# is there a legit fucking reason I cant use cp?

**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665
**Category:** Shift518 Off Topic
**Created:** [April 2, 2013, 6:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665 "2013-04-02T18:58:24Z")
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### Author: ![BDSKJChris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/59ef9b/32.png) [@BDSKJChris](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BDSKJChris)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/441 "2013-04-22T09:07:54Z")

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> [@RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/27):
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> No traffic and no clowns. Difference of personalities and actions make up a large part of activity. Look at PJB, how many pages deep are we in this thread now? Ducks in my pool thread is still gold 2 years later. Paul is Paul, he’ll say and do shit differently from you and I. And that’s just it, this world would be a boring place if we all acted and thought the same, drive the same color cars, and wore the same color clothes. I’ve literally never laughed so hard in my life at some shit you post, Benny. Is it appropriate? Not always, but it makes me laugh.
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> I’ve thought in the past about if a special section here would work, call it “The Bar” or whatever and have no filters, anything goes. But anywhere else would have to be like church, no swearing or being disrespectful. Would it work? Hard to say. If it did, would it kill the rest of the forum?

i say we call the new section for shennanigans “mancave518” for obvious reasons, set it up so that only people who want to participate in it can access it, and anyone who doesnt want to, won’t even see it, that way it wont destroy the more serious/informational parts of the forum.

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### Author: ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/442 "2013-04-22T09:08:55Z")

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> [@RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/27):
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> No traffic and no clowns. Difference of personalities and actions make up a large part of activity. Look at PJB, how many pages deep are we in this thread now? Ducks in my pool thread is still gold 2 years later. Paul is Paul, he’ll say and do shit differently from you and I. And that’s just it, this world would be a boring place if we all acted and thought the same, drive the same color cars, and wore the same color clothes. I’ve literally never laughed so hard in my life at some shit you post, Benny. Is it appropriate? Not always, but it makes me laugh.
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> I’ve thought in the past about if a special section here would work, call it “The Bar” or whatever and have no filters, anything goes. But anywhere else would have to be like church, no swearing or being disrespectful. Would it work? Hard to say. If it did, would it kill the rest of the forum?

100% agree.

and the last part is exactly what I have been saying for a while too. Put the ability for the members to keep the “chruch” sections clean, based on Shift 518 showing them respect as a memember and giving them a free for all section… in hopes that the members show Shift 518 respect by getting that ability/section and keeping the rest of the fourm clean.

we arent children, I have NO DOUBT anyone here that has a screen name and I personally know outside Shift could adhear to that.

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### Author: ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/443 "2013-04-22T09:12:04Z")

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> [@FS: AMD 64X2 gaming computer](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-amd-64x2-gaming-computer/51728/6):
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> i say we call the new section for shennanigans “mancave518” for obvious reasons, set it up so that only people who want to participate in it can access it, and anyone who doesnt want to, won’t even see it, that way it wont destroy the more serious/informational parts of the forum.

The ManCave name would make Vlads blood boil so that’s probably not a good idea lol.

Like I said before, none of this is my place to say. Vlad owns Shift, he has the final say on what happens, right or wrong in the entire forums eyes, or right just in his.

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### Author: ![ds50r](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ds50r/32/3491_2.png) [@ds50r](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ds50r)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:12am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/444 "2013-04-22T09:12:48Z")

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I’ve seen maybe a handful of posts Benny posted that were ok and respectfully funny and it’s ok to you because your his friend and thinks its ok but to someone else who dosent know Benny and he lashes out on them in his own colorful way, well that’s just not ok to give him or anyone else the “oh it’s just how he is” get out of jail free card. Fuck that I wasted years being friends with a guy that was eclxacly like that and that was my excuse to myself that’s just so and so that’s how he is, fuck that if you can’t reciprocate and be a half decent human being then I don’t need to waste my fucking time doing shit for you ( and that’s how I believe vlad is feeling at this point)

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### Author: ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/445 "2013-04-22T09:15:08Z")

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… opps

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### Author: ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/446 "2013-04-22T09:16:01Z")

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> [@Quality of life crackdown](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/quality-of-life-crackdown/52438/32):
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> The ManCave name would make Vlads blood boil so that’s probably not a good idea lol.
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> Like I said before, none of this is my place to say. Vlad owns Shift, he has the final say on what happens, right or wrong in the entire forums eyes, or right just in his.

which is why it should be left to Moderator vote. Hes a mod as much as an owner, his vote counts just as much or as little as ours does.

