# lady problems.

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650>\
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [April 14, 2007, 11:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650 "2007-04-14T23:17:07Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Dex](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dex/32/7210_2.png) [@Dex](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dex)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 11:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/81 "2007-04-17T11:55:20Z")

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[quote=“RobHimself,post:80,topic:27650"”]

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An ugly girl can get a good looking dude but rarely a ugly dudes get hot chicks unless they have mad loot.

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are you kidding? i see complete fucking tools with hot chicks all the time.

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 11:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/82 "2007-04-17T11:59:40Z")

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i get some cutie pies. 🙂

but i’m fucking adorable.

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**Author:** ![Tunerfreak](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tunerfreak/32/7427_2.png) [@Tunerfreak](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tunerfreak)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:01pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/83 "2007-04-17T12:01:04Z")

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[quote=“Dex,post:81,topic:27650"”]

are you kidding? i see complete fucking tools with hot chicks all the time.

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yes u see a lot at the mall. i always think to myself how can he be with her

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**Author:** ![Janus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c2a13f/32.png) [@Janus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Janus)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/84 "2007-04-17T12:02:21Z")

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money. money and attitude.

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/85 "2007-04-17T12:03:47Z")

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I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/86 "2007-04-17T12:04:23Z")

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honestly, guys… i know you say that you see “hot chicks with tools”, but to be honest, they are probably outgoing, confident, and a whole list of other things that a lot of you are not…

sure, they dress like a tool, and walk around like their going on an invisible vacation with heavy invisible suitcases, but females, by nature, gravitate towards a protective, outgoing male. You can be the nicest nerd in the world, but being nice isn’t what women want.

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**Author:** ![Janus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c2a13f/32.png) [@Janus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Janus)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:04pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/87 "2007-04-17T12:04:50Z")

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PM me. i save girls from knife weilding nut balls in the heart of downtown. hows that for old skool chivalry 😉

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:07pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/88 "2007-04-17T12:07:29Z")

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[quote=“Janus,post:87,topic:27650"”]

PM me. i save girls from knife weilding nut balls in the heart of downtown. hows that for old skool chivalry 😉

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I’m falling in love :wiggle:

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**Author:** ![Dex](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/dex/32/7210_2.png) [@Dex](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dex)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:09pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/89 "2007-04-17T12:09:10Z")

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[quote=“newman,post:82,topic:27650"”]

i get some cutie pies. 🙂

but i’m fucking adorable.

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you’re a prime example of what i was talking about. \<3

[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:85,topic:27650"”]

I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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PM me your number, and pending how well you can hold down roofies, i’ll show you true love.

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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/90 "2007-04-17T12:12:02Z")

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[quote=“Dex,post:81,topic:27650"”]

are you kidding? i see complete fucking tools with hot chicks all the time.

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just because they are tools doesnt mean that women dont think they are good looking

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**Author:** ![badazzss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19adc/32.png) [@badazzss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/badazzss)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/91 "2007-04-17T12:13:49Z")

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if YOU pick the non gentlemanly like guys, then maybe it’s your “preference” that is what’s causing the issue?

is it that you are jaded by love, or that you were just tricked and taken advantage of? as much as you want guys to use their head on top… you gotta use yours.

[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:85,topic:27650"”]

I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/92 "2007-04-17T12:17:01Z")

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[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:85,topic:27650"”]

I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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lol

they exist… dont chase guys. you dont need one now or ever.

take care of yourself first.

dont stress out about it in the meantime.

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/93 "2007-04-17T12:17:53Z")

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[quote=“badazzss,post:91,topic:27650"”]

if YOU pick the non gentlemanly like guys, then maybe it’s your “preference” that is what’s causing the issue?

is it that you are jaded by love, or that you were just tricked and taken advantage of? as much as you want guys to use their head on top… you gotta use yours.

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Not looking for assholes…they just come to me…it’s like gravity.

Jaded by love= me getting cheated on…A LOT would be an understatement…

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**Author:** ![Tunerfreak](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tunerfreak/32/7427_2.png) [@Tunerfreak](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tunerfreak)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/94 "2007-04-17T12:24:57Z")

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[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:85,topic:27650"”]

I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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i am definitely not in that category as long as a girl is level headed, nice, can joke around, likes to have fun and looks decent thats all i ask for i dont looks for the most gorgeous girl out there. i hate girls that play the i say im not mad at u but in reality i am. just fuckin tell me what is the matter so it can be fixed. that annoys the shit out of me

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**Author:** ![badazzss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e19adc/32.png) [@badazzss](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/badazzss)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/95 "2007-04-17T12:25:35Z")

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i dont believe it anytime a female says that assholes are attracted to them like gravity. that’s just transferring the blame off of yourself for making a bad choice, onto them for being a bad guy.

not cool to get cheated on, but shit happens unfortunately. so you gonna hook up w/ my buddy or what? lol.

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**Author:** ![EvilJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a5b964/32.png) [@EvilJay](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/EvilJay)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/96 "2007-04-17T12:26:25Z")

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[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:85,topic:27650"”]

I have lost ALL faith in finding a good guy…  
Due to this thread…  
Do REAL gentlemen exsist or is that ONLY in the movies?  
Single girls ( like myself who have been seriously jaded by love…in the past and just reciently) would APPRECIATE it if guys thought more with the head upstairs than the head downstairs…  
What will it take to keep a guys attention when it comes to kind of person we are and not how long it will take you to get in our pants??

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Dear “Jaded By Love”,

Boo Fucking Hoo.

Love,  
EvilJay’s Head Downstairs

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**Author:** ![vq30de](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/9dc877/32.png) [@vq30de](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/vq30de)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/97 "2007-04-17T12:26:46Z")

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[quote=“EvilJay,post:96,topic:27650"”]

Dear “Jaded By Love”,

Boo Fucking Hoo.

Love,  
EvilJay’s Head Downstairs

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LOL

yep.

Women are for looking at. Thats about it.

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/98 "2007-04-17T12:29:09Z")

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[quote=“badazzss,post:95,topic:27650"”]

i dont believe it anytime a female says that assholes are attracted to them like gravity. that’s just transferring the blame off of yourself for making a bad choice, onto them for being a bad guy.

not cool to get cheated on, but shit happens unfortunately. so you gonna hook up w/ my buddy or what? lol.

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Only if you send him my way 😉

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**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/99 "2007-04-17T12:30:18Z")

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[quote=“HottieInAJeep,post:98,topic:27650"”]

Only if you send him my way 😉

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Attention Whore Post #1. and counting…

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**Author:** ![RuBiCaNT](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rubicant/32/7622_2.png) [@RuBiCaNT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RuBiCaNT)\
**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 12:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/lady-problems/27650/100 "2007-04-17T12:31:02Z")

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I think it’s funny how so many females go after the “wrong” guy fully knowing what they are getting into in an attempt to change them. Probably about 1% of the time this actually works.

Here is a tip for all you jaded ladies, don’t give it up on the first/second/third date and maybe they will respect you enough to not cheat on you.

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