# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![99FRC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/99frc/32/6335_2.png) [@99FRC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/99FRC)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/6 "2009-06-07T07:16:26Z")
> [@I smell skanks](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/i-smell-skanks/19000/77): > > sorry to hear… > > I can relate to you…I dated a girl for almost 6 years, in the mean time of that relationship, there was a shit load of trust issue’s because I caught her fooling around with my good friend behind my back and shit…so I had major trust issues as well…however with Jennie, they are completly gone… > > Now, your whole situation with her trying to hangout with this dude behind your back is just sketchy, and her lieing about it makes it THAT much worse… > > Its sad to say but since I can relate, I think you know what your SHOULD do…maybe its not what you want to do, but if this stuff is already starting and you havent been dating for a year yet, things are only bound to get worse…you cant change the way a person is… > > do you know anything about her previous relationships?? Has she cheated on her boyfriends before or what not?? > > The dude sounds sketchy as all hell and it seems like its obvious to him that he doesnt care if she has a boyfriend or not, he still wants it and since they work together it makes it that much worse. At this point anything she has told me I have to take with a grain of salt. I hate that. But she told me she hasn’t. … --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606)._