# Question regarding age...SERIOUS!

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**Category:** NYSpeed Off Topic\
**Created:** [December 12, 2008, 10:43am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619 "2008-12-12T10:43:47Z")\
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**Author:** ![boardjnky4](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/96bed5/32.png) [@boardjnky4](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boardjnky4)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:00am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/21 "2008-12-12T11:00:55Z")

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> [@tpgsr](#):
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> I dated mine for the first time when we were 19, then I had some fun, and got back together at 23. Worked out perfect!

I kinda did the same with my g/f. we dated casually freshman year, broke off, didn’t talk at all for years, and ended up getting back together when I was 20.

Funny how things work out aye?

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:01am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/22 "2008-12-12T11:01:12Z")

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> [@boardjnky4](#):
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> you might not be considering it, with anyone, but ANY girl that you date, could potentially become your life partner.
> 
> Isn’t that the whole point of having a relationshit with girl?

True.

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**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:03am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/23 "2008-12-12T11:03:47Z")

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I don’t see an “All of the above choice”

I’m guessing you’re in your teens to choose those choices?

I’m 28. I am with a 23 year old. I would date a 35 year old too if I had to.

Age is nothing but a number. It’s all about the amount of experiences someone has been through. A 35 year old woman that lived at home until she was 30 and never left the house probably will act like a 23 year old girl. A 23 year old girl who moved out at 18 is probably perfect. (as long as the girl doesn’t look 50 when she is 35… then that number is flawed.)

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/24 "2008-12-12T11:05:44Z")

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Yeah, If I were in my mid to late twenties, I really wouldn’t have this kind of question, I’m 19 turning 20 in a few weeks though, so the poll is more directed at my age range

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**Author:** ![Eazy716](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/eazy716/32/7443_2.png) [@Eazy716](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Eazy716)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:05am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/25 "2008-12-12T11:05:57Z")

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> [@Fry](#):
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> lol. Yeah mine went for the jugular. No breaks.

werd

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**Author:** ![Freek](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/freek/32/7357_2.png) [@Freek](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Freek)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:09am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/26 "2008-12-12T11:09:26Z")

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> [@cougarspeed](#):
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> ±5 years but i would deff smash older cougars.

:word: for any older than that it would depend on how much of a sugar momma they would be

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**Author:** ![Clean\_Baldy](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/clean_baldy/32/7308_2.png) [@Clean\_Baldy](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Clean_Baldy)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:20am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/27 "2008-12-12T11:20:45Z")

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> [@Motocrossx23](#):
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> Yeah, If I were in my mid to late twenties, I really wouldn’t have this kind of question, I’m 19 turning 20 in a few weeks though, so the poll is more directed at my age range

I’d say try to stick around the same age due to one year different makes a big difference as you both go through those college years.

I was 22 when I started dating an 18 year old. That didn’t work out too nicely for me as when I finished college she was just starting. The “experience” was too different and she did the whore thing. I had already done all of that and was ready to find a long-term relationship. She was just learning what she wanted and had no idea. She made the bad choices that I had already made with others… and voila… it ended. Back then those 4 years were a HUGE difference. Now, I’d have no problems dating girls just out of college (If I was single that is…)

You’ll want to not look for age, but rather someone who is experiencing the same types of experiences. If you just started college find someone who is doing the same… if you have 2 years left in a 2 year degree, find someone who is already 2 years into their 4 year degree… etc. etc.

That way you can align your lives in the future when it’s time to move onto the next step. Immature minds may see the “waiting” as a bad thing and move on, rather than stick with a good thing and realize that comfort does not equal boredom and that the wait is worth it if you’re with the right person.

Just enjoy the experience and don’t worry about age. Enjoy the person you are with for who they are and take life for what it is… a journey that people share with you along the way, albiet sometimes a short or long term length of time.

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**Author:** ![psphinx81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@psphinx81](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/psphinx81)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/28 "2008-12-12T11:21:50Z")

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im 22, ill date 2 years younger

smash, as long as theyre 18+. lol

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/29 "2008-12-12T11:22:36Z")

