# girl question **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [October 16, 2005, 8:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468 "2005-10-16T20:27:33Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![97Ranger](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/97ranger/32/7342_2.png) [@97Ranger](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/97Ranger)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/1 "2005-10-16T20:27:33Z")
ok people im a little confused… this girl i have been talking to for the last 3 months just told me like last week that she really likes me and i really like her back… now then she tells me she doenst want a bf but she wants us to act like we are together… holding hands, kissing etc… and she wants to get closer to me she told me… this is the most confusng thing i have ever heard anybody have comments ---
**Author:** ![MidgeX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a698b9/32.png) [@MidgeX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MidgeX)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/2 "2005-10-16T20:35:27Z")
if u like this girl do it, its called seeing someone, then maybe it’ll turn into something else. :tup: ---
**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/3 "2005-10-16T20:37:28Z")
Have you slept with her yet? ---
**Author:** ![drugdealer](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drugdealer/32/7312_2.png) [@drugdealer](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drugdealer)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/4 "2005-10-16T20:43:59Z")
> [@MidgeX](#): > > if u like this girl do it, its called seeing someone, then maybe it’ll turn into something else. :tup: :word: . . It’s like she’s covering all her bases. It’s a girls way of saying “I have an excuse to not take it to the next step if I don’t end up liking you” in the next couple weeks/days/etc. the whole holding hands and kissing is her way of testing the waters if your bf material. Your already in, just don’t mess it up by \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_(fill in blank), and you’ll be fine. good luck!👋 ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/5 "2005-10-16T20:50:49Z")
i agree…/ but if you sense games… then get out while you can… not worth getting involved if you can save yourself… ---
**Author:** ![funkylemons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3ec8ea/32.png) [@funkylemons](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/funkylemons)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 8:54pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/6 "2005-10-16T20:54:13Z")
99% chance she does the same w/ other guys as well… i ‘dated’ a slut like that before… she wont commit to one guy… so she can see more than 1… pathetic if you ask me. ---
**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/7 "2005-10-16T21:16:38Z")
smart girl … but you need to be smarter … i mean if she just wants to “see” you then go “see” other girls as well … just my .02 ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/8 "2005-10-16T21:30:22Z")
> [@sprfreek](#): > > smart girl … but you need to be smarter … i mean if she just wants to “see” you then go “see” other girls as well … just my .02 :tup: i agree… ---
**Author:** ![MonteCarloChick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/9 "2005-10-16T21:38:24Z")
Lame… dump her. ---
**Author:** ![Daddie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/daddie/32/7621_2.png) [@Daddie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Daddie)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/10 "2005-10-16T21:39:44Z")
there’s nothing to dump This is perfect! No commiment Don’t get caught falling for her 🙂 DO IT IN THE BUTT ---
**Author:** ![MidgeX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a698b9/32.png) [@MidgeX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MidgeX)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/11 "2005-10-16T21:41:49Z")
freak that shit tone 😉 ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/12 "2005-10-16T21:42:50Z")
my current girlfriend and I “saw each other” for about two months before we made it official. I think its a good way of doing things, just don’t try and be too serious too soon, take the relationship one step at a time and things will work out well. Goodluck man ---
**Author:** ![Daddie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/daddie/32/7621_2.png) [@Daddie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Daddie)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/13 "2005-10-16T21:45:06Z")
DON’T BE A BITCH seriously DON’T FALL “in love” Just fucking go with the flow don’t worry about shit later DO HER IN THE BUTT ---
**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:47pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/14 "2005-10-16T21:47:36Z")
> [@Daddie](#): > > DON’T BE A BITCH > > DO HER IN THE BUTT :tup: 🤣 best quote ever! ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 9:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/15 "2005-10-16T21:58:41Z")
i agree with daddy, besides that falling in love with a girl in 2 weeks is just weak. That is the biggest turn-off to a girl, if u throw urself at her shes not gonna be attracted to you. ppl always say its the biggest assholes that get the girls but thats just because girls like a challenge, sumn to want. make her want you, physically, then just dont fuck it up by saying something stupid and ur in there like swimwear ---
**Author:** ![91MR2](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/91mr2/32/7217_2.png) [@91MR2](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91MR2)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 10:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/16 "2005-10-16T22:32:07Z")
Yeah…umm…how old is she? By your description, I’m going to say… 1. That just sounds ridiculous, but do what you got to do… ---
**Author:** ![MidgeX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a698b9/32.png) [@MidgeX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MidgeX)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 10:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/17 "2005-10-16T22:39:32Z")
> [@91MR2](#): > > Yeah…umm…how old is she? By your description, I’m going to say… > > 1. > > That just sounds ridiculous, but do what you got to do… it actually isn’t that uncommon just go with the flow and nuts in the ass dick in the pussy ---
**Author:** ![Coldaccord](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/coldaccord/32/7272_2.png) [@Coldaccord](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Coldaccord)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2005, 10:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/18 "2005-10-16T22:50:35Z")
if it doesnt turn into dating, just booty calls; come in her mouth. best thing ever. don’t have to use condoms, and it’s a lot more fun 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ly555is](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3bc359/32.png) [@ly555is](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ly555is)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2005, 12:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/19 "2005-10-17T00:00:13Z")
i am going to have to concur with both howard and andre on this issue ---
**Author:** ![Violator](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/violator/32/7278_2.png) [@Violator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Violator)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2005, 1:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468/20 "2005-10-17T01:45:02Z")
DONT THINK ABOUT IT. Just go for it. This doesnt have to be complicated. Leave the drama and analizing to the girls. If she has many guy FRIENDS and acts all friendly and stupid to them then you will get angry fast. If you see that action bang her but dont do any cutsie GF shit so you dont get attached. If a girl offers… BANG BANG BANG! DONT SAY NO. THEN GO,… AND TELL [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/girl-question/3468.md?page=2)