# Got Ripped Off: Help Me Find INFO! :)

**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [January 16, 2009, 8:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441 "2009-01-16T08:52:23Z")
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### Author: ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 8:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/1 "2009-01-16T08:52:23Z")

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Well this guy off BMW forums had some HID fog lights for sale which I agreed to buy.

This was in November and he said he’d mail them out asap. Paid with paypal, and open a dispute and all that jazz.

I have one of his phone numbers, but that mailbox is now full. I was wondering if you guys could find any more info on this guy. It seems like he is younger. Maybe information on his parents? I would call and talk to them about it too. This is what I have so far.

Ben Capa  
User Name on Bimmer Forums= [capas328](http://forums.bimmerforums.com/forum/member.php?u=183263)  
843-864-9268  
217 Barnwell Street  
Summerville, SC 29483  
**[_Ben Capa_ - Charleston, SC | Facebook](http://www.facebook.com/people/Ben-Capa/1010633419)**

This is his own website.  
[http://www.capaproducts.com/](http://www.capaproducts.com/)

I want my $150 back! ☹

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### Author: ![MOBOOST4U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f4b2a3/32.png) [@MOBOOST4U](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MOBOOST4U)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 8:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/2 "2009-01-16T08:55:38Z")

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CKY89

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### Author: ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/3 "2009-01-16T09:08:41Z")

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dispute with your CC company… payapal’s dispute sucks.

and if you didn’t pay via paypal with a CC, well you’ve learnt a lesson here.

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### Author: ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/4 "2009-01-16T09:10:48Z")

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> [@theblue](#):
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> dispute with your CC company… payapal’s dispute sucks.
> 
> and if you didn’t pay via paypal with a CC, well you’ve learnt a lesson here.

I did pay via CC through Paypal, but I’d still like to teach this faggot a lesson.

I will give paypal ~3 more days to see what they say then the CC is getting a call canceling their payment to paypal.

Is mailing bombs still illegal?

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### Author: ![ZOMGVTEK](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zomgvtek/32/5063_2.png) [@ZOMGVTEK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ZOMGVTEK)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/5 "2009-01-16T09:21:30Z")

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Its almost 100% useless to go to your CC company if you used it though paypal. You agree to not do any chargebacks of any kind on any paypal purchased through a CC. I tried this a few times in the past, they said theres nothing they can do as I payed through paypal.

If you dont make yourself look like a asshole to paypal, you can create a dispute and escalate it to a paypal claim immediately. It will take one to two weeks for paypal to review it and decide what they want to do. You can USUALLY get your money back as the buyer, so long as the seller never responds or cant prove he shipped it. PayPal attempts to screw the seller over any chance they get, but will usually take care of the buyer. If he dosent have a verified address however, they dont like that.

Call, and bitch. It took me about two months to get a rather large amount of money back after the buyer decided to be a idiot, but its possible. The phone number is very diffuclt to find generally, but it exists.

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### Author: ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/6 "2009-01-16T09:23:57Z")

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Just contest it on your credit card. They will give you the $$$ back.

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### Author: ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/7 "2009-01-16T09:29:22Z")

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lol @ this guys facebook and website.

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### Author: ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/8 "2009-01-16T09:31:08Z")

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Someone order a bunch of menus from this guy.

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### Author: ![Dr.Stevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/da6949/32.png) [@Dr.Stevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dr.Stevil)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/9 "2009-01-16T09:46:51Z")

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did you call the number?

I’d leave a message @ the number for his businees asking about ordering menus and wait for a call back… when he calls you back, let him know you’re going after him if he doesn’t make good on his end of the deal

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### Author: ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/10 "2009-01-16T09:48:59Z")

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> [@ZOMGVTEK](#):
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> Its almost 100% useless to go to your CC company if you used it though paypal. You agree to not do any chargebacks of any kind on any paypal purchased through a CC. I tried this a few times in the past, they said theres nothing they can do as I payed through paypal.

