# Hypothetically Speaking... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [August 1, 2006, 5:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318 "2006-08-01T05:45:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![XwalkerX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/xwalkerx/32/7598_2.png) [@XwalkerX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/XwalkerX)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/21 "2006-08-01T06:56:44Z")
dude there are way to many girls in this world to get all strung out over l-dot. ---
**Author:** ![Sc1chik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sc1chik/32/7243_2.png) [@Sc1chik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sc1chik)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 6:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/22 "2006-08-01T06:58:59Z")
> [@XwalkerX](#): > > dude there are way to many girls in this world to get all strung out over l-dot. it’s seriously the truth. just take this as a learning experience. but if she means that much to you then you do what you got to do. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:06am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/23 "2006-08-01T07:06:35Z")
> [@XwalkerX](#): > > dude there are way to many girls in this world to get all strung out over l-dot. truth. seriously dude. we need to chill and let bygones be bygones… straight up, there it is. ^ ---
**Author:** ![Sc1chik](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sc1chik/32/7243_2.png) [@Sc1chik](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Sc1chik)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/24 "2006-08-01T07:31:04Z")
> [@newman](#): > > truth. > > seriously dude. we need to chill and let bygones be bygones… > > straight up, there it is. ^ killed two birds with one stone in this thread? ---
**Author:** ![JoesTypeS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joestypes/32/7190_2.png) [@JoesTypeS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JoesTypeS)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/25 "2006-08-01T07:34:59Z")
who gives a fuck? She’s your ex-girlfriend for a reason… ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/26 "2006-08-01T07:35:33Z")
> [@JoesTypeS](#): > > who gives a fuck? She’s your ex-girlfriend for a reason… i suppose, but we always know it’s never that cut and dry… ---
**Author:** ![JoesTypeS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joestypes/32/7190_2.png) [@JoesTypeS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JoesTypeS)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/27 "2006-08-01T07:39:41Z")
> [@newman](#): > > i suppose, but we always know it’s never that cut and dry… yeah, so what? Shit ended badly, we’ve all been there. It usually didn’t have to end badly but someone fucked some shit up along the way. It’s just something you have to accept…any relationship with that person will forever be tainted by whatever stupid shit you/they did while the original relationship was ending. It’d be nice if we could go back and just “erase” moments when we totally fucked up any possibility of a future (you know those moments when you say/do something while thinking “This is a bad fucking idea and I’m totally going to regret this” but you do it anyway), but hey…you can’t. So let it die and if you can ACTUALLY turn off any feelings for her, I suggest you do so. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/28 "2006-08-01T07:44:38Z")
i fucked her over so bad… now she’s just going to get it again, tho… i mean, it’s so hypocritical that i’m trying to save her, but it’s all i could do… ---
**Author:** ![JoesTypeS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joestypes/32/7190_2.png) [@JoesTypeS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JoesTypeS)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/29 "2006-08-01T07:45:56Z")
> [@newman](#): > > i fucked her over so bad… now she’s just going to get it again, tho… i mean, it’s so hypocritical that i’m trying to save her, but it’s all i could do… maybe she should stop dating those cool edgey hipster kids… ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/30 "2006-08-01T07:50:55Z")
Well, you could walk away and live your life. or You could get involved in a shit storm of drama that will stir up old emotions, confusing the hell out of your judgement and decision making ability, maybe start dating again, remember why it didn’t work the first time, break up only it’ll be uglier the second time around, then walk away wondering why you ever got involved in the first place. But it might be worth it. Maybe your feelings for her are real, not just regret over what could have been. Maybe you can save her.:roll2: Your call. ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/31 "2006-08-01T07:53:28Z")
the second one sounds so much more interesting, lol. meh, i’m not all broken hearted emo boy about it. i’m collected, just uncertain how to approach the idea… ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/32 "2006-08-01T07:54:50Z")
> [@newman](#): > > the second one sounds so much more interesting, lol. Haha yeah and you’ll probably get some poon out of the deal. :tup: ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 7:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/33 "2006-08-01T07:56:49Z")
> [@BikerFry](#): > > Haha yeah and you’ll probably get some poon out of the deal. :tup: haha, that’s not an issue. i can get poon out of almost any deal. ---
**Author:** ![Joe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/joe/32/7219_2.png) [@Joe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Joe)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/34 "2006-08-01T08:05:20Z")
Personally, I wouldn’t be going for a VW driving, pimply faced total douchebag with bad hair and a huge fucking beak’s sloppy seconds. That shit sucks if you know they were with a douchebag before…all it takes is a 1 second thought of her fucking them raw dog, instant buzzkill ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/35 "2006-08-01T08:09:50Z")
> [@Joe](#): > > Personally, I wouldn’t be going for a VW driving, pimply faced total douchebag with bad hair and a huge fucking beak’s sloppy seconds. > > That shit sucks if you know they were with a douchebag before…all it takes is a 1 second thought of her fucking them raw dog, instant buzzkill eh, i’ve dealt with it in the past. ---
**Author:** ![STEALTTH](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/stealtth/32/7582_2.png) [@STEALTTH](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/STEALTTH)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/36 "2006-08-01T08:52:50Z")
> [@JoesTypeS](#): > > yeah, so what? Shit ended badly, we’ve all been there. It usually didn’t have to end badly but someone fucked some shit up along the way. > > It’s just something you have to accept…any relationship with that person will forever be tainted by whatever stupid shit you/they did while the original relationship was ending. It’d be nice if we could go back and just “erase” moments when we totally fucked up any possibility of a future (you know those moments when you say/do something while thinking “This is a bad fucking idea and I’m totally going to regret this” but you do it anyway), but hey…you can’t. > > So let it die and if you can ACTUALLY turn off any feelings for her, I suggest you do so. :word: If it doesn’t work the first time, it wont the second time. Theres a reason why you broke up and you might always have feelings for this girl, but its not going to work. I made the mistake of getting back together with an ex, thinking that the issues that we had wern’t going to be a factor, because i really did care about her and wanted to get back together. Well, it didn’t work because eventually those issues became larger then the “missing” her feeling. I still care about her and miss her from time to time, but realize that it’s just not gonna work, so i’ve looked elsewhere. ---
**Author:** ![Zong](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zong/32/7580_2.png) [@Zong](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zong)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/37 "2006-08-01T08:58:05Z")
Man, all this peripheral shit and no one has talked about a core issue. TRUST. If it’s not intact don’t even bother with a second time around. Period. ---
**Author:** ![badazzss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19adc/32.png) [@badazzss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/badazzss)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/38 "2006-08-01T08:58:55Z")
lol. > [@JUICEDSS](#): > > Sounds to me like her current BF is a better choice than you. :gotme: 😃 u could grow a sack and tell the guy off? or grow a sack and talk to her? or grow a sack and move on. either way, u get the point. ---
**Author:** ![layzie](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/layzie/32/7599_2.png) [@layzie](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/layzie)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 8:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/39 "2006-08-01T08:59:02Z")
the kid is a weiner ---
**Author:** ![PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psngrseatsr4boys/32/3078_2.png) [@PsngrSeatsR4Boys](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PsngrSeatsR4Boys)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2006, 9:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hypothetically-speaking/15318/40 "2006-08-01T09:03:40Z")
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