# Need Gift ideas ver. Mother's Day, but not for my mom... **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [May 11, 2007, 11:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-gift-ideas-ver-mothers-day-but-not-for-my-mom/29141 "2007-05-11T11:10:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 32
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2007, 1:03pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-gift-ideas-ver-mothers-day-but-not-for-my-mom/29141/32 "2007-05-11T13:03:58Z")
A long distance chick with a kid that you don’t know very well? ![http://www.frozencpu.com/images/products/small/bad-362.jpg](http://www.frozencpu.com/images/products/small/bad-362.jpg) It’s cool that she’s got a kid. If she was local you could spend time with both of them. Then once in a while you could get a babysitter so you two can get to know each other. I’m not talking humping, I’m talking about the privacy to build a relationship. But put distance and a child together, and you will not be able to build a strong relationship with THEM. Granted I don’t know your situation, so that is my advice only based on what you have posted. I’m sure there is more to the story, and it’s none of my business. Don’t let infatuation cloud your judgement. Just sayin. If you still want to go forward with it, you may not want to opt for something that suggests that her child is a burden to escape from like a trip to a spa. How about a 3 tickets to something for when you can get there? --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-gift-ideas-ver-mothers-day-but-not-for-my-mom/29141)._