# question about 18 year old boys **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [January 24, 2006, 9:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275 "2006-01-24T21:35:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Tkklemann](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tkklemann/32/7298_2.png) [@Tkklemann](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Tkklemann)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 4:31am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/21 "2006-01-25T04:31:13Z")
> [@RuBiCaNT](#): > > The girlfriend definitely needs to step up and say something. If she doesn’t, she’s not worth your time because that is an awkward situation. That’s exactly it, you need to speak with your G-friend, and explain to her that it makes you uncomfortable, and you would like her to tell him to back off. Not passing the buck, and making her do your dirty work, but if she doesn’t stick up for you and your “relationship”, then you should be dumping the broad and and not worrying about the guy. ---
**Author:** ![Geehee](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/geehee/32/7238_2.png) [@Geehee](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Geehee)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 4:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/22 "2006-01-25T04:57:13Z")
> [@99\_civic\_si](#): > > I just kinda went through something similar. And if I could do it over again I would. > > Serious response: Knock him the fuck out in front of her, and when she freaks, dump her. Then proceed to not feel bad about anything you did, because you shouldn’t. Hold your head high. Keep it real. HOLLA ---
**Author:** ![Violator](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/violator/32/7278_2.png) [@Violator](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Violator)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:04am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/23 "2006-01-25T05:04:48Z")
> [@99\_civic\_si](#): > > I just kinda went through something similar. And if I could do it over again I would. > > Serious response: Knock him the fuck out in front of her, and when she freaks, dump her. Then proceed to not feel bad about anything you did, because you shouldn’t. Hold your head high. Keep it real. Best response you can get ^ Girls are pretty easily influenced and you cant just talk to her, like some suggested, and depend on her to deal with your situation. Doubt is VERY easy to create. Some of these pieces of shit are Very good bullshitters. Dont dump her because then this loser wins. Thats exactly what he wants. ---
**Author:** ![JaysGreenLX](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jaysgreenlx/32/7321_2.png) [@JaysGreenLX](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JaysGreenLX)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/24 "2006-01-25T05:14:40Z")
Get yourself a tube sock and put a couple bars of soap in it. Swing vigorously. ala Full Metal Jacket ---
**Author:** ![LAFENGAS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/lafengas/32/7573_2.png) [@LAFENGAS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/LAFENGAS)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:18am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/25 "2006-01-25T05:18:53Z")
Reading the title I got all excited about this thread… until I saw it wasn’t in the NWS zone. ---
**Author:** ![BAD99TA](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5fc32e/32.png) [@BAD99TA](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BAD99TA)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:28am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/26 "2006-01-25T05:28:18Z")
> [@Willybeen](#): > > i dont like this kid, he obviously likes my g/f and tries to make her angry at me… but if i show him i dont like him, or say something/do something/////// he will make gestures toward my g/f even more… and that will piss me off… > > input…? what would you do in the situation… #1) Your girlfriend should trust YOU over some douchbag. #2) Beat that dude’s ass! If you don’t want charges pressed against you then don’t punch him in the face/leave marks. You can kick someone’s ass without hitting them in the face. Or if you can get him to swing at you first…then it’s open season. You just gotta find something get him really pissed so he swings at you and then beat the piss out of him! ---
**Author:** ![91MR2](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/91mr2/32/7217_2.png) [@91MR2](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91MR2)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/27 "2006-01-25T05:39:23Z")
This should have been taken care of long before you had the chance to write about it in a car forum…you should have taken care of him the first time it happened… Translation - Go confront him, and by the time you leave make sure he never considers doing something like that again… ---
**Author:** ![walter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/walter/32/7202_2.png) [@walter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/walter)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:39am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/28 "2006-01-25T05:39:59Z")
> [@Willybeen](#): > > i dont like this kid, he obviously likes my g/f and tries to make her angry at me… but if i show him i dont like him, or say something/do something/////// he will make gestures toward my g/f even more… and that will piss me off… > > input…? what would you do in the situation… Says the guy that’s only 2 years past 18… ---
**Author:** ![RobHimself](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e480ec/32.png) [@RobHimself](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobHimself)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 5:42am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/29 "2006-01-25T05:42:41Z")
> [@91MR2](#): > > This should have been taken care of long before you had the chance to write about it in a car forum…you should have taken care of him the first time it happened… > > Translation - Go confront him, and by the time you leave make sure he never considers doing something like that again… Then make sure the girlfriend is around to see it and send her to make you some fried chicken after. Make sure you call her bitch when you send her for the chicken too. The last parts you can omit though… ---
