# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 7
**Author:** ![Singh1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ba8739/32.png) [@Singh1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Singh1)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2009, 7:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/7 "2009-06-07T07:16:44Z")
> [@Drive the car in the winter?](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/drive-the-car-in-the-winter/18855/60): > > Ok let me reiterate. I didn’t blow up on her at work. I just went in and quietly told her how I feel about it. Ether way I got my point across. > > And I don’t ever TELL her what to do. I tell her how it would make me feel, if she did do it. It’s up to her at that point. Same with this, until I saw that convo. Now she is not going to talk to him if she values this relationship. I like to think we have a serious thing going on. We have even talked about an apartment in the fall. And IMO there is no room for a guy like that in her life, if she wants to be with me. But again, its up to her. yea man, maybe the way my post started out was a bit harsh… if u just went to her work and told her without blowin up then good stuff, i just pictured in my mind that u were blowin up since u said u let her have it, yano? dont get me wrong man i totally feel u on this whole thing, all im sayin is like being calm and cool just seems to be a better idea at the end of the day etc im sure u got ur head on ur shoulders and u know all that shit already anyways, i was just sayin it for the hell of it cuz u never know… --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606)._