# It wasen't supposed to happen this way. **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Automotive\ **Created:** [April 8, 2012, 7:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324 "2012-04-08T07:13:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![jdaniels](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jdaniels/32/6399_2.png) [@jdaniels](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jdaniels)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 6:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/41 "2012-04-08T18:15:52Z")
I’m so sorry, Travis. It truly brought tears to my eyes when I read your post, I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Spend all the time you can with your father during these delicate times as you both will need it dearly. Keep your head held high knowing your parents did a great job raising you and that you have done an amazing job being a loving, caring son in return. Call/text me if you need anything at all. ---
**Author:** ![88slowmarro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/88slowmarro/32/6339_2.png) [@88slowmarro](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/88slowmarro)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 6:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/42 "2012-04-08T18:24:45Z")
trav i literally cried for a min for ya after i talked to u and your dad , esp after hearing your dad cry . im gonna shuffle shit and i wanna come up fri night and help ya wit the car or whatnot if ya want . ---
**Author:** ![DARKHORSE02](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/darkhorse02/32/6729_2.png) [@DARKHORSE02](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/DARKHORSE02)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 7:52pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/43 "2012-04-08T19:52:10Z")
my prayers and condolences!!! ---
**Author:** ![cazwrx187](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cazwrx187/32/6388_2.png) [@cazwrx187](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cazwrx187)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 7:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/44 "2012-04-08T19:58:20Z")
Oh my god man, I’m sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine how you and your father feel right now. Both of you stay strong. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 10:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/45 "2012-04-08T22:00:20Z")
Wow. Travis I am sorry to hear that man and my thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to you and the family. As John and Tracey siad don’t beat yourself up over it, almost an impossible thing to ask of I’m sure. From the sounds of it you’ve been there every step of the way and there was never a doubt in her mind you loved her and would do anything for her. It’s crazy how our loved ones leave us sometimes, i bet she would have rather of left knowing you and your dad were out having the time you were unsure you’d get the chance to, then leaving you both sick and worried by her side the entire time. It’s hard to read and even write anything like this as I start to think of passings in my family and it brings tears to your eyes. Seriously travis if you ened anything, even just someoen to talk to I’m here for you. ---
**Author:** ![GATVILLE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gatville/32/6362_2.png) [@GATVILLE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GATVILLE)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2012, 10:56pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/46 "2012-04-08T22:56:51Z")
Real sorry to hear travis, keep your head up man ---
**Author:** ![crAppAchic0](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/crappachic0/32/6306_2.png) [@crAppAchic0](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/crAppAchic0)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 5:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/47 "2012-04-09T05:49:50Z")
> [@I would genuinely appreciate it if you would hate on my volkswagen.](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/i-would-genuinely-appreciate-it-if-you-would-hate-on-my-volkswagen/49085/5): > > I’m so sorry man. My stomach dropped as soon as I saw the title to this thread. same here. I am very sorry to hear; condolences to you and your family, sir. ---
**Author:** ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 6:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/48 "2012-04-09T06:07:56Z")
Travis, my heart sank seeing this thread title as soon as I clicked on Shift. I am truly sorry for your loss my friend. Keep your head held high, your mother and father raised one hell of a guy, they have to be very proud of you and the family they created. My deepest condolences go to you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 6:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/49 "2012-04-09T06:56:22Z")
Fuck, that blows dude. Sorry to hear about you Mom. Thoughts and prayers with you guys. ---
**Author:** ![indy440](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b5ac83/32.png) [@indy440](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/indy440)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 7:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/50 "2012-04-09T07:01:36Z")
wow thats terrible. Real sorry for your loss man. ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 8:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/51 "2012-04-09T08:52:52Z")
jesus christ man, unreal keep your head up for real it all pans out man. ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 10:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/52 "2012-04-09T10:21:51Z")
I’m still speechless and barely hanging on, but thanks again guys. ---
**Author:** ![Wayne64SS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wayne64ss/32/6365_2.png) [@Wayne64SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wayne64SS)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 10:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/53 "2012-04-09T10:31:03Z")
> [@How to copy pictures?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/how-to-copy-pictures/49048/23): > > I’m still speechless and barely hanging on, but thanks again guys. Jesus man I hit the reply button and still can’t think of nothing to say that’s gonna help. You know we’re here if you need us and our house is always open to you should you need it. Keep your head up. ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 10:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/54 "2012-04-09T10:36:08Z")
The thought of a meet/cruise in appreciation for my dad’s loss crossed my mind. I know he’d be pleasently shocked to see a lot full of performance cars and owners to show their respects. ---
**Author:** ![capitalcrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e79b87/32.png) [@capitalcrew](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/capitalcrew)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 12:11pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/55 "2012-04-09T12:11:03Z")
You know we’d be there. ---
**Author:** ![HANSTECH](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hanstech/32/6445_2.png) [@HANSTECH](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HANSTECH)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 12:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/56 "2012-04-09T12:15:03Z")
I am very sorry for your loss Travis. ---
**Author:** ![97cavy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/c5a1d2/32.png) [@97cavy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/97cavy)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 4:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/57 "2012-04-09T16:43:06Z")
I’m gonna be out of the country from the 21st-29th, of this month, as long as its not in that time frame I’m in! ---
**Author:** ![REDWGN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redwgn/32/6695_2.png) [@REDWGN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/REDWGN)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 5:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/58 "2012-04-09T17:04:24Z")
I’m sorry for your loss Trav, stay strong brother ---
**Author:** ![suzukijake](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/suzukijake/32/6749_2.png) [@suzukijake](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/suzukijake)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 5:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/59 "2012-04-09T17:16:00Z")
truly sorry for your loss i would be in for a meet/cruise to honor your mother and support you and your father ---
**Author:** ![kramerbuccs24](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/kramerbuccs24/32/6397_2.png) [@kramerbuccs24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/kramerbuccs24)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2012, 5:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324/60 "2012-04-09T17:26:31Z")
damn travis, so sorry. my condolences to you and your father. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324.md?page=2) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/it-wasent-supposed-to-happen-this-way/263324.md?page=4)