# need a divorce lawyer, anyone have a suggestion? **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [September 16, 2010, 5:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539 "2010-09-16T05:19:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![psi2high](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/psi2high/32/6320_2.png) [@psi2high](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psi2high)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 5:13pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/61 "2010-09-16T17:13:39Z")
I like Pauls logic ---
**Author:** ![Murrdog9000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/murrdog9000/32/6391_2.png) [@Murrdog9000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Murrdog9000)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 5:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/62 "2010-09-16T17:20:01Z")
Dorothy mantooth is a saint!!! ---
**Author:** ![votblindub](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/votblindub/32/6280_2.png) [@votblindub](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/votblindub)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 7:08pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/63 "2010-09-16T19:08:14Z")
> [@FS: Tires 185/70R14](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-tires-185-70r14/35077/3): > > I was with her for almost 10 years, married for 6, and have 2 kids together. damn dude. best of luck to you. ---
**Author:** ![Alpine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/4da419/32.png) [@Alpine](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Alpine)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2010, 10:22pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/64 "2010-09-16T22:22:33Z")
James man I’m really sorry to hear about this. I saw the thread but didn’t notice that it was you who created it. I hope all goes well in the future for you. ---
**Author:** ![Wayne64SS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wayne64ss/32/6365_2.png) [@Wayne64SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wayne64SS)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2010, 5:06am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/65 "2010-09-17T05:06:34Z")
shoot the cunt. i’ll post bail. /thread. ---
**Author:** ![rexford\_flats\_racing](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/rexford_flats_racing/32/6295_2.png) [@rexford\_flats\_racing](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/rexford_flats_racing)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2010, 8:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/66 "2010-09-17T08:16:22Z")
And I’ll mow his lawn. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2010, 8:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/67 "2010-09-17T08:30:49Z")
> [@rexford flats racing"](#): > > And I’ll mow his lawn. 🤣rofl ---
**Author:** ![Wayne64SS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wayne64ss/32/6365_2.png) [@Wayne64SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wayne64SS)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2010, 8:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/68 "2010-09-17T08:38:15Z")
> [@rexford flats racing"](#): > > And I’ll mow his lawn. +rep :rofl :rofl ---
**Author:** ![silverandslow1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecae2f/32.png) [@silverandslow1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/silverandslow1)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2010, 2:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/69 "2010-09-18T02:52:24Z")
> [@deadbeatrec"](#): > > there has to be solid proof. such as an investigator with pictures or something of this nature. other than that its hearsay and there is no legal actions. and even then as far as NYS law is concerned its not that big of a deal. unless u are putting a hit on your hubby or wiz, the judge wont look at it like its somthing that abnormal where “charges” will be brought up. is divorce done in family court? if so, hearsay is allowed in family court. ---
**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2010, 2:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/70 "2010-09-18T14:16:41Z")
a bullet and an alibi is all you need. Of course a 4x4 and a shovel help too. ---
**Author:** ![DRock518](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drock518/32/6363_2.png) [@DRock518](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/DRock518)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2010, 6:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/71 "2010-09-18T18:25:44Z")
sorry for your troubles man, sounds like shes pretty heartless. good luck with finding a lawyer. this is why i will never get married its so easy to get hitched but so fucking hard and expensive to end it. not worth the risk IMO ---
**Author:** ![indy440](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/b5ac83/32.png) [@indy440](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/indy440)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 8:46am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/72 "2012-11-28T08:46:21Z")
This is an old thread i started, but i figured it was worth updating. As of october 16th 2012 i was officially divorced. Took over 2 years, total in attorney fees was only $1400, which isnt terrible really. I pay a lot in child support now, which sucks because i have them almost half the time anyway. The ex is still a skank and an absolutely horrible and disgusting person. I still hate her for what she did, but im working on that. I once confronted him, but never went further than that. Neither have ever apologized. It took me a long time to come to terms with everything, but at the end of the day the fact is she made me miserable for a long long time and im way happier now that i ever could have been with her. So its whatever. I’d still like to knock his teeth out one day if it didnt mean going to jail. Oh well. ---
**Author:** ![Wayne64SS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wayne64ss/32/6365_2.png) [@Wayne64SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wayne64SS)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 9:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/73 "2012-11-28T09:05:53Z")
Glad it’s all squared away man!!! ---
**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 9:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/74 "2012-11-28T09:34:46Z")
> [@Cool 240z conceptual drawings](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cool-240z-conceptual-drawings/51147/17): > > It took me a long time to come to terms with everything, but at the end of the day the fact is she made me miserable for a long long time and im way happier now that i ever could have been with her. > > Oh well. All about this. Move on with your life man. You’re better off. ---
**Author:** ![DUKE\_LADUKE](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/duke_laduke/32/6317_2.png) [@DUKE\_LADUKE](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/DUKE_LADUKE)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 9:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/75 "2012-11-28T09:47:19Z")
> [@NHL 08 XBOX 360](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/nhl-08-xbox-360/34653/24): > > Karen Gazda in clifton park. She’s a shark. A friend of mine used her, she handled the other lawyer and the judge. Fee was 3500 plus assorted costs and worth every penny. Dad used her and she was all about getting paid before she did any foot work or anything . Cost him a ton of money every time my moms lawyer was involved. She is a total cut throat cunt . He won his case but wasnt happy with how much he had to dish out. ---
**Author:** ![love4boost](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/love4boost/32/6658_2.png) [@love4boost](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/love4boost)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 10:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/76 "2012-11-28T10:35:42Z")
> [@Cool 240z conceptual drawings](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/cool-240z-conceptual-drawings/51147/17): > > This is an old thread i started, but i figured it was worth updating. As of october 16th 2012 i was officially divorced. Took over 2 years, total in attorney fees was only $1400, which isnt terrible really. I pay a lot in child support now, which sucks because i have them almost half the time anyway. > > The ex is still a skank and an absolutely horrible and disgusting person. I still hate her for what she did, but im working on that. I once confronted him, but never went further than that. Neither have ever apologized. > > It took me a long time to come to terms with everything, but at the end of the day the fact is she made me miserable for a long long time and im way happier now that i ever could have been with her. So its whatever. **I’d still like to knock his teeth out one day if it didnt mean going to jail.** > > Oh well. As long as you dont use a weapon you wont go to jail 🙂 Youll get a disordlery conduct which is a violation not a crime… so go knock some teeth my friend… lol ---
**Author:** ![GD3Skier](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gd3skier/32/6400_2.png) [@GD3Skier](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GD3Skier)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 11:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/77 "2012-11-28T11:02:37Z")
Borrow a Prius Wait til they are crossing the road Claim accelerator stuck and mow them over … Profit? But in all seriousness I’m glad it’s all settled for you. I can’t imagine how I would react if that happened to me especially now having a son with her as well. ---
**Author:** ![ReDevil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/redevil/32/6385_2.png) [@ReDevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ReDevil)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 11:35am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/78 "2012-11-28T11:35:31Z")
Good deal James. And the girl you have now is awesome. Both your kids are awesome. I think youre way better off buddy. ---
**Author:** ![adamea1635](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/bc8723/32.png) [@adamea1635](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/adamea1635)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 11:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/79 "2012-11-28T11:44:34Z")
Glad this worked out. Taking the high road worked out in the long run. ---
**Author:** ![Jammer](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jammer/32/6349_2.png) [@Jammer](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jammer)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2012, 3:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-a-divorce-lawyer-anyone-have-a-suggestion/254539/80 "2012-11-28T15:33:01Z")
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