**Author:** ![Willybeen](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/willybeen/32/7351_2.png) [@Willybeen](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Willybeen)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 6:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/30 "2006-01-25T06:19:50Z")
> [@walter](#): > > Says the guy that’s only 2 years past 18… yes i am 20, will be 21 shortly so will the g/f… my perspective is that you want what you cant have… when i was 18, btw he just turned 18, i worked with girls that were 2 years older, and i dont think its not normal to want to get into an attractive girls pants especially when shes older and shes your manager… anyway…i can see where hes coming from, but when u try to make me look bad and my g/f creates doubt… (like its been said, not a difficult thing to do) it makes my relationship suck… and thats when i begin to have a problem with the guy… i just wanted to get a realistic view on “how to get through” to him without causing a bigger problem BTW i think in many cases theres a big difference between 17-18 VS 20-21… ---
**Author:** ![Bigairskier1580](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bigairskier1580/32/7612_2.png) [@Bigairskier1580](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Bigairskier1580)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 6:26am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/31 "2006-01-25T06:26:50Z")
Your woman needs to be the one to put her foot down… You kicking his ass is just gonna create more of a problem. ---
**Author:** ![Willybeen](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/willybeen/32/7351_2.png) [@Willybeen](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Willybeen)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 6:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/32 "2006-01-25T06:43:26Z")
yea… thats how i see it, hed have to really upset me before i hit him, i was just looking to see if there was something i was overlooking and a simple way to do something that wont make him more agressive toward her… some of the girls she works with told her that they noticed that he seems to be expressing interest in her… why is it that when i tell her he obviously has a crush on you, that she doesnt see it, but when somebody else sees it then its apparent to her… I MEAN im only a guy, i wouldnt understand his point of view /sarcasm thanks big air… ---
**Author:** ![Lucky\_Cheater](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb9ed0/32.png) [@Lucky\_Cheater](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Lucky_Cheater)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 6:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/33 "2006-01-25T06:55:26Z")
> [@LAFENGAS](#): > > Reading the title I got all excited about this thread… until I saw it wasn’t in the NWS zone. ROFLing :lol: passive guy says: Tell your women how you feel and if she doesnt sympathize with you then threaten break up. If she still doesnt see it your way then she is probably gonna cheat on you anyways. -Cheater- ---
**Author:** ![Zong](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/zong/32/7580_2.png) [@Zong](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Zong)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 7:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/34 "2006-01-25T07:11:40Z")
Let me know if you need any assistance if he keeps this shit up. ---
**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 7:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/35 "2006-01-25T07:24:14Z")
conincidentaly this reminds me of a joke what do you tell a blonde with 2 black eyes? nothing you told her twice! ba da ching! you need to put your woman in line … at least a facial mushroom tattoo will do ---
**Author:** ![JUICEDSS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/juicedss/32/7185_2.png) [@JUICEDSS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JUICEDSS)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 8:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/36 "2006-01-25T08:22:05Z")
First off… “kicking his ass” will only get you jail. The best advice given was: > [@AWDrifter](#): > > Dump her. You need a more mature girl that knows how to trust a guy. Without trust, you are waisting your time anyway. ---
**Author:** ![Deuce](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deuce/32/7614_2.png) [@Deuce](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Deuce)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 8:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/37 "2006-01-25T08:23:42Z")
give him a good ol’ throat punch seriously if he cant take a hint beat his ass but realistically, without jailtime or worried about being sued, just dump the girls ass. if she is immature enough to fall for stupid immature behavior you are BETTER off without her my.02 ---
**Author:** ![PumiceT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/43a26b/32.png) [@PumiceT](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/PumiceT)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 8:24am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/38 "2006-01-25T08:24:54Z")
> [@sprfreek](#): > > conincidentaly this reminds me of a joke > what do you tell a blonde with 2 black eyes? nothing you told her twice! ba da ching! > > you need to put your woman in line … at least a facial mushroom tattoo will do I believe the joke goes something more like… What do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes? Nothing you haven’t told her twice already. Or you could use your way, but with a little editing… What do you tell a blonde with 2 black eyes? Nothing, you already told her twice. (note the needed comma) ---
**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 8:40am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/39 "2006-01-25T08:40:15Z")
> [@PumiceT](#): > > I believe the joke goes something more like… > What do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes? > Nothing you haven’t told her twice already. > > Or you could use your way, but with a little editing… > What do you tell a blonde with 2 black eyes? > Nothing, you already told her twice. (note the needed comma) now pumice you now i spel goodly. they be nowin i tipe funy to. ---
**Author:** ![RobHimself](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e480ec/32.png) [@RobHimself](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/RobHimself)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2006, 8:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-about-18-year-old-boys/7275/40 "2006-01-25T08:47:51Z")
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