# good friends ex-girlfriend **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [November 28, 2007, 8:44pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439 "2007-11-28T20:44:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 5:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/21 "2007-11-29T05:34:45Z")
never, plently of other people in the world… do u really want to date your friends ex slam piece? eck ---
**Author:** ![OfficerK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/4da419/32.png) [@OfficerK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OfficerK)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 5:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/22 "2007-11-29T05:36:15Z")
ehhh as long as he doesn’t find out…its alll gooooodddd ---
**Author:** ![chino](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/bcef8e/32.png) [@chino](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/chino)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 5:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/23 "2007-11-29T05:38:37Z")
depends on intention - hit it & quit it who cares, if you want to date this chick, and you give a shit about your friend, ask him. let me put it this way - i could give less of a fuck if someone banged my ex-girlfriend. however i would think that my friend was a pretty stand up person to ask. ---
**Author:** ![Jared](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jared/32/4976_2.png) [@Jared](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jared)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 6:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/24 "2007-11-29T06:05:17Z")
if you want to break man law, that is def a big no ---
**Author:** ![Zer0DazE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zer0daze/32/7624_2.png) [@Zer0DazE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zer0DazE)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 6:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/25 "2007-11-29T06:16:49Z")
share the wealth hit that shit ---
**Author:** ![SVT3945](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/svt3945/32/7409_2.png) [@SVT3945](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SVT3945)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 6:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/26 "2007-11-29T06:21:56Z")
no grace period. should not have let it go if you cared that much about him or her. ---
**Author:** ![ineedacar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/48db29/32.png) [@ineedacar](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ineedacar)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 7:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/27 "2007-11-29T07:15:20Z")
if you said never, you’re funny. its only a fucking girl. if your friend would get pissed u fucked his ex, then he still feels something for her. he shouldnt care, there are 12930192 more girls out there. just cuz he fucked her doesnt make her off limits. and if your friend gets pissed that u do fuck her, he is a pussy, and selfish, and probably shouldnt be your friend. same type of person that would get mad if you went downtown with him and he wanted to fuck a girl that u ended up fucking and would get mad and wanna go home. get over it, especially if he dumped her. its over. not still kinda there, over. fuck whomever u want. but some guys are complete pussies for girls, some get it. edit: guy below made good point if he got dumped by her thats a different story, going back to he would get pissed. honestly, ive been in this situation before several times, easiest way to find out is to joke around about doing it in front of him. he says he doesnt care, you’re in. he starts crying and shit, id hold off. ---
**Author:** ![StairSRT4](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/stairsrt4/32/7585_2.png) [@StairSRT4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/StairSRT4)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 7:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/28 "2007-11-29T07:17:27Z")
I think that if the guy breaks up with the girl then he doesn’t want her anymore so it’s fair game…BUT if the girl breaks up with him…then don’t go after her for atleast a couple months if at all ---
**Author:** ![ILCisDEAD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a87d85/32.png) [@ILCisDEAD](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILCisDEAD)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 7:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/29 "2007-11-29T07:28:25Z")
This is an Ex Girlfriend for a reason… I say go for it… ---
**Author:** ![layzie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/layzie/32/7599_2.png) [@layzie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/layzie)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 7:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/30 "2007-11-29T07:38:46Z")
the second after they break up make your move. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 7:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/31 "2007-11-29T07:48:04Z")
Right. Because ending a relationship is just like closing a book. Slam it shut and it’s over. Feelings don’t linger. :bloated: Are you guys who are saying “fuck/date her immediately” really that clueless about human emotion? Have you never been through a break up? Do you not respect your friends? Are you just trying to sound cool? ---
**Author:** ![\_Karu](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/_karu/32/7602_2.png) [@\_Karu](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/_Karu)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/32 "2007-11-29T08:11:33Z")
I personally won’t though. Just…afraid of future repercussion… ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 8:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/33 "2007-11-29T08:14:11Z")
i love the trailer-park responses in here “its only a fucking girl” lol ---
**Author:** ![93dx\_hatch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90ced4/32.png) [@93dx\_hatch](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/93dx_hatch)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 8:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/34 "2007-11-29T08:35:39Z")
pics would help me make this decision for you ---
**Author:** ![97Ranger](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/97ranger/32/7342_2.png) [@97Ranger](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/97Ranger)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 9:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/35 "2007-11-29T09:13:35Z")
its not my decision lol… its just a topic that came up at work before our daily briefing started ---
**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 9:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/36 "2007-11-29T09:14:37Z")
umm never, thats just fucking terrible ---
**Author:** ![hondaride22](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hondaride22/32/5077_2.png) [@hondaride22](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/hondaride22)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 9:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/37 "2007-11-29T09:18:48Z")
i say… stick it in her and don’t tell him ~k that was the trailor park edition now- Break ups suck… but you gotta do what you gotta do… cough cough ---
**Author:** ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 9:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/38 "2007-11-29T09:19:51Z")
I would say it depends on if you view women as property… think about that. ---
**Author:** ![Adictd2b00st](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/adictd2b00st/32/7625_2.png) [@Adictd2b00st](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Adictd2b00st)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 9:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/39 "2007-11-29T09:23:24Z")
[quote=“StairSRT4,post:28,topic:39439"”] I think that if the guy breaks up with the girl then he doesn’t want her anymore so it’s fair game…BUT if the girl breaks up with him…then don’t go after her **at all** [/quote] fixed haha ---
**Author:** ![TORQDSS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/torqdss/32/5125_2.png) [@TORQDSS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TORQDSS)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2007, 10:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439/40 "2007-11-29T10:03:03Z")
i think manlaw says thats not allowed… i wouldn’t do it unless the good friend gives the go ahead and even then i probably wouldn’t do it just so i didn’t have to deal with the drama [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/good-friends-ex-girlfriend/39439.md?page=3)