# Jamey Rodemeyer - Bullying/Suicide

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [September 23, 2011, 5:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823 "2011-09-23T05:29:06Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 7

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**Author:** ![nitroinsane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@nitroinsane](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/nitroinsane)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2011, 4:49pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/121 "2011-09-24T16:49:27Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> Bullying shaped me into being full of hate. Hate hate hate.
> 
> Seriously, how did I get to be such an angry person?

I agree,I probably wouldnt be half the asshole I am today if I wasnt harassed all through middle school for being fat and living in a motel my father ran. then again being an asshole is what pushed me to be so cocky and have the job i have today. I agree with minglor.redgoober4life really needs to start detailing again. my car needs some serious attention.

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**Author:** ![LowlyOilBurner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a6a055/32.png) [@LowlyOilBurner](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LowlyOilBurner)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2011, 6:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/122 "2011-09-24T18:03:44Z")

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> [@dawn](#):
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> Bullying shaped me into being full of hate. Hate hate hate.
> 
> Seriously, how did I get to be such an angry person?

Funny, I was never bully’d, and I hate everyone.

Maybe I was a bully?

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**Author:** ![Carnut](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/carnut/32/7590_2.png) [@Carnut](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Carnut)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2011, 8:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/123 "2011-09-24T20:17:34Z")

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No, you’re just low on insulin you crabby patty.

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**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 9:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/124 "2011-09-25T09:31:57Z")

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> [@deebo](#):
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> YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL. YOU ARE NOT A BEAUTIFUL AND UNIQUE SNOWFLAKE.
> 
> I don’t know how you decide you’re gay at 14 anyways. Lady Gaga is fucking everything up

Did you not like girls when you were 14?

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**Author:** ![dawn](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dawn/32/7209_2.png) [@dawn](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/dawn)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 10:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/125 "2011-09-25T10:58:57Z")

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Lol at decide.

I knew at like age 6-7 that i liked boys. So much that I broke the rules and road my bike on rt 5 to go to a boys house. So a 14 year old definitely knows. 14 is like 8-9th grade…

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**Author:** ![LowlyOilBurner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a6a055/32.png) [@LowlyOilBurner](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LowlyOilBurner)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 2:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/126 "2011-09-25T14:40:32Z")

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What a whore! ^

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**Author:** ![LZ1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ab992/32.png) [@LZ1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LZ1)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 4:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/127 "2011-09-25T16:35:19Z")

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> [@Fry](#):
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> Nobody knows. They “found him outside his home” and the police aren’t releasing any details.

He hung him self on a swing set so im told.

Apparently he lived behind the house I grew up in and my family still lives there.

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**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 4:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/128 "2011-09-25T16:41:26Z")

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> [@Jam](#):
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> Did you not like girls when you were 14?

I just don’t know what it is like to be gay lol.  
It’s not like i walk around saying im straight, or making youtube videos saying im straight. I guess i just don’t get the point of why anyone would do that.

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**Author:** ![jt76](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jt76/32/5100_2.png) [@jt76](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jt76)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2011, 5:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/129 "2011-09-25T17:20:25Z")

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People like attention? :gotme:

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**Author:** ![Beck](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/beck/32/28683_2.png) [@Beck](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Beck)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 7:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/130 "2011-09-26T07:51:07Z")

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> [@LZ](#):
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> He hung him self on a swing set so im told.
> 
> Apparently he lived behind the house I grew up in and my family still lives there.

Jesus, have a little respect for your neighbors and family members… not only is suicide selfish, but doing it in a public place where the possiblity of other people/kids might see you/find you? Get the fuck out.

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**Author:** ![Bakes](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bakes/32/7469_2.png) [@Bakes](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bakes)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 8:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/131 "2011-09-26T08:13:59Z")

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> [@Shockwave179](#):
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> I will say that I love how the media and all these other idiots are drawing a shitload of attention to it because he was gay. If some straight kid got bullied and decided to kill himself it wouldn’t be nearly as big of a deal.

Not true and not gay.

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**Author:** ![91MR2](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/91mr2/32/7217_2.png) [@91MR2](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91MR2)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 8:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/132 "2011-09-26T08:44:28Z")

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I know this may sound awful to some of you, but I just don’t care anymore. Whatever happened to survival of the fittest? People have been dealing with bullying for millions and millions of years. Pick yourself up, and fight back, break someone’s fucking nose if you have to. I’m so sick of this fucking soft PC society. Then some fucking cunt like lady GAG comes out to show her “support?” Yeah, you’re a real help…another fucking “look at me and how unique I am” slut on a stage with meaningless “music” to influence the world…it’s just so god damned pathetic, it makes me sick.

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**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 8:48am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/133 "2011-09-26T08:48:27Z")

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> [@PureXTC](#):
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> Look at the insults we use here on NYSpeed.
> 
> AIDS, retards, fat/ugly people, starving holocaust victims in the motivational thread. They are all fair game.
> 
> The difference is that most of us are above high school age. I can easily see how a 14 year old can take insults like those that are used on NYSpeed, seriously.

