# PJB's Therapy Thread

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900>\
**Category:** Shift518 Off Topic\
**Created:** [June 11, 2011, 1:23pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900 "2011-06-11T13:23:18Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 11

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**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/201 "2011-06-19T10:13:01Z")

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> [@Mk4 30R"](#):
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> you justifying not getting a potentially BETTER job because its only 1 dollar an hour more is just stupid.
> 
> it could be 1$ an hour, and benefits/401k something you surely do not have. so in reality its better for you.
> 
> and that 1$ is starting wage. vs your maxxed out pay.
> 
> you are such a fool. you really are past the point of help.
> 
> how are your brothers normal and you are so stupid?
> 
> do you suffer from mild retardation?

I honestly think that PJB does have some sort of mental condition that is the reason behind his outlook.

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**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/202 "2011-06-19T10:14:23Z")

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I honestly think he doesn’t want to take the effort to have a better life. You can’t MAKE someone do something. We could all sit here for fucking days and tell him what to do. Sad thing is he seems like a good dude.

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**Author:** ![Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mk4_30r_ban/32/6347_2.png) [@Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mk4_30R_Ban)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/203 "2011-06-19T10:14:31Z")

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> [@WTB: Seats](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/wtb-seats/43074/26):
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> You’re actually content with making a minimum payment a credit card balance? Do you realize how many times over you’re paying for shit by doing that? Unreal again.

who makes minimum payments? :lol

dude my motorcycle is paid for until NEXT AUGUST. and my car is 100$ a month.

pjb is just a fool. he should be banned for being a moron

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**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/204 "2011-06-19T10:14:51Z")

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> [@Right place at the right time](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/right-place-at-the-right-time/43147/3):
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> I honestly think he doesn’t want to take the effort to have a better life. You can’t MAKE someone do something. We could all sit here for fucking days and tell him what to do. Sad thing is he seems like a good dude.

Yeah, he seems cool as shit, just clueless

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**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:15am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/205 "2011-06-19T10:15:47Z")

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I was more hung up on the distance and money spent on gas issue than taking a better job for $1 more.  
Yeah, Id take a job for $1 more an hour for sure.

I dont really give a fuck about healthcare benefits but should look into something with some kind of retirement plan.

And I have a legit on the books job, something my brothers both dont have right now.

Im keeping the truck, not getting rid of it for a smaller car with better mpg. I like it too much to dump it and I do use it for truck purposes, as recently as a few hours ago.

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**Author:** ![Eatonualive](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eatonualive/32/6442_2.png) [@Eatonualive](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eatonualive)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:16am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/206 "2011-06-19T10:16:49Z")

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PJB is a cool guy in my book. just needs a serious motivation adjustment.

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**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/207 "2011-06-19T10:17:31Z")

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BTW who said anything about just paying the minimum payments on my loans/credit cards?

I always pay more than the minimum. I just dropped over $600 on a cc bill yesterday.

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**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:17am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/208 "2011-06-19T10:17:58Z")

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One of my biggest problems is that I fear change and commitment.

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**Author:** ![Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mk4_30r_ban/32/6347_2.png) [@Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mk4_30R_Ban)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/209 "2011-06-19T10:18:36Z")

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> [@Right place at the right time](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/right-place-at-the-right-time/43147/5):
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> I was more hung up on the distance and money spent on gas issue than taking a better job for $1 more.  
> Yeah, Id take a job for $1 more an hour for sure.
> 
> I dont really give a fuck about healthcare benefits but should look into something with some kind of retirement plan.
> 
> And I have a legit on the books job, something my brothers both dont have right now.
> 
> Im keeping the truck, not getting rid of it for a smaller car with better mpg. I like it too much to dump it and I do use it for truck purposes, as recently as a few hours ago.

yeah on the books or not, they still have more sense than you.

and you are stupid to not want health care. i hope while you are using your truck for truck things that you get injured, have no insurance, then are out of work because you cant get fixed(with your insurance) and your entire Eeyore life plan backfires on you and you are forced to file for bankruptcy

> [@For Rent: anyone looking to move to san diego??](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/for-rent-anyone-looking-to-move-to-san-diego/43096/36):
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> **One of my biggest problems is that I fear change** and commitment.

and you voted for obama?

and thats why you are single as well.

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**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/210 "2011-06-19T10:18:39Z")

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> [@Right place at the right time](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/right-place-at-the-right-time/43147/5):
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> I was more hung up on the distance and money spent on gas issue than taking a better job for $1 more.  
> Yeah, Id take a job for $1 more an hour for sure.
> 
> I dont really give a fuck about healthcare benefits but should look into something with some kind of retirement plan.
> 
> And I have a legit on the books job, something my brothers both dont have right now.
> 
> Im keeping the truck, not getting rid of it for a smaller car with better mpg. I like it too much to dump it and I do use it for truck purposes, as recently as a few hours ago.

No one said dump the truck-dump the Mustang and quad. No offense, you can’t afford them. I only have one motorized toy (Evo), because at even at double your hourly pay and minimal overhead, it’s all I can afford.

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**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/211 "2011-06-19T10:21:57Z")

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Im not having a problem paying for my car or quad. The quad is only $69 a month so its not a big deal at all and is already paid for thru next month.

Right now Ive got Aflac insurance. I cant afford the $80+ a week health insurance thru work and Ive made it this long without it.