His “final say” if you will, was used/given up when he allowed other people to help him run the site.

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### Author: ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/447 "2013-04-22T09:21:25Z")

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> [@RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/29):
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> which is why it should be left to Moderator vote. Hes a mod as much as an owner, his vote counts just as much or as little as ours does.
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> His “final say” if you will, was used/given up when he allowed other people to help him run the site.

While I see your point, Shift isn’t member owned either.

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### Author: ![ds50r](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ds50r/32/3491_2.png) [@ds50r](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ds50r)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/448 "2013-04-22T09:25:53Z")

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its not member owned, but it has mods that should be doing their job ( and hopefully we will be revamping the rules and “setting them in stone” very soon,) if you cant do your job as a mod please step down and let someone who will ( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general) i understand you not getting “paid” directly for doing it but like keeping your neighborhood clean its a good feeling to know that you dont have to walk out your house and see a buch of garbage laying around or idiots just frolicking around causing trouble ( white black yellow green purple color or race dosent matter)

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### Author: ![blkwgn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7feea3/32.png) [@blkwgn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/blkwgn)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/449 "2013-04-22T09:28:30Z")

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> [@Quality of life crackdown](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/quality-of-life-crackdown/52438/22):
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> PLEASE STOP POSTING PERSONAL ATTACKS ( I WILL EDIT VLADS POST AS WELL)

I had already edited this. COOL EDIT COMMENT THO.

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### Author: ![bennyfizzle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bennyfizzle/32/6291_2.png) [@bennyfizzle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bennyfizzle)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/450 "2013-04-22T09:30:09Z")

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> [@Quality of life crackdown](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/quality-of-life-crackdown/52438/33):
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> I’ve seen maybe a handful of posts Benny posted that were ok and respectfully funny and it’s ok to you because your his friend and thinks its ok but to someone else who dosent know Benny and he lashes out on them in his own colorful way, well that’s just not ok to give him or anyone else the “oh it’s just how he is” get out of jail free card. Fuck that I wasted years being friends with a guy that was eclxacly like that and that was my excuse to myself that’s just so and so that’s how he is, fuck that if you can’t reciprocate and be a half decent human being then I don’t need to waste my fucking time doing shit for you ( and that’s how I believe vlad is feeling at this point)

:rofl :rofl :rofl

Are you insinuating that I just treat people like that wherever I go? :rofl :rofl :rofl

Reciprocate what? Respect for other people? :rofl :rofl :rofl

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### Author: ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/451 "2013-04-22T09:32:29Z")

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> [@Need more advice re 911 service complaint](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-more-advice-re-911-service-complaint/52407/18):
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> its not member owned, but it has mods that should be doing their job ( and hopefully we will be revamping the rules and “setting them in stone” very soon,) if you cant do your job as a mod please step down and let someone who will ( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general) i understand you not getting “paid” directly for doing it but like keeping your neighborhood clean its a good feeling to know that you dont have to walk out your house and see a buch of garbage laying around or idiots just frolicking around causing trouble ( white black yellow green purple color or race dosent matter)

lol. I’m not expecting money or any of the likes. Please don’t put words in my mouth lol.

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### Author: ![bennyfizzle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bennyfizzle/32/6291_2.png) [@bennyfizzle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bennyfizzle)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/452 "2013-04-22T09:33:13Z")

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I’ve got something to put in your mouth

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### Author: ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/453 "2013-04-22T09:34:26Z")

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part of being an owner (in anything thats not a owned AND run buy one single person) is allowing for transparent membership organization. Doesn’t matter if the members pay the bills or not. The organization must be coherent and be done in the sites best interest, not the owners best interest. It’s up to the owner to relinquish power to the people they feel are up to the task, and they are comfortable putting THEIR NAME OVER THOSE MEMBERS ACTIONS. That last part is the true meaning of a good owner/operator.

in other words, the owner can and should have the EASIEST JOB there is. Pay a bill & “hire” people to do the work for them. All he has to do is find people that can and WILL do his job “if it were run by a single person” for him.

