# Friends.

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**Created:** [July 13, 2011, 10:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/friends/259400 "2011-07-13T10:38:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)\
**Post date:** [July 13, 2011, 11:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/friends/259400/21 "2011-07-13T11:57:35Z")

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> [@I Present to you Latigo](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/i-present-to-you-latigo/43877/2):
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> Not sure how old you are, but I noticed as you get older (after college etc). Your friends really thin out. You see who your true friends are. Luckily I surrounded myself with good people. It is hard to find “Good” friends. Seems a lot have ulterior motives, or want to just stab you in the back.

thats true. My reunion is coming up, about 130 people responded to the face book RSVP… they sent the save the date cards and asked for payment $50 a head by the 16th for an all you can eat/drink joint… 5 responded, so its getting canceled.

Most of the “friends” I had in HS, 10 years ago, still live at home, racked up serious school debt to finish college/attempt to… and still work at minimum wage shit jobs, still think its cool to party all night and get obnoxious, more or less havnt grown up at all. I see them out, say hi how are you how have you been… thats it.

my real friends I can call any time, any day to pull my car out of a ditch, will drive an hr or so to come help me with a moments notice, and I would/have done the same for them.

This is also why I dont see myself moving away, or if I do it will be very hard for me I think.

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