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**Author:** ![Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mk4_30r_ban/32/6347_2.png) [@Mk4\_30R\_Ban](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mk4_30R_Ban)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/212 "2011-06-19T10:23:46Z")

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> [@Toronto Auto Show 2/15- 2/24](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/toronto-auto-show-2-15-2-24/42946/23):
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> Im not having a problem paying for my car or quad. The quad is only $69 a month so its not a big deal at all and is already paid for thru next month.
> 
> Right now Ive got Aflac insurance. I cant afford the $80+ a week health insurance thru work and Ive made it this long without it.

your reasoning for things makes me :lol

you are like an addict. you know you have a problem, and everyone around you see’s it, but you cant admit it. you just keep digging for a way out and will say anything you can in an attempt to convince, or deter people from the subject.

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**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 10:25am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/213 "2011-06-19T10:25:29Z")

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> [@Toronto Auto Show 2/15- 2/24](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/toronto-auto-show-2-15-2-24/42946/23):
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> Im not having a problem paying for my car or quad. The quad is only $69 a month so its not a big deal at all and is already paid for thru next month.
> 
> Right now Ive got Aflac insurance. I cant afford the $80+ a week health insurance thru work and Ive made it this long without it.

Scraping by check to check does not=affording

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**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 11:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/214 "2011-06-19T11:02:10Z")

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> [@Right place at the right time](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/right-place-at-the-right-time/43147/5):
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> I dont really give a fuck about healthcare benefits but should look into something with some kind of retirement plan.
> 
> .

What?

Dude you know if you go to the hospital ONCE it could bankrupt you FOREVER with that thought process.

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**Author:** ![TurboTravis](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/turbotravis/32/6406_2.png) [@TurboTravis](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/TurboTravis)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 11:02am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/215 "2011-06-19T11:02:54Z")

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> [@New to the site](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/new-to-the-site/43027/16):
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> What?
> 
> Dude you know if you go to the hospital ONCE if could bankrupt you FOREVER with that thought process.

Cannot wait Jellies response.

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**Author:** ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 11:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/216 "2011-06-19T11:20:00Z")

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> [@sold](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/sold/42481/4):
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> You obviously had some kind of worthwhile experience.
> 
> Right now Im making $13 an hour. Nobody in their right mind would pay me double than that just starting out.

No, Paul. I had ZERO fucking experience. Zero. I had no clue how anything worked except where the keys on the keyboard were on the desk. Thats it. Its not the best job in the world, and sure there are better things out there, but having this job opens doors for other jobs. If I wanted to right now, I could move to Dallas TX and START OUT making $38 an hour doing the same job. If things go to shit where I am, I always have that option.

Everyone has to get experience somewhere, no one is born how to paint a car, weld, type, or sweep the sidewalk. Someone shows you how to do those things or you teach yourself over time. The majority of jobs are like that, they will train you. As I have said before, if you wanted to be a service writer you already have qualifications over the average person off the street, you know how to type, use Windows, you deal with a large customer base on a day to day basis, you can talk to people and interact with everyone and keep your cool in a high pressure situation, you have degrees in an automotive related field(s), and you enjoy vehicles.

The first step in your situation is motivating yourself. SRS BZNS just gave you an option a few pages back…call the fuckin’ guy at least, ask for him on the phone, tell him you “know Ron and he said I should check with you because I am interested in a service writers position” If he asks you if you have experience, you can tell him your qualifications and you are very willing to learn because its something you have thought about for a while and you would like a better job in a different field.

> [@Right place at the right time](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/right-place-at-the-right-time/43147/3):
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> I honestly think he doesn’t want to take the effort to have a better life. You can’t MAKE someone do something. We could all sit here for fucking days and tell him what to do. Sad thing is he seems like a good dude.

You hit the peanut butter jelly sandwich right on the head with that statement.

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**Author:** ![KillerBlackbird](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/killerblackbird/32/6525_2.png) [@KillerBlackbird](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/KillerBlackbird)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 11:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/217 "2011-06-19T11:31:22Z")

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I’ve been holding out on you, PJB. Everyone else on Shift has done this program except for you. Pick up the phone and call, its easy.

[youtu.be/UaUyW4H20Ew](https://youtu.be/UaUyW4H20Ew)

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**Author:** ![Mark355](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/mark355/32/6528_2.png) [@Mark355](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Mark355)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 12:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/218 "2011-06-19T12:33:55Z")

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![http://i55.tinypic.com/2ura6wi.jpg](http://i55.tinypic.com/2ura6wi.jpg)

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**Author:** ![PJB](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pjb/32/6389_2.png) [@PJB](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PJB)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 1:27pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/219 "2011-06-19T13:27:32Z")

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> [@New to the site](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/new-to-the-site/43027/16):
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> What?
> 
> Dude you know if you go to the hospital ONCE it could bankrupt you FOREVER with that thought process.

I think theres programs or something that pay for shit like that for people that dont have insurance.

I dont even go to doctors so Id have to have something really bad to go to the hospital.

I learned from my last trip there that it was a waste 3.5 hours when a trip to CVS to get some steri-strips was all I needed. That and the time the doctor superglued his rubber glove to my head and pulled hair out by its roots. I couldve picked up a tube of glue and done it myself.

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**Author:** ![Boost\_Creep](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boost_creep/32/6366_2.png) [@Boost\_Creep](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Boost_Creep)\
**Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 2:33pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/pjbs-therapy-thread/258900/220 "2011-06-19T14:33:41Z")

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^ No there isn’t magic programs, there is payment plans.

Ask Psi2high how he made out when he had to go to the hospital when he got narced by a darkie.

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