# Hypothetically Speaking...

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [August 1, 2006, 5:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318 "2006-08-01T05:45:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 5:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/1 "2006-08-01T05:45:50Z")

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Analyze this situation:

Facts (a bit unclear, try and follow):

- You’ve been talking to your ex again.
- You still have feelings for her, things ended badly and you regret it slightly…
- You know for a fact, that her current boyfriend is cheating on her with HIS ex.
- The girl who he is sleeping with (his ex), contacts your ex and drops the bomb on her.
- Your ex’s current boyfriend convinces her that the girl he has been fucking (his ex) is insane and is just trying to break them up to get back with him.
- Your ex’s current boyfriend refuses to sleep with the other girl (his ex), anymore.

What do you do in this situation?

Oh, i almost forgot one:

Fact:

- Her current boyfriend is a VW driving, pimply faced total douchebag with bad hair and a huge fucking beak

Also, violence is out of the question, let’s not get into that…

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**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 5:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/2 "2006-08-01T05:47:26Z")

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oh goodness…i’m becoming a lesbian

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**Author:** ![MaximaSE98](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/maximase98/32/7600_2.png) [@MaximaSE98](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MaximaSE98)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 5:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/3 "2006-08-01T05:49:31Z")

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warn her of the situation and if she dont want to listen stay out of it from there on

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**Author:** ![catalyst](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/catalyst/32/7279_2.png) [@catalyst](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/catalyst)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 5:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/4 "2006-08-01T05:57:08Z")

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I would write a song about it and cry…

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**Author:** ![JUICEDSS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/juicedss/32/7185_2.png) [@JUICEDSS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JUICEDSS)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/5 "2006-08-01T06:07:31Z")

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> [@newman](#):
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> snip…  
> Fact:
> 
> - Her current boyfriend is a VW driving, pimply faced total douchebag with bad hair and a huge fucking beak

Sounds to me like her current BF is a better choice than you. :gotme: 😃

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/6 "2006-08-01T06:15:11Z")

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> [@JUICEDSS](#):
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> Sounds to me like her current BF is a better choice than you. :gotme: 😃

lol. yes. if you love ugly rod stewart.

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**Author:** ![Sc1chik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sc1chik/32/7243_2.png) [@Sc1chik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sc1chik)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/7 "2006-08-01T06:23:28Z")

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oh it all makes sense now.

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**Author:** ![RobHimself](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e480ec/32.png) [@RobHimself](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobHimself)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/8 "2006-08-01T06:25:29Z")

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Does she have friends? Maybe one of them can get the point across.

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**Author:** ![Sc1chik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sc1chik/32/7243_2.png) [@Sc1chik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sc1chik)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/9 "2006-08-01T06:27:34Z")

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hypothetically speaking and all…

are you saying it’s okay when you apparently cheated on her but not her current bf?

p.s. you guys were a cute sketchy couple.

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**Author:** ![fairgentleman\_Z](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fairgentleman_z/32/7263_2.png) [@fairgentleman\_Z](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/fairgentleman_Z)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/10 "2006-08-01T06:32:32Z")

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Fuck her bf in the ass and then the mouth.

And then slap him accross the face with your wallet chain, and say _“Pencils are made out of graphite, not lead. Fingernail clipper sniffer.”_

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**Author:** ![AKUMA\_TO\_TENSHI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/db5fbb/32.png) [@AKUMA\_TO\_TENSHI](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/AKUMA_TO_TENSHI)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/11 "2006-08-01T06:35:02Z")

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Save your money and it spend on the car. No really! It is a better ROE

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**Author:** ![Jagermeister](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f19dbf/32.png) [@Jagermeister](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jagermeister)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/12 "2006-08-01T06:41:14Z")

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> [@newman](#):
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> lol. yes. if you love ugly rod stewart.

oh shit, I know who it is.

Just leave it be. It’s not your fight.

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**Author:** ![j\_espo1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/j_espo1/32/7291_2.png) [@j\_espo1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/j_espo1)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/13 "2006-08-01T06:43:17Z")

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1st thing i’d do is go get tested for STD’s and hiv

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**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/14 "2006-08-01T06:44:30Z")

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Move on

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/15 "2006-08-01T06:46:34Z")

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> [@Sc1chik](#):
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> hypothetically speaking and all…
> 
> are you saying it’s okay when you apparently cheated on her but not her current bf?
> 
> p.s. you guys were a cute sketchy couple.

there is alot of speculation involved in what went down between the two of us. I know what happened, and i am sick of defending it.

besides… 5 days after they started dating. Puh-Lease…

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/16 "2006-08-01T06:47:33Z")

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> [@Jagermeister](#):
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> oh shit, I know who it is.
> 
> Just leave it be. It’s not your fight.

I realize that i really should have no say in the matter, but it’s not like i am entirely aloof from the situation…

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/17 "2006-08-01T06:48:22Z")

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> [@JaysGreenLX](#):
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> Move on

i can turn it off, but i’m debating it…

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**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/18 "2006-08-01T06:49:57Z")

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> [@JaysGreenLX](#):
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> Move on

you have no idea how great that would be…but its a hard thing to do…just takes some time

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**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/19 "2006-08-01T06:56:24Z")

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> [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](#):
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> you have no idea how great that would be…but its a hard thing to do…just takes some time

I have no idea? So you know me?

I went through a similar situation. It sucks, but who needs that kind of turmoil in their life? I realize there are still feelings there, but I think the worst thing to do is try to get involved with the situation. If they get back together, then they get back together. If not then maybe they shouldn’t. I find that just letting things happen and not trying to direct the course of events in the best thing to do. In my case, we didn’t get back together and I am much happier because of it.

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**Author:** ![93dx\_hatch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90ced4/32.png) [@93dx\_hatch](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/93dx_hatch)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/20 "2006-08-01T06:56:24Z")

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sounds like this vw driving kid is quite the pimp,

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