2006-07-26T06:25:53Z")
do it simpsons style, welcome to dumpville… population you ---
**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/44 "2006-07-26T06:57:51Z")
> [@STEALTTH](#): > > **_“i just hope she doesnt come into my work or show up at my house…”_** > > You’re going to make her more crazy by not talking to her in person about it. You are creating a stalker/sycho. > > I made that mistake once…just talk to her. she wont go away that easy. :word: I am a calm, collected person. I didn’t know I had the abillity to get crazy and act insane. When my girlfriend of almost two years left, I lost it. I mean, LOST IT. She didn’t want to talk to me, and it made it worse. I didn’t know I could act like a psychopath… but, given the right situations, I think anyone is capable of it. Emotions, I discovered, are very powerful. Now, if your girlfriend is already nutso, and has psychotic abilities… you’re asking for it. Plus, you say she says “I love you” constantly, and has become co-dependent on your existence being in her life. THIS WILL NOT BE AN EASY THING FOR EITHER OF YOU. My ex didn’t care about me anymore, and showed it by not wanting to deal with it or talk to me afterwards. She just wanted to move on. It made it worse on me and it got to the point where I did some pretty awful things. Now, I did them in moderation and nothing permanent. I knew I was just acting crazy, was hurt, and lost something. This girlfriend of yours is gonna snap… The first time that my girlfriend and I broke up, she was there for me, and we ended up getting back together. Her showing an ounce of care made me keep fighting. I think that was the wrong thing to do, because it made it seem like we wanted to work things out. If you truly want to be rid of her existence forever, you can’t care anymore. If shes your past, you have to put here there. Any care, any sign of “Lets just be friends” and she’s got in her mind “Theres a chance!” The second time, she showed no care. She wasn’t there for me, and it made me lose my mind, and go crazy. I think she did the right thing, because we both knew how I would react if she showed care still. It sucked for me at the time, and for a while. But, I’m perfectly fine now, happy in a new relationship of almost 6 months now. It took a while to get over her, a few girls dated, but in the end… things turned out OK. I just wish now that I never acted so damned crazy, because she was my best friend. She wanted to be friends she said, and we did talk. But, if we ever started talking about US, she soon wanted to get off the phone. Good luck man. ---
**Author:** ![nitroinsane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@nitroinsane](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/nitroinsane)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 8:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/45 "2006-07-26T08:21:57Z")
shes 17 lets ppost kiddie porn ---
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 8:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/46 "2006-07-26T08:29:08Z")
> [@newman](#): > > note = pussy shit. > > bottom line. :word: ---
**Author:** ![Deuce](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deuce/32/7614_2.png) [@Deuce](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Deuce)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 8:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/47 "2006-07-26T08:29:20Z")
> [@Slomies](#): > > i’ve been telling you for months to get rid of her for obvious reasons and it’s not that hard. i’ve had to tell a few girls it was over, eventhough i still liked them, just because they were psychos! def gotta do it in person … you owe her that. you need to stop being a puss and just get it over with. i know you’re trying to be a nice guy, but if you cant get outta this now, you might as well just ask her to marry you since you’re never going to get the balls to say something to her and end it. i honestly dont think that you’re going to do it today, since you’ve been saying that for weeks now, but we’ll see what happens. good luck and i hope that you do it. for your sanity and her sake as well. > > eh and she has a mangina :uhh: > > 15 months of :whip: + :lockd: (being on lock down) finally = :2fingers: (aim at EX-girlfriend) +1 good luck nick! ---
**Author:** ![JoesTypeS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joestypes/32/7190_2.png) [@JoesTypeS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JoesTypeS)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 8:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/48 "2006-07-26T08:29:44Z")
> [@newman](#): > > note = pussy shit. > > bottom line. fucking word…are you like 16? ---
**Author:** ![JEG](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jeg/32/7246_2.png) [@JEG](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JEG)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 9:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/49 "2006-07-26T09:23:09Z")
> [@nitroinsane](#): > > shes 17 lets ppost kiddie porn thats not kiddie porn. kiddie porn is like 12. that is underage, not kiddie. but on that note. nm. ---
**Author:** ![tnick24](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f05b48/32.png) [@tnick24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tnick24)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 2:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/50 "2006-07-26T14:55:18Z")
> [@STEALTTH](#): > > go to her house at night, break up with her. You can leave her house on your terms, it’s the right thing to do. best responce ive hear in one of these threads yet. the best thing is to be in a situation where you can leave. if shes at your house or something like that where she would have to leave, is a bad situation to be in. she can flip out and get violent, break things in the house, and everytime you have a bitch whos all upset, driving and thats not a good combo… i say get the balls and go to ehr house with her backpack, and anything else you might have thats hers, and let her know what you want and how its going to be. you just need to man up, once its over it really wont be that bad. ---
