# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/21 "2009-06-07T09:00:28Z")
^ HAHA that is the cure. However I need to get this all sorted out with her today. I am 95% sure I will be a single man the next time im on here. But we will get some fishing in sometime lol ---
**Author:** ![SSmokinn\_SS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@SSmokinn\_SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SSmokinn_SS)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/22 "2009-06-07T09:01:44Z")
> [@99FRC"](#): > > ^ HAHA that is the cure. However I need to get this all sorted out with her today. I am 95% sure I will be a single man the next time im on here. But we will get some fishing in sometime lol yah whenever man. Me and some friends are going to be up in LG next weekend (great escape and shit) and I will let you know when Im up there…maybe go to a bar or something. ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/23 "2009-06-07T09:09:48Z")
Just remember, you were happy once before you’ve ever met her, you will be happy once she’s out of the picture as well. ---
**Author:** ![SSmokinn\_SS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@SSmokinn\_SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SSmokinn_SS)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/24 "2009-06-07T09:13:03Z")
> [@Sneaker Pimps - Toronto](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sneaker-pimps-toronto/19048/2): > > Just remember, you were happy once before you’ve ever met her, you will be happy once she’s out of the picture as well. so true. Its hard work to find the perfect one…but that perfect one could be as simple as a old friend from the past, and you dont even know it. ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/25 "2009-06-07T09:20:10Z")
> [@Sneaker Pimps - Toronto](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sneaker-pimps-toronto/19048/3): > > so true. Its hard work to find the perfect one…but that perfect one could be as simple as a old friend from the past, and you dont even know it. There is no “perfect one” there is only the one that’s fucked up lightly enough for you to not mind dealing with it. :lol ---
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/26 "2009-06-07T09:26:03Z")
> [@A ganster forum???](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/a-ganster-forum/19046/5): > > yah whenever man. Me and some friends are going to be up in LG next weekend (great escape and shit) and I will let you know when Im up there…maybe go to a bar or something. Sounds good to me. Hit me up when your here. ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:29am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/27 "2009-06-07T09:29:38Z")
> [@Simply OMG](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/simply-omg/19026/3): > > expesually if shes talking to another guy at work epic spelling bro > [@Sneaker Pimps - Toronto](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sneaker-pimps-toronto/19048/3): > > but that perfect one could be as simple as a old friend from the past, and you dont even know it. :banghead so true fuck me ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/28 "2009-06-07T09:50:19Z")
> [@\*\*Official Baseball Playoffs Thread\*\*](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/official-baseball-playoffs-thread/18387/93): > > He’s right. > > Justin isn’t to blame for this, it takes two people to make plans for two people… > > She was fully aware of what she was doing the entire time, and the fact that the situation even got as far as it did makes me wonder. > > Honestly, what I would do is the classic proverb. > > If you love it let it go, if it comes back there you go, if it doesn’t it wasn’t mean to be. > > Break it up with her, but not in a completely Iron Curtain kind of way, but rather under certain terms. > > Tell her something along the lines of this “While situations like this are going on, I do not want to be a part of this relationship, let me know once you figure it out”. And stop talking to her and stop caring. Go out drinking and such. If she calls back and tells you that she will be good and will stop being in contact with him in this way, now it’s her own damn promise that she has to keep, that she came up with herself, out of her own will. That usually means something. > > If she never calls back, it wasn’t mean to be, and just be glad it happened now, instead of later. - f’in 1. I’ve also had issues with trust. Man, lots of us have. I’ve been played a fool so many times it ain’t funny…last chick strung me along for 7 months, went to Ukraine for a month (so little to no contact since it’s not like it is here in America with texting, email, etc.) and when she came back…it’s like I never existed. It sucks man. ---
**Author:** ![mcflurry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mcflurry/32/6468_2.png) [@mcflurry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/mcflurry)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 10:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/29 "2009-06-07T10:36:48Z")
> [@Generator questions???????????](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/generator-questions/17996/40): > > epic spelling bro hey hey 4 hydros… FML lol ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 10:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/30 "2009-06-07T10:42:20Z")
> [@America FTW!](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/america-ftw/19051/10): > > hey hey 4 hydros… FML lol ya i never said my shit didnt smell, just admiring your work as well :excited ---
**Author:** ![1320-20V](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/1320-20v/32/6474_2.png) [@1320-20V](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/1320-20V)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 11:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/31 "2009-06-07T11:45:43Z")
I would make a necklace out of his teeth, that way the dental records could not identify the charred remains. But that’s just me. I tend to take things pretty seriously. ---
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:08pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/32 "2009-06-07T15:08:46Z")
Update: I ended it this afternoon. Once trust is gone, everything tends to follow. So, anyone want to hit the bars let me know haha ---
**Author:** ![88slowmarro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/88slowmarro/32/6339_2.png) [@88slowmarro](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/88slowmarro)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:12pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/33 "2009-06-07T15:12:56Z")
adam im game ,dont go out wit pjb he like fichin for bullhead and trouser trout ---
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/34 "2009-06-07T15:21:20Z")
I’ll keep that in mind. But those are the guys you want to hang out with, then you look 10x better when girls are looking your way. Haha, anyway let me know whats going on ---
**Author:** ![plaf713](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@plaf713](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/plaf713)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/35 "2009-06-07T15:27:11Z")
if shes keeping it a secret, its usually more than what she says it is. Fucking sluts, i think you need to ask yourself is this girl worth the hassle? Life is to short to even deal with that shit, 9 months is very short and can be made up with some other girl that wants to make that commitment to you, not someone who is going behind your back for whatever reason ---
**Author:** ![plaf713](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@plaf713](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/plaf713)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/36 "2009-06-07T15:28:03Z")
whoops, i didnt read the wholee thing, sounds like you made a good decision ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 3:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/37 "2009-06-07T15:31:57Z")
It’s tough man… Im kinda like you… i give advice and generaly its good advice… but when it comes to taking your own that youve told other people its very hard… especialy when you feel for someone ---
**Author:** ![Damonspeeds](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/c68b51/32.png) [@Damonspeeds](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Damonspeeds)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 4:55pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/38 "2009-06-07T16:55:20Z")
late on the input here but; what does she do when she hangs out with him? If you stay with her every night and have something good going don’t fuck it it because she enjoys talking to another guy about things in life. I love my girl but can’t sweat another guy that doesn’t stack up. Be confident and make her understand that hiding shit isn’t going make the relationship last… a mix of both sides for you bro ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 4:58pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/39 "2009-06-07T16:58:56Z")
> [@Hedge Fund TV](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hedge-fund-tv/19049/4): > > late on the input here but; what does she do when she hangs out with him? If you stay with her every night and have something good going don’t fuck it it because she enjoys talking to another guy about things in life. I love my girl but can’t sweat another guy that doesn’t stack up. Be confident and make her understand that hiding shit isn’t going make the relationship last… a mix of both sides for you bro This case was something different then just hanging out. From what it seemed like at least. ---
**Author:** ![cazwrx187](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cazwrx187/32/6388_2.png) [@cazwrx187](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cazwrx187)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/40 "2009-06-07T17:37:01Z")
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