# Going to a bar alone **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [March 2, 2008, 1:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263 "2008-03-02T01:22:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![ILCisDEAD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a87d85/32.png) [@ILCisDEAD](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILCisDEAD)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 6:50pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/21 "2008-03-02T18:50:06Z")
> [@airhead](#): > > Only where the bartender is a friend and it’s not busy. same here ---
**Author:** ![slasky](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/slasky/32/7408_2.png) [@slasky](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/slasky)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/22 "2008-03-02T19:00:22Z")
I am at a bar by myself right now. I find it quite relaxing to sit back and have a beer without talking to anyone. I go to this hole in the wall polish bar that has awesome polish food. Even though I go by myself I know all of the regulars so it is not like I am totally alone. However i have been to bars by myself where i have not known anyone. ---
**Author:** ![Coldaccord](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/coldaccord/32/7272_2.png) [@Coldaccord](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Coldaccord)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 7:45pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/23 "2008-03-02T19:45:43Z")
and you are also online at said bar :retard: ---
**Author:** ![slasky](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/slasky/32/7408_2.png) [@slasky](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/slasky)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 7:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/24 "2008-03-02T19:49:05Z")
> [@Coldaccord](#): > > and you are also online at said bar > > :retard: Posting from my phone. ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/25 "2008-03-02T20:13:27Z")
> [@slasky](#): > > Posting from my phone. must be slow there 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Cavi\_Mike](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cavi_mike/32/5217_2.png) [@Cavi\_Mike](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Cavi_Mike)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 8:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/26 "2008-03-02T20:31:04Z")
If I need a drink, I couldn’t care less if there’s anyone there I know. Though if you meant a club, no. ---
**Author:** ![Jon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3bc359/32.png) [@Jon](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jon)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 10:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/27 "2008-03-02T22:28:57Z")
Never,but I probably will. I’ve gone to the movies alone,LOL. ---
**Author:** ![9ONA3OOZX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/9ona3oozx/32/7242_2.png) [@9ONA3OOZX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/9ONA3OOZX)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/28 "2008-03-02T22:38:08Z")
one of my best friends since the age of 6 is a bartender that i visit every thursday night and recently friday nights as well…thursday nights i usually have company, but even when i dont i still have a good time. but i dont think that counts as going alone for just a drink…because i’m going to hang out with a friend while she works… a bar where i know nobody, just for the sake of stopping for a drink…i dont know if i’d enjoy… ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2008, 11:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/29 "2008-03-02T23:29:36Z")
> [@Jon](#): > > I’ve gone to the movies alone,LOL. Thats one thing that I can never get myself to do. I never understood why I couldnt either because at a movie you just sit there quietly anyways. ---
**Author:** ![walter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/walter/32/7202_2.png) [@walter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/walter)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 5:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/30 "2008-03-03T05:12:25Z")
I do all the time when I’m traveling. When I’m home I’ll do it too, typically if there is a game on I want to see and Monica doesn’t want to come. Most people are usually friendly and you can find some friends to talk to… if not, watch the TV or something. If I just want to drink and watch TV though I’ll usually do it at home where i won’t get smokey. ---
**Author:** ![Bassdegrime](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bassdegrime/32/5027_2.png) [@Bassdegrime](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bassdegrime)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 2:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/31 "2008-03-03T14:42:24Z")
I roll dolo from state to state like Ike Love ---
**Author:** ![Cavi\_Mike](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cavi_mike/32/5217_2.png) [@Cavi\_Mike](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Cavi_Mike)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 3:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/32 "2008-03-03T15:14:55Z")
I can’t believe 26 people voted ‘No fucking way, it’s too creepy.’ There’s gotta be a bunch of female lurkers on here. ---
**Author:** ![speedracer329](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/speedracer329/32/5058_2.png) [@speedracer329](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/speedracer329)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 3:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/33 "2008-03-03T15:37:14Z")
ive done it a few times, but my best friend is the bartender so we just shoot the shit… the other times ive gone i always run into people i know. but the one time i was alone was creepy… ---
**Author:** ![98SS10](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/98ss10/32/7288_2.png) [@98SS10](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/98SS10)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 9:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/34 "2008-03-03T21:07:43Z")
A good wing man is a must! ---
**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2008, 11:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/35 "2008-03-03T23:00:46Z")
i do like being alone at times to talk to women but i def agree you need a good wingman. ---
**Author:** ![ezfd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ezfd/32/7334_2.png) [@ezfd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ezfd)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2008, 3:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263/36 "2008-03-04T15:11:40Z")
I go to a few bars alone, only because i know the bartenders. I usually start out alone and meet up with friends throughout the evening. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/going-to-a-bar-alone/44263.md?page=1)