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### Author: ![ds50r](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ds50r/32/3491_2.png) [@ds50r](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ds50r)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/454 "2013-04-22T09:35:23Z")

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im not insinuating anything outside of shift as i dont know you from adam… so to speak… i would just appreciate it as im assuming others would aswell for you to keep your derogatory comments to member’s you dont know to yourself,

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### Author: ![ds50r](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ds50r/32/3491_2.png) [@ds50r](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ds50r)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/455 "2013-04-22T09:37:12Z")

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> [@FS: 1985 Mustang GT (56k forget it)](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-1985-mustang-gt-56k-forget-it/52413/9):
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> lol. I’m not expecting money or any of the likes. Please don’t put words in my mouth lol.

its not member owned, but it has mods that should be doing their job ( and hopefully we will be revamping the rules and “setting them in stone” very soon,) if you cant do your job as a mod please step down and let someone who will ( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general) i understand you not getting “paid” directly for doing it but like keeping your neighborhood clean its a good feeling to know that you dont have to walk out your house and see a buch of garbage laying around or idiots just frolicking around causing trouble ( white black yellow green purple color or race dosent matter)

let me reiterate this part again  
( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general)  
( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general)  
( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general)  
( im not directing this at you kbb at all just saying in general)

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### Author: ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/456 "2013-04-22T09:37:48Z")

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> [@Quality of life crackdown](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/quality-of-life-crackdown/52438/33):
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> I’ve seen maybe a handful of posts Benny posted that were ok and respectfully funny and it’s ok to you because your his friend and thinks its ok but to someone else who dosent know Benny and he lashes out on them in his own colorful way, well that’s just not ok to give him or anyone else the “oh it’s just how he is” get out of jail free card. Fuck that I wasted years being friends with a guy that was eclxacly like that and that was my excuse to myself that’s just so and so that’s how he is, fuck that if you can’t reciprocate and be a half decent human being then I don’t need to waste my fucking time doing shit for you ( and that’s how I believe vlad is feeling at this point)

Ben is probably one of the nicest members on this forum. Not being sarcastic. Again, not everyone acts the same or comes across like you think they will, in person or online.

I’ve had a few people who are complete duck heads on line and even more of a herb in person.

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### Author: ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/457 "2013-04-22T09:38:26Z")

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> [@RELATIONSHIPS: Are you faithful?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/relationships-are-you-faithful/52440/33):
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> I’ve got something to put in your mouth

See said example above lolol

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### Author: ![Jenzpwny](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jenzpwny/32/6779_2.png) [@Jenzpwny](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jenzpwny)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/458 "2013-04-22T09:39:02Z")

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He seriously isn’t unbanned yet? This place is serious garbage without PJB’s shenanigans!

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### Author: ![ds50r](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ds50r/32/3491_2.png) [@ds50r](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ds50r)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/459 "2013-04-22T09:40:57Z")

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> [@Post here if you love Southern Girls, Drawls, Farmers daughters with low standards](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/post-here-if-you-love-southern-girls-drawls-farmers-daughters-with-low-standards/52410/50):
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> Ben is probably one of the nicest members on this forum. Not being sarcastic. Again, not everyone acts the same or comes across like you think they will, in person or online.
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> I’ve had a few people who are complete duck heads on line and even more of a herb in person.

thats great and im sure he is but do you honestly think thats the impression someone will get not knowing him in person outside of the interwebs… put yourself outside of the circle and look at it as if you didnt know him what would be your judgment and if he came after you with his dick swinging and online of all places you wouldnt come back to this website…

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### Author: ![bennyfizzle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bennyfizzle/32/6291_2.png) [@bennyfizzle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bennyfizzle)
#### Post date: [April 22, 2013, 9:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/is-there-a-legit-fucking-reason-i-cant-use-cp/266665/460 "2013-04-22T09:43:33Z")

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I don’t go around making fun of people just for fun or to make myself feel better online. 90% of my posts are intended to entertain, and if someone is too god damn stupid to figure out that the ridiculous shit they just read is not to be taken seriously, I will be the first to let them know.

I’m not just blind to the way I come off online lol, and I’m aware of how someone might view me and I don’t think it’s as a threat or someone who will just belittle them.

They would probably just take me for a clown with way too many god damn posts. I know this because of the looks I get when people who are aware of this site give me when they figure out who I am. Usually it’s met with a laugh.

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