# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/61 "2009-06-08T07:02:51Z")
> [@Expected Noise Level From Neighbors](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/expected-noise-level-from-neighbors/19060/32): > > not bustin on yea for what you said in another thread > > but when your single and your dicks been wet… its hard to resist temptation regardless of their relationship status It’s all good. We’re all entitled to our opinions. I appreciate the fact that you guys are actually civil about it unlike the fools on [NYCMaximas.org](http://NYCMaximas.org) who are a bunch of judgmental pricks. Anyhow… Perhaps. But I still don’t see how it would be any different. It all depends on how you were raised/where you came from. I’m a pretty devout Christian, even if my dick had been wet before, it’s still considered f’ed up to bang everything possible or trying to bang everything possible (how I was raised). I wouldn’t do it regardless. For other people, they don’t see it as a big issue. That’s fine. To each his own. The temptation is definitely there. It sucks. But the will power to not act on it is there as well. Russian/Ukrainian girls are VERY attractive (especially the ones that grew up here or are otherwise Americanized). Sometimes, it’s down right torture. It’s a tough test to pass lol. Either way, I know how some of you guys feel though. Girls are a pain in the ass a lot of the time. I’ve been through the mental/emotional side of it. It can be a nightmare if you get involved with the idiot ones. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/62 "2009-06-08T07:17:18Z")
> [@Sony Charging Extra for HDMI Cables](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sony-charging-extra-for-hdmi-cables/19062/23): > > It’s all good. We’re all entitled to our opinions. I appreciate the fact that you guys are actually civil about it unlike the fools on [NYCMaximas.org](http://NYCMaximas.org) who are a bunch of judgmental pricks. > > Anyhow… > > Perhaps. But I still don’t see how it would be any different. It all depends on how you were raised/where you came from. I’m a pretty devout Christian, even if my dick had been wet before, it’s still considered f’ed up to bang everything possible or trying to bang everything possible (how I was raised). I wouldn’t do it regardless. For other people, they don’t see it as a big issue. That’s fine. To each his own. > > The temptation is definitely there. It sucks. But the will power to not act on it is there as well. Russian/Ukrainian girls are VERY attractive (especially the ones that grew up here or are otherwise Americanized). Sometimes, it’s down right torture. It’s a tough test to pass lol. > > Either way, I know how some of you guys feel though. Girls are a pain in the ass a lot of the time. I’ve been through the mental/emotional side of it. It can be a nightmare if you get involved with the idiot ones. Well I’m not saying bang every girl out there… But time and time again girls are just as bad as us guys… If they want dick they will get it one way or another… weather they are the loose slut of the town or the quiet nerdy goody good whos only had sex a couple times. They know how to manipulate and throw off vague signs that we pick up on weather we realize it or not. What im trying to say is, weather or not youve had sex once or are a manwhore… When a girl is throw signals out there its hard to resist. Sometimes they dont mean to throw signals because they want to be faithful etc… but a lot of girls are just like us guys… Even if we don’t intend on doing anything with another person, we still like to play the game and know that we can get a chick to hop on your dicks at the drop of a hat ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/63 "2009-06-08T07:27:44Z")
Blahblahblah. All girls are whacked out of their minds and all guys are selfish backstabbing pricks. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/64 "2009-06-08T07:28:41Z")
> [@FS: 95 Ford Mustang $2k](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-95-ford-mustang-2k/18975/9): > > Blahblahblah. All girls are whacked out of their minds and all guys are selfish backstabbing pricks. Bitch make me a sammich! As much as we rag on one another Pretty much both sexes are whacked, selfish douchebags… ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/65 "2009-06-08T07:31:40Z")
Guys and girls don’t understand each other, because even when a couple tries to communicate they are on two totally different levels. The girl sounds crazy because there is no logic behind what the hell she is saying half the time, and is entirely incapable of relaying her thoughts into a coherent message that the man can understand and interpret correctly. ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/66 "2009-06-08T07:33:10Z")
> [@For those who study martial arts](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/for-those-who-study-martial-arts/19045/15): > > Even if we don’t intend on doing anything with another person, we still like to play the game and know that we can get a chick to hop on your dicks at the drop of a hat Yeah I know what ya mean. I’ve been to that point, just didn’t take the final step. Sometimes I think back and regret it lol. > [@OFFICIAL Buffalo Sabres Thread](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/official-buffalo-sabres-thread/25170/458): > > Pretty much both sexes are whacked, selfish douchebags… Yep. That’s what I always say when girls try to play it off as if guys are the only ones who wreck/ruin relationships. Girls are just as guilty. And the crappy thing is, they get half (if they were married). That’s the messed up thing about it. I don’t even understand the premise behind that. It’s 2009. Women work now as well. Have her work for all her own crap. > [@OFFICIAL Buffalo Sabres Thread](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/official-buffalo-sabres-thread/25170/460): > > Guys and girls don’t understand each other, because even when a couple tries to communicate they are on two totally different levels. The girl sounds crazy because there is no logic behind what the hell she is saying half the time, and is entirely incapable of relaying her thoughts into a coherent message that the man can understand and interpret correctly. lol. ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/67 "2009-06-08T07:36:30Z")
