# Need some sincere advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\ **Created:** [June 7, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606 "2009-06-07T06:45:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 84
**Author:** ![Vovchandr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/vovchandr/32/6275_2.png) [@Vovchandr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Vovchandr)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 10:30am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606/84 "2009-06-08T10:30:54Z")
> [@2006 Last 4G63, New Evo X Engine: 4B11T](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/2006-last-4g63-new-evo-x-engine-4b11t/19040/19): > > I don’t know what I’m getting myself into by saying this but… > > Two of my best friends are girls. Then go my guy friends. One is married with a kid and the other is engaged. I dated the married one, and pursued the second one to no avail lol. Yet, I am still best friends with them. By just friends, I mean there is no sexual interest from EITHER party and never has been and never will be. To put this into perspective If you were at her house, she was alone, no negative consequences in the future and she came out of the shower naked, came up to you and told you that she wants you right meow, you would tell her “no I just want to be friends” instead of banging it like a bad starter. The fact that you’ve been interested in one to no avail, and the only other thing stopping you from the other one is her relationship status, proves my point. > [@e30 maintence](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/e30-maintence/19068/8): > > x1000 on girls and guys not being able to be good friends w/o one of them being interested in the other as more then a friend to some extent. > [@A ganster forum???](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/a-ganster-forum/19046/27): > > ya even if some of us have friends of the opposite sex there def had to be a history of them or u havin at least a crush 😃 Precisely. :number1 --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/need-some-sincere-advice/244606)._