Only difference is that people here join and are active because they want to. This kid was at school where he wanted to be and was getting harassed for being there which also extended outside of school.

I am all for survival of the fittest and kids need to grow the fuck up in todays world but schools need to prevent making schools too uncomfortable and ganging up on kids to make school a place people don’t wanna be because of other students assaulting and beating up kids.

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**Author:** ![Spam16v](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/spam16v/32/5287_2.png) [@Spam16v](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Spam16v)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 8:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/134 "2011-09-26T08:50:42Z")

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> [@91MR2](#):
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> I know this may sound awful to some of you, but I just don’t care anymore. Whatever happened to survival of the fittest? People have been dealing with bullying for millions and millions of years. Pick yourself up, and fight back, break someone’s fucking nose if you have to. I’m so sick of this fucking soft PC society. Then some fucking cunt like lady GAG comes out to show her “support?” Yeah, you’re a real help…another fucking “look at me and how unique I am” slut on a stage with meaning less “music” to influence the world…it’s just so god damned pathetic, it makes me sick.

I got no support and made it out alive… I was harassed quite a bit in my youth. I got sucker punched by a soccer player, completely uninstigated, and I got suspended for being involved in a fight. Soccer player had a game… so he wasn’t punished b/c he needed to play in the game. Principal called me a cry baby in 7th grade with likely a busted nose covered in blood and I spit blood in his face. Jim Biryla, Fuck You to this day. He moved to the high school, and continues to be a piece of shit gym teacher who is a wanna be administrator. Schools are run by either Special Ed, or Phys ed teachers. Why? B/c after they get their masters it’s easy as pie b/c they don’t have any real “Work” to do at home, so night school is a breeze to get their administrator degree. Look it up, principals, superintendents, typically Phys ed, or Special Ed.

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**Author:** ![tpgsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tpgsr/32/7374_2.png) [@tpgsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tpgsr)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 9:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/135 "2011-09-26T09:36:49Z")

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> [@Spam16v](#):
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> I got no support and made it out alive… I was harassed quite a bit in my youth. I got sucker punched by a soccer player, completely uninstigated, and I got suspended for being involved in a fight. Soccer player had a game… so he wasn’t punished b/c he needed to play in the game. Principal called me a cry baby in 7th grade with likely a busted nose covered in blood and I spit blood in his face. Jim Biryla, Fuck You to this day. He moved to the high school, and continues to be a piece of shit gym teacher who is a wanna be administrator. Schools are run by either Special Ed, or Phys ed teachers. Why? B/c after they get their masters it’s easy as pie b/c they don’t have any real “Work” to do at home, so night school is a breeze to get their administrator degree. Look it up, principals, superintendents, typically Phys ed, or Special Ed.

This seems pretty accurate as everytime I had to visit the principal I got some candy and asked how the season was shaping up. I got in a fight about 3 hours before a game and was told simply to save it for the field. My advice to any HS kid is to pick the sport that has a good record at the school and get good at it.

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**Author:** ![RedGoober4Life](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redgoober4life/32/7610_2.png) [@RedGoober4Life](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RedGoober4Life)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 9:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/136 "2011-09-26T09:47:41Z")

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> [@91MR2](#):
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> I know this may sound awful to some of you, but I just don’t care anymore. Whatever happened to survival of the fittest?

Yes, by this motto, we should just all give up attempting to anything that doesn’t impact us.

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**Author:** ![PureXTC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/purextc/32/5223_2.png) [@PureXTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PureXTC)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 9:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/137 "2011-09-26T09:57:16Z")

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> [@boxxa](#):
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> Only difference is that people here join and are active because they want to. This kid was at school where he wanted to be and was getting harassed for being there which also extended outside of school.
> 
> I am all for survival of the fittest and kids need to grow the fuck up in todays world but schools need to prevent making schools too uncomfortable and ganging up on kids to make school a place people don’t wanna be because of other students assaulting and beating up kids.

Youre forgetting about all the online harassment he got. Facebook was something he chose to do. What I’m saying is that everything is fair game on the internet.

> [@tpgsr](#):
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> This seems pretty accurate as everytime I had to visit the principal I got some candy and asked how the season was shaping up. I got in a fight about 3 hours before a game and was told simply to save it for the field. My advice to any HS kid is to pick the sport that has a good record at the school and get good at it.

I must have been a shitty athlete, because I got kicked off the team for getting into trouble. Thats bullshit.

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**Author:** ![Anonymity](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/anonymity/32/7215_2.png) [@Anonymity](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Anonymity)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 10:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/138 "2011-09-26T10:01:01Z")

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you know what I learned from all of this… Ricky Martin is gay…

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**Author:** ![FadetoBlack](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fadetoblack/32/6118_2.png) [@FadetoBlack](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/FadetoBlack)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 10:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/139 "2011-09-26T10:04:44Z")

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> [@Anonymity](#):
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> Ricky Martin is gay…

News to me.

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [September 26, 2011, 12:06pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/jamey-rodemeyer-bullying-suicide/216823/140 "2011-09-26T12:06:53Z")

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What?!?!

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