**Author:** ![focusinprogress](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/focusinprogress/32/7227_2.png) [@focusinprogress](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/focusinprogress)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 3:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/51 "2006-07-26T15:02:18Z")
^this is the plan lol. tonight when i finish putting my focus back together(guessing around 9ish) im gonna call her up and ask her if its ok if i stop by to drop off her backpack. then once i get there i plan to either stay within the front hall and tell her i just want to talk for a minute to get something off my chest…and then ill just come out with it nice and easy. when she starts flipping im just gonna leave and be done with it. first thing tomarrow morning i have to go to cingular and have unlimited text added to my phone and have her number blocked. everyone pray for me lol, i dont feel like starting a thread at 10pm tonight with pictures of my black eye and bruised nutsack ---
**Author:** ![FASTMOFO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9de053/32.png) [@FASTMOFO](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/FASTMOFO)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 3:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/52 "2006-07-26T15:02:58Z")
she’s guna track you down and want some kind of verbal explaination. If you want it done just get it over with. Even a phone conversation. Stand your ground, listen to her whining and crying and just tell her you cant do it anymore. edit: looks like ur guna tell her in person atta boy ---
**Author:** ![cooter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cooter/32/7199_2.png) [@cooter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cooter)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 4:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/53 "2006-07-26T16:55:28Z")
^^^^^ and dont forget your mugshot too…lol ---
**Author:** ![cooter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cooter/32/7199_2.png) [@cooter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cooter)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 4:57pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/54 "2006-07-26T16:57:25Z")
> [@focusinprogress](#): > > ^this is the plan lol. > tonight when i finish putting my focus back together(guessing around 9ish) im gonna call her up and ask her if its ok if i stop by to drop off her backpack. then once i get there i plan to either stay within the front hall and tell her i just want to talk for a minute to get something off my chest…and then ill just come out with it nice and easy. when she starts flipping im just gonna leave and be done with it. first thing tomarrow morning i have to go to cingular and have unlimited text added to my phone and have her number blocked. everyone pray for me lol, i dont feel like starting a thread at 10pm tonight with pictures of my black eye and bruised nutsack dont forget your mugshot too…lol ---
**Author:** ![MiniSRT4](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/minisrt4/32/7225_2.png) [@MiniSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MiniSRT4)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 5:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/55 "2006-07-26T17:14:04Z")
wear a cup, a helmet and a chest protector…then when she askes you why your wearing it…dump her… :lol: ---
**Author:** ![focusinprogress](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/focusinprogress/32/7227_2.png) [@focusinprogress](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/focusinprogress)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/56 "2006-07-26T18:07:45Z")
^hahaha. im about to jump in the shower, and call her. T-minus approx. 35mins to dump time lol. :lockd: ---
**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/57 "2006-07-26T18:26:28Z")
eesh good luck bro … hell with good luck, just actually _do it_ this time… 😉 ---
**Author:** ![focusinprogress](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/focusinprogress/32/7227_2.png) [@focusinprogress](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/focusinprogress)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/58 "2006-07-26T18:31:00Z")
fuck…she wont let me stop by shes going to bed!!! FUCKIN A. i guess ill have to try again tomarro fuck:rant: ---
**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/59 "2006-07-26T18:32:37Z")
call her back and be like IT’S REALLY IMPORTANT I TALK TO YOU i guarantee you she knows and is blocking you EDIT: and tired chicks can’t punch that hard EDIT2: shit, that sucks dude. try to set up a time to meet with her tomorrow night then? ---
**Author:** ![focusinprogress](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/focusinprogress/32/7227_2.png) [@focusinprogress](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/focusinprogress)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2006, 6:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/focusinprogress-is-a-free-man/15055/60 "2006-07-26T18:35:01Z")
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