# need a divorce lawyer, anyone have a suggestion? **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [September 16, 2010, 5:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539 "2010-09-16T05:19:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![HANSTECH](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hanstech/32/6445_2.png) [@HANSTECH](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HANSTECH)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 6:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/21 "2010-09-16T06:52:57Z")
I using Milstein & Milstein out of albany. so far there decent. oct 15th the “no fault” divorce goes into effect, therefore no long ass wait to divorce. my skanko wife cheated on me too broski, i feel for ya. i just know trying to prove adultery is hard to do even with good evidence. we just made an agreement yesterday and will wait till the 15th to submit it and get this shit done with. hope the best for you. its a shitty thing to go through. ---
**Author:** ![deadbeatrec](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deadbeatrec/32/6401_2.png) [@deadbeatrec](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deadbeatrec)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 6:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/22 "2010-09-16T06:53:18Z")
> [@johnnyk"](#): > > if the woman cheats and leaves you doesnt she technically have to give you some sort of “reparations” (slave term, i kno)?? what? this is a joke right ---
**Author:** ![freakLS7](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freakls7/32/6298_2.png) [@freakLS7](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/freakLS7)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 6:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/23 "2010-09-16T06:57:46Z")
> [@legal to have all black pellet gun in public?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/legal-to-have-all-black-pellet-gun-in-public/34995/48): > > Yea you cant get divorced cause we need your truck to ruin people’s nights :rofl cant wait to do it again! ---
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/24 "2010-09-16T07:02:50Z")
> [@Checking in from Westchester County](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/checking-in-from-westchester-county/34884/39): > > what? this is a joke right Nope hes dead ass. Its called Adultery and you could be charged for it ---
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/25 "2010-09-16T07:03:16Z")
> [@went to the 1/4 with the bimmer. (vids)](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/went-to-the-1-4-with-the-bimmer-vids/35045/22): > > :rofl cant wait to do it again! Lmao im gonna drive the truck to the reception and blast coal on people:rofl ---
**Author:** ![deadbeatrec](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deadbeatrec/32/6401_2.png) [@deadbeatrec](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deadbeatrec)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/26 "2010-09-16T07:27:07Z")
> [@CATURDAY](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/caturday/17848/226): > > Nope hes dead ass. Its called Adultery and you could be charged for it there has to be solid proof. such as an investigator with pictures or something of this nature. other than that its hearsay and there is no legal actions. and even then as far as NYS law is concerned its not that big of a deal. unless u are putting a hit on your hubby or wiz, the judge wont look at it like its somthing that abnormal where “charges” will be brought up. ---
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/27 "2010-09-16T07:31:22Z")
No but they could charge you and investigate if the guy wanted to spend the money. Just saying ---
**Author:** ![rexford\_flats\_racing](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rexford_flats_racing/32/6295_2.png) [@rexford\_flats\_racing](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rexford_flats_racing)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/28 "2010-09-16T07:36:40Z")
Karen Gazda in clifton park. She’s a shark. A friend of mine used her, she handled the other lawyer and the judge. Fee was 3500 plus assorted costs and worth every penny. ---
**Author:** ![indy440](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b5ac83/32.png) [@indy440](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/indy440)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/29 "2010-09-16T07:49:28Z")
adultery is almost impossible to prove in NY. ---
**Author:** ![indy440](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b5ac83/32.png) [@indy440](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/indy440)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/30 "2010-09-16T07:49:42Z")
and 3500 is a lot more than I have. ---
**Author:** ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/31 "2010-09-16T07:57:22Z")
Chill peepole. I posted that as a little LOL to make him smile a little maybe, I dont know. I didnt have any harm behind it. If my gf cheated on me, and did that shit i would be pissed, and crushed at the same time, i can relate, I guess. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/32 "2010-09-16T08:02:13Z")
> [@Picture of my car.](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/picture-of-my-car/35085/7): > > adultery is almost impossible to prove in NY. > [@FS: civic dr fender and bumper](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-civic-dr-fender-and-bumper/27995/12): > > and 3500 is a lot more than I have. dident they just put in a law that throws out all that bs so its like a no fault deal? ---
**Author:** ![SRS\_BZNS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/srs_bzns/32/6375_2.png) [@SRS\_BZNS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SRS_BZNS)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/33 "2010-09-16T08:16:28Z")
just kill the cunt. jail is a free roof over your head with cable. and a lot of those dudes assholes are tighter than most pussies you’ll find out here ---
**Author:** ![ninety1two40](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ninety1two40/32/6332_2.png) [@ninety1two40](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ninety1two40)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/34 "2010-09-16T08:24:33Z")
:rofl :rofl ---
**Author:** ![indy440](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b5ac83/32.png) [@indy440](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/indy440)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/35 "2010-09-16T08:29:21Z")
I was with her for almost 10 years, married for 6, and have 2 kids together. I’d like to drive over there and beat the guy into a bloody mess, but that would only provide temporary self satisfaction. They are not worth going to jail for or loosing my kids over. ---
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/36 "2010-09-16T08:37:46Z")
Yea dont get in trouble over it. They will both get whats coming to them in the long run ---
**Author:** ![KrazyKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/krazykid/32/6371_2.png) [@KrazyKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KrazyKid)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/37 "2010-09-16T08:44:03Z")
> [@FS: Tires 185/70R14](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-tires-185-70r14/35077/3): > > I was with her for almost 10 years, married for 6, and have 2 kids together. I’d like to drive over there and beat the guy into a bloody mess, but that would only provide temporary self satisfaction. They are not worth going to jail for or loosing my kids over. When shit hits the fan in my life, I look at it optomistically and just say “this is a challange in my life, I will be better once I beat it”. Look through the tunnel of sucky bullshit and keep your head high. Your a good egg, just work through it. ---
**Author:** ![SRS\_BZNS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/srs_bzns/32/6375_2.png) [@SRS\_BZNS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SRS_BZNS)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/38 "2010-09-16T08:57:41Z")
> [@i have 128 dollars....](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/i-have-128-dollars/35059/64): > > Yea dont get in trouble over it. They will both get whats coming to them in the long run Aids? Hep C? Worts? ---
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 8:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/39 "2010-09-16T08:58:58Z")
Pretty much Ghanaherpacyphalitis ---
**Author:** ![Baumbauer](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/baumbauer/32/6530_2.png) [@Baumbauer](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Baumbauer)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 9:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/40 "2010-09-16T09:09:01Z")
> [@FS: Tires 185/70R14](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-tires-185-70r14/35077/3): > > I was with her for almost 10 years, married for 6, and have 2 kids together. I’d like to drive over there and beat the guy into a bloody mess, but that would only provide temporary self satisfaction. They are not worth going to jail for or loosing my kids over. She isn’t worth it, he isn’t worth it. It’s shitty, but you got your kids to keep you going. Good luck with the divorce. It only gets easier, and don’t dwell over time lost. Need anything, let me know, I don’t know if I could help but I sure as fuck will try. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539.md?page=3)