# question for parents

**URL:** <https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409>\
**Category:** PittSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [January 14, 2004, 7:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409 "2004-01-14T19:15:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Black\_WS6](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/black_ws6/32/5952_2.png) [@Black\_WS6](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Black_WS6)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/1 "2004-01-14T19:15:13Z")

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how did you handle when your kid(s) went through the phase where they do not want to sleep, and if you lay them down they scream and scream and scream and will not go to sleep. I think I need to just let them fall asleep, but it is torture to hear them cry like that. ☹

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/2 "2004-01-14T19:17:07Z")

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> _Originally posted by Black\_WS6_   
> **how did you handle when your kid(s) went through the phase where they do not want to sleep, and if you lay them down they scream and scream and scream and will not go to sleep. I think I need to just let them fall asleep, but it is torture to hear them cry like that. ☹**   
> yes that what u do & its hard as hell to do!☹ ☹ ☹

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**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:17pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/3 "2004-01-14T19:17:21Z")

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Nyquil them: my 3 1/2 kids goes to bed 😃

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:18pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/4 "2004-01-14T19:18:13Z")

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lead pipe. knock em riiiight out 😃

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:19pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/5 "2004-01-14T19:19:08Z")

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> _Originally posted by BlkP42E_   
> **lead pipe. knock em riiiight out 😃**   
> so thats what happen to u!!!:bash:

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/6 "2004-01-14T19:20:07Z")

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dunno, cant remember. i think my parents would just buy me shit to shut me the hell up 🙂

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:20pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/7 "2004-01-14T19:20:47Z")

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> _Originally posted by BlkP42E_   
> **dunno, cant remember. i think my parents would just buy me shit to shut me the hell up 🙂**   
> thats still happening!!!😃

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:21pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/8 "2004-01-14T19:21:34Z")

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not totally true, my 1 computer just blew up. i had to pay for the new one ☹

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:23pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/9 "2004-01-14T19:23:13Z")

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> _Originally posted by BlkP42E_   
> **not totally true, my 1 computer just blew up. i had to pay for the new one ☹**   
> allll:( they cut the cord!!!😛

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**Author:** ![Black\_WS6](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/black_ws6/32/5952_2.png) [@Black\_WS6](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Black_WS6)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:24pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/10 "2004-01-14T19:24:43Z")

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Holy shit. I ask a serious question and get 1 reply then the hijacking starts. :ugh:

😃

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/11 "2004-01-14T19:25:00Z")

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> _Originally posted by Pewterss_   
> **allll:( they cut the cord!!!😛**

no cause they are paying my deposit for my apt next yr, my hockey, my insurance, my phone bill and my tuition 😃

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:25pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/12 "2004-01-14T19:25:29Z")

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> _Originally posted by Black\_WS6_   
> **Holy shit. I ask a serious question and get 1 reply then the hijacking starts. :ugh:**
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> **😃**   
> i spoke nuff said!!!😉

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**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/13 "2004-01-14T19:26:03Z")

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Hey roland theres nothing you can really do. except deal w/ it

😛 😃

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:26pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/14 "2004-01-14T19:26:52Z")

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> _Originally posted by Shaggy_   
> **Hey roland theres nothing you can really do. except deal w/ it**
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> **😛 😃**   
> he got SUPER mod POWERS!!!😃

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**Author:** ![Black\_WS6](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/black_ws6/32/5952_2.png) [@Black\_WS6](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Black_WS6)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:28pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/15 "2004-01-14T19:28:20Z")

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I found this just now:

"Crying During the Night

Some babies make a game of calling out for you or dropping toys out of the crib for you to pick up. Other babies cry after you put them to bed. Check on your baby, but keep the lights dim and don’t pick him up. If baby is ok, put him on his tummy, pat his back for a minute or two, and leave.

If you try this for a few weeks and baby still wakes up and cries during the night, you may try letting them cry. Here is a way that works for many parents. Pick a weekend night. When baby cries, check on him and rub or pat baby’s back, then tell him you’ll be back in 10 minutes. Check on baby every 10 minutes even if he is not still crying, until he falls back to sleep. It probably won’t take more than a night or two to end the habit for good.

Letting baby cry like this can be hard on you. Be sure you’re up to it. Baby may cry for hours. If you give in after an hour, you could be training him to cry for longer periods. The goal is to help baby learn to sleep on his own. "

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**Author:** ![BlkP42E](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/blkp42e/32/5938_2.png) [@BlkP42E](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/BlkP42E)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:29pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/16 "2004-01-14T19:29:56Z")

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> _Originally posted by Black\_WS6_   
> **I found this just now:**
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> "Crying During the Night
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> Some babies make a game of calling out for you or dropping toys out of the crib for you to pick up. Other babies cry after you put them to bed. Check on your baby, but keep the lights dim and don’t pick him up. If baby is ok, put him on his tummy, pat his back for a minute or two, and leave.
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> If you try this for a few weeks and baby still wakes up and cries during the night, you may try letting them cry. Here is a way that works for many parents. Pick a weekend night. When baby cries, check on him and rub or pat baby’s back, then tell him you’ll be back in 10 minutes. Check on baby every 10 minutes even if he is not still crying, until he falls back to sleep. It probably won’t take more than a night or two to end the habit for good.
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> **Letting baby cry like this can be hard on you. Be sure you’re up to it. Baby may cry for hours. If you give in after an hour, you could be training him to cry for longer periods. The goal is to help baby learn to sleep on his own. "**

:bsflag:

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**Author:** ![Pewter](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/pewter/32/5936_2.png) [@Pewter](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Pewter)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/17 "2004-01-14T19:30:49Z")

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but u have girls!🙂

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**Author:** ![Shaggy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/shaggy/32/5945_2.png) [@Shaggy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Shaggy)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:31pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/18 "2004-01-14T19:31:01Z")

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yeah BS fo real: blk was being breast fed 24/7 and never had a chance to cry!!!

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**Author:** ![system](https://canada1.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/uploads/speedlife/original/2X/b/b7170c8eddc0b95ece6b88172b2f416a08489a45.png) [@system](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/system)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:32pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/19 "2004-01-14T19:32:15Z")

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if their crying their useing energy, eventually they’ll fall asleep, maybe even dynamat the inside of the their room so you cant hear them.

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**Author:** ![Black\_WS6](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/black_ws6/32/5952_2.png) [@Black\_WS6](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Black_WS6)\
**Post date:** [January 14, 2004, 7:35pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-for-parents/163409/20 "2004-01-14T19:35:18Z")

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still crying. Maybe I should start my car. It’s right below thier room. I can rattle them to sleep.

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