# Question regarding age...SERIOUS! **URL:** \ **Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\ **Created:** [December 12, 2008, 10:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619 "2008-12-12T10:43:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/1 "2008-12-12T10:43:47Z")
Okay, so here’s the question: How much younger or older would you date? That is, say the girl is either younger or older, what is the maximum age difference you would consider? I pose this as a serious question, might benefit me a bit. lol _Consider this pertaining to DATING, but open to only SMASHING also_ ---
**Author:** ![tpgsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tpgsr/32/7374_2.png) [@tpgsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tpgsr)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:44am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/2 "2008-12-12T10:44:40Z")
Date or Smash… There is a difference. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/3 "2008-12-12T10:47:10Z")
> [@Motocrossx23"](#): > > Okay, so here’s the question: > > How much younger or older would you date? > > That is, say the girl is either younger or older, what is the maximum age difference you would consider? > > I pose this as a serious question, might benefit me a bit. lol That depends a lot on the specific people. An 18 year old and a 22 year old and a 26 year old are all usually in very different life places, whereas a 26 year old and a 36 year old not so much. I was 19 and in my sophomore year of college dating a 17 year old high school senior and even that was kind of weird. So are you robbing the cradle or chasing Mrs Robinson? ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/4 "2008-12-12T10:47:59Z")
If smashing, no real maximum age. But obviously a minimum. Dating, try to stick around the same age. Since people will have less in common as their ages vary more. You want to be with someone that has to deal with the same issues as you, not a high school chick who is spoiled by her parents. There really isn’t a solid definition because of maturity levels being so different from person to person. I’m guessing that you are about to fuck a 15 year old… ---
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/5 "2008-12-12T10:50:02Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > I was 19 and in my sophomore year of college dating a 17 year old high school senior and even that was kind of weird. I’ll be completely honest with you lol, that’s my situation. But I do have another prospect that I may consider, I’m trying to test the waters I suppose. I did date a girl two years younger than me in high school, got a 2 year relationship out of it, but that was in high school. ---
**Author:** ![SkunkApe](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/skunkape/32/7575_2.png) [@SkunkApe](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/SkunkApe)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/6 "2008-12-12T10:50:13Z")
dating…i guess it all depends on the age you are at the time. for me, i’d say 2 years younger is fine, 2-3 years older is aight. ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/7 "2008-12-12T10:50:39Z")
any girl younger than 21 is basically just way to immature at this point in her life, and I am 23, so I said 2 years younger. If she was super mature, I would have no problem with a 3 year difference. Once you get older, dating out of your age is not really big deal so long at it’s not like a 10 year difference or something crazy. ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/8 "2008-12-12T10:51:44Z")
> [@Motocrossx23](#): > > I’ll be completely honest with you lol, that’s my situation. But I do have another prospect that I may consider, I’m trying to test the waters I suppose. > > I did date a girl two years younger than me in high school, got a 2 year relationship out of it, but that was in high school. I can guarantee you that relationship will not have a extensively long lasting future. So date her, smash constantly and have fun. I would not recommend getting tooo involved though. As soon as she hits college, your relationship is gonna be over. ---
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/9 "2008-12-12T10:51:59Z")
±5 years but i would deff smash older cougars. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/10 "2008-12-12T10:53:13Z")
> [@Motocrossx23](#): > > I’ll be completely honest with you lol, that’s my situation. But I do have another prospect that I may consider, I’m trying to test the waters I suppose. It was OK. Worth trying. I had fun. It’s legal to smash too, FYI. If she’s 17 and you’re less than 24 months older then have a her. ---
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/11 "2008-12-12T10:53:38Z")
that’s my point of view too BoardJnky4, which is why I’m hesitant with this younger girl. I figure anything after college is fair game for me, but I did date a girl 2 years younger…in fact they are in the same grade together, so idk if I’m willing to go for that again, orrrrrr…date a girl 2 years older than me, but not have to worry about the whole different position in life thing. ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/12 "2008-12-12T10:54:38Z")
If I were hypothetically single right now I’d be cool with college graduate and older. :angryhump: ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:55am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/13 "2008-12-12T10:55:36Z")
You’re 19. Have at her for a while. It’s not like you’re picking a… Oh. Shit. I started dating my wife when I was 19. :io: ---
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/14 "2008-12-12T10:56:52Z")
No no no… I’m way too young to even consider that. Haha ---
**Author:** ![cougarspeed](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/cougarspeed/32/7468_2.png) [@cougarspeed](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/cougarspeed)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:57am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/15 "2008-12-12T10:57:18Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > You’re 19. Have at her for a while. It’s not like you’re picking a… Oh. Shit. I started dating my wife when I was 19. > > :io: EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWww **EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW** EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW ---
**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/16 "2008-12-12T10:58:07Z")
DO NOT START A RELATIONSHIP WITH A HIGHSCHOOL GIRL. Just bone her for all she’s worth and be done with it. ---
**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:58am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/17 "2008-12-12T10:58:27Z")
I guess I’m just trying to gauge whether or not one or the other is worth it. Both cute, same interests, good with friends, but the only difference is age. That’s where I’m at. And surprisingly I’m asking for dating advice on NYSpeed…lmao. ---
**Author:** ![tpgsr](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/tpgsr/32/7374_2.png) [@tpgsr](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/tpgsr)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/18 "2008-12-12T10:59:03Z")
> [@Fry](#): > > You’re 19. Have at her for a while. It’s not like you’re picking a… Oh. Shit. I started dating my wife when I was 19. > > :io: I dated mine for the first time when we were 19, then I had some fun, and got back together at 23. Worked out perfect! ---
**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 10:59am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/19 "2008-12-12T10:59:33Z")
> [@Motocrossx23](#): > > No no no… > > I’m way too young to even consider that. Haha you might not be considering it, with anyone, but ANY girl that you date, could potentially become your life partner. Isn’t that the whole point of having a relationshit with girl? ---
**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/20 "2008-12-12T11:00:44Z")
lol. Yeah mine went for the jugular. No breaks. [Next page](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619.md?page=2)