# Need advice, complicated matter

**URL:** https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-advice-complicated-matter/40115
**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic
**Created:** [December 11, 2007, 4:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-advice-complicated-matter/40115 "2007-12-11T16:18:48Z")
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### Author: ![camarojoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c67d28/32.png) [@camarojoe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/camarojoe)
#### Post date: [December 12, 2007, 8:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-advice-complicated-matter/40115/32 "2007-12-12T08:54:57Z")

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His situation is not uncommon. I have heard it happen many times in my friends and family lives.

It can get pretty ugly when it comes down to who gets what. Best solution now is sell off everything in the estate and split it into 3. If there is no definitive will, then that is the most fair solution.

But after the dust settles doesn’t sound like you will be having any family get-togethers.

Good luck.

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