# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![plaf713](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@plaf713](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/plaf713)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:41pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/41 "2009-06-07T17:41:19Z")
^^^^ makes a good point ---
**Author:** ![88slowmarro](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/88slowmarro/32/6339_2.png) [@88slowmarro](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/88slowmarro)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:42pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/42 "2009-06-07T17:42:54Z")
he forgot cinder blocks and a lake ---
**Author:** ![Murrdog9000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/murrdog9000/32/6391_2.png) [@Murrdog9000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Murrdog9000)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 5:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/43 "2009-06-07T17:51:18Z")
> [@Sneaker Pimps - Toronto](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sneaker-pimps-toronto/19048/11): > > he forgot cinder blocks and a lake Nah…remove the teeth and grind them. Then you use a chipper to mulch up the body, into a bag. Empty the bag into a hole in the middle of nowhere, pour lime all over the remains and then cover it with dirt. Then spray massive amounts of ethyl alcohol into the chipper to cleanse it. :thumbup ---
**Author:** ![kramerbuccs24](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/kramerbuccs24/32/6397_2.png) [@kramerbuccs24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/kramerbuccs24)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 6:00pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/44 "2009-06-07T18:00:03Z")
^kid was paying attention in forensics/bio/chemistry/whatever :lol ---
**Author:** ![JVG](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jvg/32/6348_2.png) [@JVG](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JVG)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:16pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/45 "2009-06-07T19:16:07Z")
To me once trust is broken its near impossible to get it back. Afte 9 months if she feels the need to not be 100% honest with you i doubt that would change. Take it for what its worth but I’d let her go now and cut my losses before there is more to lose ---
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:39pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/46 "2009-06-07T19:39:48Z")
I’ll open up a can of worms on this one, but if your girl hangs out with random guys, it’s a ticking time bomb because guys and girls cannot **just** be friends. Go on :ahh Edit: To the OP : don’t be mad at the guy either, if he’s dumb enough to get in with a girl and has no morals while she’s in a relationship, if they get into a relationship it will come full circle once she finds a new kid. ---
**Author:** ![Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mk4_30r_ban/32/6347_2.png) [@Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mk4_30R_Ban)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 8:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/47 "2009-06-07T20:21:22Z")
ditch her s0n. the guy KNOWS youre in a relationship and he keeps on doing what hes doing. he needs a firm talking with. but she also needs an eye opener as well. ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/48 "2009-06-07T21:35:50Z")
> [@2006 Last 4G63, New Evo X Engine: 4B11T](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/2006-last-4g63-new-evo-x-engine-4b11t/19040/17): > > guys and girls cannot **just** be friends. I don’t know what I’m getting myself into by saying this but… Two of my best friends are girls. Then go my guy friends. One is married with a kid and the other is engaged. I dated the married one, and pursued the second one to no avail lol. Yet, I am still best friends with them. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 9:43pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/49 "2009-06-07T21:43:53Z")
> [@2006 Last 4G63, New Evo X Engine: 4B11T](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/2006-last-4g63-new-evo-x-engine-4b11t/19040/19): > > I don’t know what I’m getting myself into by saying this but… > > Two of my best friends are girls. Then go my guy friends. One is married with a kid and the other is engaged. I dated the married one, and pursued the second one to no avail lol. Yet, I am still best friends with them. not bustin on yea for what you said in another thread but when your single and your dicks been wet… its hard to resist temptation regardless of their relationship status ---
**Author:** ![GermanPSI](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/germanpsi/32/6353_2.png) [@GermanPSI](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/GermanPSI)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/50 "2009-06-07T23:15:41Z")
Good choice to end it, once a girl does something once and gets away with it they will do it again. ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/51 "2009-06-07T23:51:45Z")