Seriously. It’s because of men that a woman is a fucking spaz, and vice versa. The best advice I can give in a relationship, just talk like two normal human beings. Jesus. If a chick could learn to turn off the crazy and a guy could learn to actually talk about things miracles would happen. ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/68 "2009-06-08T07:41:19Z")
> [@OFFICIAL Buffalo Sabres Thread](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/official-buffalo-sabres-thread/25170/461): > > Seriously. It’s because of men that a woman is a fucking spaz, and vice versa. > The best advice I can give in a relationship, just talk like two normal human beings. > Jesus. If a chick could learn to turn off the crazy and a guy could learn to actually talk about things miracles would happen. Again. lol. I agree with the chick crazy/emotional part but I don’t think the guy talking part is very accurate. Many of us actual speak and make sense, women are just to emotional to realize it, etc. Some of us have no issues with communication. Women just, like you said, have an issue with comprehension sometimes. No matter what you (guys) say, it’s usually wrong. lol. ---
**Author:** ![Shady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6de8d8/32.png) [@Shady](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shady)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/69 "2009-06-08T07:41:30Z")
> [@FS: TD04 turbo 15G](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-td04-turbo-15g/18486/15): > > Yeah I know what ya mean. I’ve been to that point, just didn’t take the final step. Sometimes I think back and regret it lol. > > Yep. That’s what I always say when girls try to play it off as if guys are the only ones who wreck/ruin relationships. Girls are just as guilty. And the crappy thing is, they get half (if they were married). That’s the messed up thing about it. I don’t even understand the premise behind that. It’s 2009. Women work now as well. Have her work for all her own crap. > > lol. Thats why prenumps were invented ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 7:49am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/70 "2009-06-08T07:49:31Z")
It works both ways man. A girl might try to be sincere, but she already set up a standard for herself that anything she said is illogical and crazy, so she won’t be taken seriously. A guy might actually try to get something off his chest, but the girl will just miss the point completely and deliberate over every minute detail over and over. ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/71 "2009-06-08T08:00:05Z")
Believe it or not though, there is both guys and girls who aren’t like the norm and are actually easy to deal with. Rare finds though. ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/72 "2009-06-08T08:01:01Z")
I’m not saying there are no exceptions, but that’s the rule. Rules are what you live your life by. Exceptions are only an unexpected surprise. ---
**Author:** ![Wayne64SS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wayne64ss/32/6365_2.png) [@Wayne64SS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wayne64SS)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/73 "2009-06-08T08:02:17Z")
> [@Tc\> Celica Gt](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/tc-celica-gt/19042/6): > > A long read but please read it if you want to give advice. > > Having troubles with the lady and although I know what I SHOULD do, it’s good to hear it from other people sometimes. Usually I am the one with the advice but I guess it’s different from the inside. > > I’ve been with my girl for about 9 months. Almost a year. It has had its ups and downs but this morning was really a kick in the junk. In the beggining of the relationship I openly told her that for awhile I might have some trust issues because of the last whore I dated for 5 years. So I asked her upfront to just be honest with me and if you ever want to do something that I might question just talk to me about it first. As long as people are open with me and you don’t give me a reason to doubt you, I won’t. > > So anyway, she started this job at Lowe’s and made some friends. One of them is this kid, Justin. Total toolbag but w/e. I have no problems with my g/f having friends that are guys but right off the bat he would text her a million times a day, call her, AIM, blah blah blah. So I basically told my girlfriend I wasn’t comfortable with how often he feels the need to talk to her. So she told him and it stopped for awhile. Well recently, he started talking to her again. I did tell her it was ok, as I had met him and had confidence he wouldn’t break my trust. > > Well the other day I was staying at her place and turned on her laptop to check my emails. They had an open IM convo on the desktop. I DID NOT read it becuase im trying to build trust. Well, she came over and was like, oh, can you close my AIM for me. So i did. The next series of events is really what made me question this faggot. > > It was 8AM and she had to be to work by 9AM. She lives 5 mintues from me so she told me should would bring me home on her way to work. Well for some reason she wanted to bring me home right then, before she even got ready. This was out of place to me and made me kind of curious. It felt like she was trying to hide something on her laptop. And being that her convo with Justin was just there, that is what I thought it was about. So, this morning she left for work, I told her I would head out after awhile, (a little hung over), so I opened her laptop to check my emails, and the convo was up again. So I read it. Apparently this fucker has been talking to her, not like a friend, but like a girl he wants his dick in. Then half way down, I read the part that fucking pissed me off. They were trying to make plans to hang out around my schedule so that I wouldn’t know. There was nothing in the convo that made me think it had to do with cheating on me or