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> [@Clean Baldy](#):
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> I’d say try to stick around the same age due to one year different makes a big difference as you both go through those college years.
> 
> I was 22 when I started dating an 18 year old. That didn’t work out too nicely for me as when I finished college she was just starting. The “experience” was too different and she did the whore thing. I had already done all of that and was ready to find a long-term relationship. She was just learning what she wanted and had no idea. She made the bad choices that I had already made with others… and voila… it ended. Back then those 4 years were a HUGE difference. Now, I’d have no problems dating girls just out of college (If I was single that is…)
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> You’ll want to not look for age, but rather someone who is experiencing the same types of experiences. If you just started college find someone who is doing the same… if you have 2 years left in a 2 year degree, find someone who is already 2 years into their 4 year degree… etc. etc.
> 
> That way you can align your lives in the future when it’s time to move onto the next step. Immature minds may see the “waiting” as a bad thing and move on, rather than stick with a good thing and realize that comfort does not equal boredom and that the wait is worth it if you’re with the right person.
> 
> Just enjoy the experience and don’t worry about age. Enjoy the person you are with for who they are and take life for what it is… a journey that people share with you along the way, albiet sometimes a short or long term length of time.

That is a very good way of putting it.

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**Author:** ![Paulo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/paulo/32/7328_2.png) [@Paulo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Paulo)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/30 "2008-12-12T11:22:44Z")

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Speaking of cougars, my old roommate was banging a 46 year old woman with a 16 year old son. He was 20 at the time. This went on for a few months until he moved back home. Actually he visited recently, and met up with her for some cougar twat. She’s a damn good lookin broad though, especially for being 46 so :tup: to him.

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**Author:** ![Motocrossx23](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/motocrossx23/32/5120_2.png) [@Motocrossx23](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Motocrossx23)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:23am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/31 "2008-12-12T11:23:08Z")

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lmao!

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**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/32 "2008-12-12T11:32:18Z")

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I only date younger. I have never been in a relationship with anyone older than me.

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**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:33am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/33 "2008-12-12T11:33:48Z")

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_ **To Slay** _

18-45 as long as they are cuties  
45-99 as long as they have $$

**_To Date_**

20-25 I’d guess

**I haven’t really considered what range of girls to date. Especially now that I’m in a long term ship.**

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**Author:** ![deebo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/deebo/32/5218_2.png) [@deebo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/deebo)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 11:47am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/34 "2008-12-12T11:47:13Z")

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i was a freshman in college and my girlfriend was a junior in highschool

but i was 17 and she was 16 :gotme:

i have a super late birthday tho. So she was a 15yr old sophmore i was a 17year old senior. thats prob as young as i would go for my age is 2 years

but im 18 now :snky: :picard:

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**Author:** ![jimbo13kaz](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jimbo13kaz/32/5117_2.png) [@jimbo13kaz](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/jimbo13kaz)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 12:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/35 "2008-12-12T12:02:34Z")

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shit gets especially weird in cases like mine, im 20 and have a 16 year old brother so i try to stay no more than 2 years younger, weird to think me and my little bro could be smashing the same girl :eek:  
but then i know a girl who is 19, and goes out with a 28 year old guy who just left his wife and kids for her, i think that its not so much age as maturity

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**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 12:14pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/36 "2008-12-12T12:14:09Z")

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At your age do NOT date.

When I was 19 it was just fuck anything that walks and is remotely cute type deal. It will pay off in the end and you will thank yourself for it.

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**Author:** ![ryanmcell](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ryanmcell/32/7510_2.png) [@ryanmcell](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ryanmcell)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 12:15pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/37 "2008-12-12T12:15:15Z")

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> [@ultradriver10000](#):
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> _ **To Slay** _
> 
> 18-45 as long as they are cuties  
> 45-99 as long as they have $$
> 
> **_To Date_**
> 
> 20-25 I’d guess
> 
> **I haven’t really considered what range of girls to date. Especially now that I’m in a long term ship.**

Quote for same situation truth. Although 18 used to be more like 15 for me back in the day… :meh:

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 1:02pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/38 "2008-12-12T13:02:47Z")

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> [@Paulo](#):
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> Speaking of cougars, my old roommate was banging a 46 year old woman with a 16 year old son. He was 20 at the time. This went on for a few months until he moved back home. Actually he visited recently, and met up with her for some cougar twat. She’s a damn good lookin broad though, especially for being 46 so :tup: to him.

That’d be awesome! Bang the mom then go play video games with the son!

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**Author:** ![ILC](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ilc/32/5337_2.png) [@ILC](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ILC)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 1:30pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/39 "2008-12-12T13:30:42Z")

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21 to 28 No option for this I have a range…

I would smash… virtually any age that is legal

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**Author:** ![91CRXSI](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/91crxsi/32/7247_2.png) [@91CRXSI](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/91CRXSI)\
**Post date:** [December 12, 2008, 1:40pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/question-regarding-age-serious/59619/40 "2008-12-12T13:40:39Z")

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mehh im 23 and was just dating a 19 year old…

idk it all depends on the person

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