> [@Sony Charging Extra for HDMI Cables](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sony-charging-extra-for-hdmi-cables/19062/10): > > Nah…remove the teeth and grind them. Then you use a chipper to mulch up the body, into a bag. Empty the bag into a hole in the middle of nowhere, pour lime all over the remains and then cover it with dirt. Then spray massive amounts of ethyl alcohol into the chipper to cleanse it. :thumbup :ninja lets talk sometime > [@Expected Noise Level From Neighbors](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/expected-noise-level-from-neighbors/19060/32): > > not bustin on yea for what you said in another thread > > but when your single and your dicks been wet… its hard to resist temptation regardless of their relationship status +1 didnt want to sound like a diss but yeah hes right ^ ---
**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/52 "2009-06-08T00:19:06Z")
x1000 on girls and guys not being able to be good friends w/o one of them being interested in the other as more then a friend to some extent. ---
**Author:** ![Murrdog9000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/murrdog9000/32/6391_2.png) [@Murrdog9000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Murrdog9000)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 12:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/53 "2009-06-08T00:23:04Z")
FUCK GIRLS FUCK GIRLS FUCK GIRLS… FUCKING HATE ALL THIS BULLSHIT, IT DRIVES ME INSANE ---
**Author:** ![kramerbuccs24](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/kramerbuccs24/32/6397_2.png) [@kramerbuccs24](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/kramerbuccs24)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 12:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/54 "2009-06-08T00:26:35Z")
> [@Saw 3 Poll for Show times.](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/saw-3-poll-for-show-times/19336/18): > > FUCK GUYS FUCK GUYS FUCK GUYS… FUCKING LOVE ALL THIS BULLSHIT, IT DRIVES ME INSANE queer. ---
**Author:** ![Murrdog9000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/murrdog9000/32/6391_2.png) [@Murrdog9000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Murrdog9000)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 12:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/55 "2009-06-08T00:32:23Z")
you have no idea man ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 2:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/56 "2009-06-08T02:49:07Z")
> [@e30 maintence](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/e30-maintence/19068/8): > > x1000 on girls and guys not being able to be good friends w/o one of them being interested in the other as more then a friend to some extent. ya even if some of us have friends of the opposite sex there def had to be a history of them or u havin at least a crush 😃 ---
**Author:** ![bennyfizzle](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bennyfizzle/32/6291_2.png) [@bennyfizzle](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bennyfizzle)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 4:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/57 "2009-06-08T04:30:54Z")
> [@Tc\> Celica Gt](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/tc-celica-gt/19042/6): > > Need some sincere advice STFU. Sincerely, Bennyfizzle. ---
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 6:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/58 "2009-06-08T06:05:20Z")
> [@Hedge Fund TV](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/hedge-fund-tv/19049/4): > > late on the input here but; what does she do when she hangs out with him? If you stay with her every night and have something good going don’t fuck it it because she enjoys talking to another guy about things in life. I love my girl but can’t sweat another guy that doesn’t stack up. Be confident and make her understand that hiding shit isn’t going make the relationship last… a mix of both sides for you bro The thing is I told her that if they wanted to talk or whatever, go to lunch, I dont give a fuck. So WHY hide it from me? I can only come up with one good reason. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 6:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/59 "2009-06-08T06:18:02Z")
> [@My Turbo Nightmare](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/my-turbo-nightmare/19061/70): > > The thing is I told her that if they wanted to talk or whatever, go to lunch, I dont give a fuck. So WHY hide it from me? I can only come up with one good reason. Hows his dick taste? althought im sure I could ask him the same thing about yours ---
**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 6:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/60 "2009-06-08T06:37:01Z")
Some Fed up responses in this thread. Dont listen to most of these guys. 1. You dont mess with another mans girl (or wife). How is that so hard to understand? Does society completely lack morals now? 2. Trust. If you have none in the relationship, you dont have a relationship. You have a relationSHIT that will be a nightmare to manage. You obviously broke it off, good for you. She sounds shady, and I’d be out. Dont waste your time on girls like that. She isn’t worth it. Guys get into a relationship and get “Oneitis” thinking they only have one girl, they cant get another girl, blabla. It’s this “emotional thinking” that gets them into trouble in the first place. 3. That guy is a douche. He shouldn’t have pursued her like that and I’d definitely would have let him know whats up. But maybe its a blessing in disguise. I’m sure you will find someone else who RESPECTS you, because that girl doesn’t. Dead her. PM me if you want to talk. [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606.md?page=2) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606.md?page=4)