# How to ditch the baggage....

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**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [March 25, 2009, 11:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078 "2009-03-25T11:01:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![justa4door](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justa4door/32/7259_2.png) [@justa4door](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/justa4door)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/21 "2009-03-25T11:38:06Z")

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> [@sedlmeier101](#):
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> pray you aren’t in my shoes. my ex of a year ago is a god damn psycho… she still randomly calls me from private numbers, won’t leave me alone…keeps asking about me to other people, finds out when my new gf and I will be at a certain bar, and comes there…ect ect.

fuck the ex … /story

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**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/22 "2009-03-25T11:38:31Z")

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Clearly she didn’t figure out how much you suck at life yet…you should explain and things will work themselves out…

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hahahah^^ riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight

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**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/23 "2009-03-25T11:42:34Z")

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exactly…

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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/24 "2009-03-25T11:43:34Z")

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First resigning your job, now a break-up. Making moves kid.

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**Author:** ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/25 "2009-03-25T11:47:30Z")

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rev her to 12k.

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**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/26 "2009-03-25T11:49:19Z")

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> [@boardjnky4](#):
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> First resigning your job, now a break-up. Making moves kid.

you should my new house:eekdance:

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**Author:** ![tpgsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tpgsr/32/7374_2.png) [@tpgsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tpgsr)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/27 "2009-03-25T11:49:57Z")

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Suprise Butt Sex :gotme:

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**Author:** ![justa4door](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justa4door/32/7259_2.png) [@justa4door](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/justa4door)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/28 "2009-03-25T11:50:55Z")

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> [@tpgsr](#):
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> Suprise Butt Sex :gotme:

but if she likes it?

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/29 "2009-03-25T11:51:02Z")

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> [@SoloIIscoob](#):
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> you should my new house:eekdance:

the whole thing

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**Author:** ![Mr\_T](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mr_t/32/7454_2.png) [@Mr\_T](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mr_T)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/30 "2009-03-25T11:51:52Z")

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Just wait for a rough day/night with her then tell her, hey this just isnt working out, all we do is fight stuff isnt the same, I think its over. I was with my ex for almost 4 years and shit got rocky in the past few months and I started talking to this other girl from work alot. It was a sign I think because the bitchier and harder to be around my girlfriend was, the nicer, and more into me the girl from work got.

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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/31 "2009-03-25T11:52:04Z")

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I will not your whole house. None of it.

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**Author:** ![Mr\_T](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mr_t/32/7454_2.png) [@Mr\_T](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mr_T)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/32 "2009-03-25T11:52:12Z")

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> [@tpgsr](#):
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> Suprise Butt Sex :gotme:

YES! lol

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**Author:** ![SoloIIscoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@SoloIIscoob](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SoloIIscoob)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/33 "2009-03-25T11:53:32Z")

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> [@tpgsr](#):
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> Suprise Butt Sex :gotme:

wouldnt work:banghead:

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**Author:** ![justa4door](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/justa4door/32/7259_2.png) [@justa4door](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/justa4door)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 11:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/34 "2009-03-25T11:54:19Z")

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lol SHE LIKES IT

keep her

or you just dont smash

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**Author:** ![snowracer101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@snowracer101](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/snowracer101)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/35 "2009-03-25T12:12:42Z")

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> [@SoloIIscoob](#):
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> wouldnt work:banghead:

Umm, during doggy style sex,pull it all the way out, and in a frantic put it back in…the wrong hole.  
Tears will ensue, then that is the time to break up.

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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/36 "2009-03-25T12:15:00Z")

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If she is not the freaky type, definitely do something fucked up to her in bed. Then break-up over the awkward silence.

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**Author:** ![Boomin99GT](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boomin99gt/32/7306_2.png) [@Boomin99GT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boomin99GT)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/37 "2009-03-25T12:21:43Z")

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You having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one.

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**Author:** ![Syrup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Syrup](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Syrup)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:23pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/38 "2009-03-25T12:23:39Z")

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> [@SoloIIscoob"](#):
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> so the time has come to ditch my extra load(the old GF)
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> so i canz upgrade to the new one(total package upgrade)
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> what is the best way to let a sign. other go without starting WWIII and/or having all your shit broken, stolen or mysteriously set on fire?
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> (and im not a noob at this, id just like some input from someone who was with someone for a year or so and how they let them go?)

for a year?

that ain’t shit just drop the load like it ain’t no thing

i had this problem after almost 4… after a year it would have been much easier

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**Author:** ![Syrup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Syrup](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Syrup)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/39 "2009-03-25T12:27:06Z")

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> [@Mr. T](#):
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> Just wait for a rough day/night with her then tell her, hey this just isnt working out, all we do is fight stuff isnt the same, I think its over. I was with my ex for almost 4 years and shit got rocky in the past few months and I started talking to this other girl from work alot. It was a sign I think because the bitchier and harder to be around my girlfriend was, the nicer, and more into me the girl from work got.

damn that literally like explains my last 4.5 years perfectly.

thanks Mr. T.— i don’t feel alone.

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**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\
**Post date:** [March 25, 2009, 12:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-ditch-the-baggage/65078/40 "2009-03-25T12:30:55Z")

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You could use her for anything its worth if shes a bitch. Have her take you out cuz you have money problems or something and have her get you shit.

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