# need some advice :( **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 13, 2006, 7:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793 "2006-01-13T07:51:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/1 "2006-01-13T07:51:06Z")
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out ‘with the girls’ a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always “Just some friends from work, you don’t know them”. I always look out for her car coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear another car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not her car? When she comes home her hair is different than when she left and she smells of more perfume then when she left…is she trying to cover up the scent of another man? I saw once her pants had a white stain on them, she said it was ranch dressing from the salad she had at dinner with “the girls” I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was while I was crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch and under the side skirt. Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself? ---
**Author:** ![HotRodKid](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/hotrodkid/32/7609_2.png) [@HotRodKid](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/HotRodKid)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:52am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/2 "2006-01-13T07:52:12Z")
haha … old … but still funny EDIT: heres where i posted it on [HR.com](http://HR.com) … got some good responses too! [http://www.hotrodders.com/forum/help-i-need-advise-54312.html?highlight=affair](http://www.hotrodders.com/forum/help-i-need-advise-54312.html?highlight=affair) ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/3 "2006-01-13T07:53:14Z")
you ass. ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/4 "2006-01-13T07:53:56Z")
^^^HAHAHAHA why are you so mad? lol ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/5 "2006-01-13T07:54:53Z")
i knew something was amiss considering she is on this site… ---
**Author:** ![BuickGN](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/buickgn/32/7200_2.png) [@BuickGN](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BuickGN)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/6 "2006-01-13T07:55:20Z")
WTF man i had a nice typed out response all ready for you goddammit ---
**Author:** ![L8APEX1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/l8apex1/32/7276_2.png) [@L8APEX1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/L8APEX1)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/7 "2006-01-13T07:56:58Z")
it seem that you have an important situation at hand… you had better get that thing to a body shop asap ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 7:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/8 "2006-01-13T07:57:51Z")
> [@newman](#): > > i knew something was amiss considering she is on this site… lol…yea yea ---
**Author:** ![Dr.Stevil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/da6949/32.png) [@Dr.Stevil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Dr.Stevil)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/9 "2006-01-13T08:00:37Z")
lol I posted that on the barf 😛 ---
**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/10 "2006-01-13T08:01:47Z")
I started reading it and it sounded familiar. There were some different little details so I thought nothing of it until I saw the rust part. Funny stuff. ---
**Author:** ![PumiceT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/43a26b/32.png) [@PumiceT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PumiceT)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/11 "2006-01-13T08:02:20Z")
_whew_ I thought you almost caught Danielle and I red handed!! ---
**Author:** ![Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blue_eyed_devil/32/7292_2.png) [@Blue\_Eyed\_Devil](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Blue_Eyed_Devil)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/12 "2006-01-13T08:03:06Z")
> [@PumiceT](#): > > _whew_ > > I thought you almost caught Danielle and I red handed!! LOL! ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/13 "2006-01-13T08:05:25Z")
> [@PumiceT](#): > > _whew_ > > I thought you almost caught Danielle and I red handed!! 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![Mrs\_Karus](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mrs_karus/32/7426_2.png) [@Mrs\_Karus](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mrs_Karus)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 8:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/14 "2006-01-13T08:53:03Z")
hahah i almost felt bad for you… ass lol ---
**Author:** ![MaximaSE98](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/maximase98/32/7600_2.png) [@MaximaSE98](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MaximaSE98)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/15 "2006-01-13T09:01:51Z")
> [@newman](#): > > i knew something was amiss considering she is on this site… for realz…besides y would she want anything other than the SKUNKY…oh wait ---
**Author:** ![sureshot](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/sureshot/32/7578_2.png) [@sureshot](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/sureshot)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/16 "2006-01-13T09:02:54Z")
hahha dick, i was confused for the same reasons everyone else stated > [@MaximaSE98](#): > > for realz…besides y would she want anything other than the SKUNKY…oh wait because maybe she wanted a guy who took LESS time than her to get ready? haha ---
**Author:** ![newman](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/newman/32/7569_2.png) [@newman](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/newman)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/17 "2006-01-13T09:05:22Z")
maybe she hates yellow? ---
**Author:** ![MonteCarloChick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@MonteCarloChick](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/MonteCarloChick)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/18 "2006-01-13T09:08:31Z")
Dammit. I was hoping for some drama. ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/19 "2006-01-13T09:09:22Z")
> [@newman](#): > > maybe she hates yellow? lol…yea…probably :lol: ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2006, 9:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793/20 "2006-01-13T09:10:59Z")
> [@sureshot!](#): > > because maybe she wanted a guy who took LESS time than her to get ready? haha lol…NOT TRUE! [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-advice/6793.md?page=2)