I had no problem with my MBNA card disputing w/ paypal. paypal didn’t say anything either, they just took the money back from the seller (after they already declined my case with them)

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/11 "2009-01-16T09:56:14Z")

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impressive…not one comment about “it’s only $150, stop being poor”

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### Author: ![aberfitch82](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/aberfitch82/32/5041_2.png) [@aberfitch82](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/aberfitch82)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/12 "2009-01-16T09:58:09Z")

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its more of a hastle, ur better off trying to sell him something on another username and steal ur money back :rubicant:

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### Author: ![Moruitelda](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/moruitelda/32/5348_2.png) [@Moruitelda](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Moruitelda)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 9:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/13 "2009-01-16T09:59:55Z")

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> [@ZOMGVTEK](#):
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> Its almost 100% useless to go to your CC company if you used it though paypal. You agree to not do any chargebacks of any kind on any paypal purchased through a CC. I tried this a few times in the past, they said theres nothing they can do as I payed through paypal.
> 
> If you dont make yourself look like a asshole to paypal, you can create a dispute and escalate it to a paypal claim immediately. It will take one to two weeks for paypal to review it and decide what they want to do. You can USUALLY get your money back as the buyer, so long as the seller never responds or cant prove he shipped it. PayPal attempts to screw the seller over any chance they get, but will usually take care of the buyer. If he dosent have a verified address however, they dont like that.
> 
> Call, and bitch. It took me about two months to get a rather large amount of money back after the buyer decided to be a idiot, but its possible. The phone number is very diffuclt to find generally, but it exists.

Yeah, if the scammer is a complete idiot and didn’t empty the PayPal account immediately after receiving the funds. PayPal will not go into an account to pull back scam funds, even if it’s tied to the PayPal account.

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### Author: ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/14 "2009-01-16T11:13:16Z")

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> [@Eazy716](#):
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> impressive…not one comment about “it’s only $150, stop being poor”

I don’t care if it is $5. It is my god damn money. I have spent more than that drinking in one night, but it is mine and he has no right to have it.

> [@Dr.Stevil](#):
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> did you call the number?
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> I’d leave a message @ the number for his businees asking about ordering menus and wait for a call back… when he calls you back, let him know you’re going after him if he doesn’t make good on his end of the deal

I actually called and left two messages, now the mail box is full.

The guy seemed really nice, and gave me his name and number. He responded to all my PM’s via the forum regularly, I hope something didn’t actually happen to him. I hope he is just a douche bag, because I’m pissed about this and feel inclined to call the authorities.

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/15 "2009-01-16T11:22:59Z")

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> [@ultradriver10000](#):
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> I don’t care if it is $5. It is my god damn money. I have spent more than that drinking in one night, but it is mine and he has no right to have it.

i totally agree. I just find it funny people on here will attack certain people for it, but not others…that was where my comment was directed.

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### Author: ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/16 "2009-01-16T11:26:05Z")

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also, I would assume you’ve already done this, but he’s also on some local forums down in carolina you could chase him around there or post up.

[http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&fkt=2483&fsdt=2483&q=capas328&aq=f&oq=](http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&fkt=2483&fsdt=2483&q=capas328&aq=f&oq=)

And his linkedin profile and some other related search material where you might be able to track him down

[http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&fkt=2313&fsdt=2313&q=Ben+Capa&aq=f&oq=](http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&fkt=2313&fsdt=2313&q=Ben+Capa&aq=f&oq=)

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### Author: ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/17 "2009-01-16T11:26:54Z")

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![http://profile.ak.facebook.com/v230/1900/77/n1010633419_2990.jpg](http://profile.ak.facebook.com/v230/1900/77/n1010633419_2990.jpg)

broooski

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### Author: ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/18 "2009-01-16T11:33:04Z")

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Do you guys have a way to look at his facebook?

Do you guys have a way of find out his parents address or names?

Thanks.

(I am going to cook his parents in chili, and get my money back. Thanks)

“Bro you killed and cooked my parents…bro that isn’t cool bro”

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### Author: ![Viper966](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/viper966/32/7268_2.png) [@Viper966](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Viper966)
#### Post date: [January 16, 2009, 11:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/got-ripped-off-help-me-find-info/61441/19 "2009-01-16T11:36:18Z")

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go after people in his linked in network…
