# Gayest Emo Kid Ever... **URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/gayest-emo-kid-ever/21376 **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic **Created:** [December 8, 2006, 9:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/gayest-emo-kid-ever/21376 "2006-12-08T21:42:45Z") **Posts on this page:** 1 **Showing post:** 41
### Author: ![JCuz](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jcuz/32/7338_2.png) [@JCuz](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JCuz) #### Post date: [December 13, 2006, 9:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/gayest-emo-kid-ever/21376/41 "2006-12-13T09:46:41Z")
> [@RedGoober4Life](#): > > Their voices change? Most don’t change. That would assume that it’s different before than it is after. Some people that are gay act effeminate, some act straight and there’s a whole “gray area” in between. My best guess is the organizational effects of hormones when a baby is developing in the womb Although most have normal, functioning male and female genitalia (respectively) so I’m not sure if that’s a good guess. I wouldn’t rule out a social-cognitive aspect. It’s certainly possible. > > Being gay is nothing to be ashamed of. Being an idiot is. > > It isn’t about getting attention, either. Ugh. Although some certainly exploit it. > > What I do notice is that sometimes other gay people claim that “coming out” is a sort of cure all for feeling trapped, and then people that are gay end up assimilating into a sort of “gay life” that has its own set of standards and expectations of its own. Lovely. People anywhere are looking to be accepted–the smart ones notice if being accepted conflicts with their concept self value. Unfortunately many young people simply don’t value themselves enough. This is especially true for young people that are gay. People should be ashamed of being an idiot but they find ways to make excuses for themselves, but people should not think being an idiot and being ignorant is the same, everyone is ignorant(lacking in knowledge) about things in this world. The few gay people I have met seem to be just like me in the sense that they trying to live their lives and make their way in this world, it just sucks that their are straight people who give most gays a bad name just because they are different as well was some gay people that give straight people a bad perception about their way of life --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/gayest-emo-kid-ever/21376)._