not. Regardless, she lied to me. I asked her if he ever hit on her or asked to hang out and she looked right in my face and said no. What bothers me is that if they really are friends, why keep it secret from me? So I got up, went right into where she was working. I let her have it and told her basically that she is completely donet alking to the fuck and that we need to have a long convo when she gets home. > > So I need to know what to do. Now my trust issues are going to be double fold with her, ill question everything she does now. It kills me that she lied to me, in a relationship its a huge deal. I have not once lied to her. And if I see Justin, I might beat him pretty badly. In MOST cases she would be gone as of right now, but there is something different about her I love. Maybe because shes the first girl that isn’t a clinger and we have a lot of fun when we are together. Irregardless I know what I should do, but should I? a) you’re a moron for trying to trust HIM. b) you’re a moron for trying to trust HER. c) you’re a moron for reading that conversation and still having second thoughts about what you should do. seriously. i am not fucking around here. I hope it works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/74 "2009-06-08T08:02:36Z")
> [@Your home theatre/stereo set up, Moffitt need not apply](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/your-home-theatre-stereo-set-up-moffitt-need-not-apply/19066/12): > > I’m not saying there are no exceptions, but that’s the rule. > Rules are what you live your life by. Exceptions are only an unexpected surprise. Basically. ---
**Author:** ![Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mk4_30r_ban/32/6347_2.png) [@Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mk4_30R_Ban)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:07am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/75 "2009-06-08T08:07:48Z")
id like to think my advice was pretty to the point, honest, and no disrespect. > [@My Turbo Nightmare](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/my-turbo-nightmare/19061/47): > > **ditch her s0n**. the guy KNOWS youre in a relationship and he keeps on doing what hes doing. he needs a firm talking with. but she also needs an eye opener as well. > [@FS: 95 Ford Mustang $2k](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-95-ford-mustang-2k/18975/8): > > Some Fed up responses in this thread. > > Dont listen to most of these guys. ---
**Author:** ![deadbeatrec](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deadbeatrec/32/6401_2.png) [@deadbeatrec](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deadbeatrec)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/76 "2009-06-08T08:28:56Z")
if anyones ass should be kicked, it should be hers. right i the baby maker! haha ---
**Author:** ![Ilya](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilya/32/6404_2.png) [@Ilya](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Ilya)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/77 "2009-06-08T08:32:29Z")
What’s that move called? Donkey punch? Rocket punch? Somethin like that. ---
**Author:** ![n\_cole](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/n_cole/32/6382_2.png) [@n\_cole](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/n_cole)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/78 "2009-06-08T08:33:23Z")
Falcon punch? ---
**Author:** ![deadbeatrec](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deadbeatrec/32/6401_2.png) [@deadbeatrec](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deadbeatrec)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:34am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/79 "2009-06-08T08:34:09Z")
clitoris punch? ---
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/80 "2009-06-08T08:41:07Z")
> [@Sony Charging Extra for HDMI Cables](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sony-charging-extra-for-hdmi-cables/19062/23): > > The temptation is definitely there. It sucks. But the will power to not act on it is there as well. Russian/Ukrainian girls are VERY attractive (especially the ones that grew up here or are otherwise Americanized). Sometimes, it’s down right torture. It’s a tough test to pass lol. yo no joke if u know some of these girls introduce me man i’ll do the rest from there, u could be like the best wingman in fucking history bro… (no really im not joking, russan and ukrainian girls are startin to get me excited just thinking about it) > [@For those who study martial arts](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/for-those-who-study-martial-arts/19045/15): > > Well I’m not saying bang every girl out there… > > But time and time again girls are just as bad as us guys… If they want dick they will get it one way or another… weather they are the loose slut of the town or the quiet nerdy goody good whos only had sex a couple times. They know how to manipulate and throw off vague signs that we pick up on weather we realize it or not. > > What im trying to say is, weather or not youve had sex once or are a manwhore… When a girl is throw signals out there its hard to resist. Sometimes they dont mean to throw signals because they want to be faithful etc… but a lot of girls are just like us guys… Even if we don’t intend on doing anything with another person, we still like to play the game and know that we can get a chick to hop on your dicks at the drop of a hat great post ! u cant blame them crazy fuckin bitches but its the way it works, the whole issue IMO is guys get so bent out of shape over this whole shit cuz its a fact girl can go get dick way easier than dick can go get girl, but in the end its the same issue on both sides > [@FS: 95 Ford Mustang $2k](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/fs-95-ford-mustang-2k/18975/9): > > Blahblahblah. All girls are whacked out of their minds and all guys are selfish backstabbing pricks. all girls are liars and all these dudes are lame who try to make it work with oneitis [Previous page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606.md?page=3) [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606.md?page=5)