# help need advise **URL:** \ **Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [October 26, 2004, 7:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016 "2004-10-26T19:51:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![GNocide](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gnocide/32/5947_2.png) [@GNocide](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GNocide)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 7:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/1 "2004-10-26T19:51:55Z")
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out ‘with the girls’ a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them”. I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch. Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?? ---
**Author:** ![Sight\_N\_Sound](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sight_n_sound/32/5950_2.png) [@Sight\_N\_Sound](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sight_N_Sound)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 7:53pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/2 "2004-10-26T19:53:36Z")
LOL, I thought you were married anyways 😃 ---
**Author:** ![rookee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rookee/32/5972_2.png) [@rookee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rookee)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 8:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/3 "2004-10-26T20:04:18Z")
🤣 ---
**Author:** ![OnTheRun710](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/5fc32e/32.png) [@OnTheRun710](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/OnTheRun710)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 8:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/4 "2004-10-26T20:15:04Z")
u fucker… 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![whitey](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/whitey/32/5911_2.png) [@whitey](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/whitey)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 8:23pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/5 "2004-10-26T20:23:23Z")
hahahahahah ---
**Author:** ![S10Blazed\_Si](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/s10blazed_si/32/5983_2.png) [@S10Blazed\_Si](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/S10Blazed_Si)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 8:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/6 "2004-10-26T20:29:36Z")
hahaha, damn. I hope thats a joke. I was feelin for you as I was reading down through it. I even said to myself: “damn bitches!” But anyways, I think you should have it looked at by a professional. 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![imported\_Sleeper](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/imported_sleeper/32/5939_2.png) [@imported\_Sleeper](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/imported_Sleeper)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 8:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/7 "2004-10-26T20:39:10Z")
:gives: ---
**Author:** ![Craig\_King](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f0a364/32.png) [@Craig\_King](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Craig_King)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2004, 9:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/8 "2004-10-26T21:06:58Z")
> [@S10Blazed Si](#): > > hahaha, damn. I hope thats a joke. Yes, it’s floating around on various intarweb forumnets. ---
**Author:** ![German\_with\_a\_Bowtie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/german_with_a_bowtie/32/5967_2.png) [@German\_with\_a\_Bowtie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/German_with_a_Bowtie)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 2:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/9 "2004-10-27T02:46:15Z")
As the old saying goes, “I think you should take things into your own hands now” Bodywork and spanking that monkey :jerkit: :wackit: :kekegay: :jerkit: :wackit: :kekegay: :jerkit: :wackit: :kekegay: ---
**Author:** ![Turbo\_Silverado](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbo_silverado/32/5990_2.png) [@Turbo\_Silverado](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Turbo_Silverado)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 3:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/10 "2004-10-27T03:48:33Z")
asshole…i was thinking that u had some real bad relationship problems…but ya…do the work urself…if it doesnt go well…then take it to the shop ---
**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 4:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/11 "2004-10-27T04:53:23Z")
dont u mean malefreind? ---
**Author:** ![fshowcars](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fshowcars/32/5937_2.png) [@fshowcars](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fshowcars)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 5:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/12 "2004-10-27T05:01:17Z")
> [@8.1crew](#): > > dont u mean gay sex partner?? ---
**Author:** ![GNocide](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gnocide/32/5947_2.png) [@GNocide](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GNocide)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 5:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/13 "2004-10-27T05:35:53Z")
NO RUST!!! bad joke. :bigthumb: ---
**Author:** ![vtecsol](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b5ac83/32.png) [@vtecsol](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/vtecsol)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 5:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/14 "2004-10-27T05:37:10Z")
thats pretty good ---
**Author:** ![77rednecktruck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/77rednecktruck/32/5966_2.png) [@77rednecktruck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/77rednecktruck)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 5:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/15 "2004-10-27T05:42:51Z")
hahahahahahahaha ---
**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 5:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/16 "2004-10-27T05:58:25Z")
:bigthumb: ---
**Author:** ![slowkid02](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7bcc69/32.png) [@slowkid02](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/slowkid02)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 6:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/17 "2004-10-27T06:01:17Z")
LOL I thought you were serious till I read the ending! Good one! ---
**Author:** ![Talonchick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@Talonchick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Talonchick)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 9:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/18 "2004-10-27T09:03:08Z")
> [@Sight N Sound](#): > > LOL, > > I thought you were married anyways 😃 hahaha, yea you had me going there too man ---
**Author:** ![Quik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/quik/32/5979_2.png) [@Quik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Quik)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2004, 9:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/help-need-advise/170016/19 "2004-10-27T09:05:32Z")
lame, lame, lame but deffently had ppl going on that one