# How easy is it/Restraining order????? **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [July 20, 2005, 8:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964 "2005-07-20T20:06:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![DJ\_X-StatiK](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dj_x-statik/32/7579_2.png) [@DJ\_X-StatiK](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/DJ_X-StatiK)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2005, 9:36pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/41 "2005-07-27T21:36:41Z")
yikes…creepo psycho guys suck… it shouldnt be difficult…save all of the proof of the harrassment you can… goodluck! ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2005, 5:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/42 "2005-07-28T05:43:52Z")
get him to sign up to nyspeed… lol, you should post that message he sent you… lol. ---
**Author:** ![TrueBlue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/trueblue/32/7245_2.png) [@TrueBlue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TrueBlue)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2005, 7:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/43 "2005-07-28T07:11:43Z")
I would still look at a.) restraining order b.) bear spray (not pepper spray), drunks can not fight through that, and you met him at a bar c.) ask one of the IDT kids if you can raid their supply kits, we had some great self-defence toys in there, like the big stainless T-squares - carry it on your school pack, makes for a nice deterrent. The edges are pretty sharp and it’s legal to carry. in '97 a girl I went there with was mugged on the 6th street bridge (roberto clemente), on her way back to Allegheny 7. She stuck the attacker with one of the Plastiweld syringes and ended the confrontation. I felt bad for the attacker. He sounds like he’s unstable as fuck. i wouldn’t wait for him to physically harm you before you become proactive. ---
**Author:** ![Lucky\_Cheater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb9ed0/32.png) [@Lucky\_Cheater](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Lucky_Cheater)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2005, 7:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/44 "2005-07-28T07:46:24Z")
My girlfriends x boyfriend used to call me…I programmed his number as “dont answer”…he im’d me saying all sorts of shit about how shes a slut…I said " thanks for the advice" what I should have said “no shit shes a slut, im railin the bitch doggy style right now!” now that your mom called him your screwed…regardless of you being against the situation any non-legal action you take is contributing to the drama. stop talking to him period…no matter how mad he makes you…He’ll go away…or he’ll kill you, hopefully the latter -Cheater- ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2005, 2:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/45 "2005-07-28T14:32:44Z")
My mom’s cop friend said there were just two girls back in Buffalo in a similar situation as myself…one had a restraining order, one didn’t…both are dead. So I figure I’m screwed either way if he keeps this up. HOPEFULLY it’ll just pass over. I’m just affraid if I file anything against him, that’ll just add fuel to the fire, ya know? Everything I’ve read on pressing charges, harassment orders, protection orders…all said that when you do file one it’s the most dangerous time… ---
**Author:** ![HotRodKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hotrodkid/32/7609_2.png) [@HotRodKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HotRodKid)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 12:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/46 "2005-07-29T00:47:41Z")
buy a gun wait for HIM to call you … invite him over let him walk in you rhouse himself … immidatly call 911 while screaming hystericly that youre stalked is breaking in shoot randomly in his dirrection, peg him 3 times and other stuff around him like 6 times claim self defense ---
**Author:** ![funkylemons](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3ec8ea/32.png) [@funkylemons](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/funkylemons)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 2:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/47 "2005-07-29T02:51:56Z")
> [@Vrooom](#): > > I’m just affraid if I file anything against him, that’ll just add fuel to the fire, ya know? Ok… so you don’t want a restraining order… WTH is the point of this thread? You ask for help and then don’t want it. You can’t really complain if you don’t do anything about it… ---
**Author:** ![Vrooom](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vrooom/32/7198_2.png) [@Vrooom](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vrooom)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 6:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/48 "2005-07-29T06:35:17Z")
> [@funkylemons](#): > > Ok… so you don’t want a restraining order… WTH is the point of this thread? You ask for help and then don’t want it. You can’t really complain if you don’t do anything about it… bah no no no…I’m was just saying it makes me nervous because I don’t know if it’s going to just make him more angry and insane ---
**Author:** ![Daddie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/daddie/32/7621_2.png) [@Daddie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Daddie)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 6:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/49 "2005-07-29T06:41:14Z")
Did he stop? I’ll be over there one weekend and he can come over ---
**Author:** ![Lucky\_Cheater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb9ed0/32.png) [@Lucky\_Cheater](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Lucky_Cheater)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 6:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/50 "2005-07-29T06:41:55Z")
hire a hit man…problem solved…I know a good one, his names Tony-Open shirt -Cheater- ---
**Author:** ![TrueBlue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/trueblue/32/7245_2.png) [@TrueBlue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TrueBlue)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2005, 7:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964/51 "2005-07-29T07:21:18Z")
well, either think offensively or defensively. get big dudes to go to his house. acquire personal safety implements, like spray. get the 5.0 involved. see how tough his irish mafia ass is in allegheny county. it’s not fun in there. at all. -or- ignore all attempts by him to contact you, no matter how persisitent or aggravating they become. change phone numbers. new e-mail addresses. move. he sounds to me like a big gnat. annoying as hell but not dangerous. doing nothing is a bad idea though, you should be moving in one direction or another. if you had rats in your house, would you say, “I’ll just wait until they go away”? [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-easy-is-it-restraining-order/964.md?page=2)