# reason 3124332 why I don't live in Batavia, NY

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**Created:** [June 8, 2010, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213 "2010-06-08T08:11:07Z")\
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**Author:** ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:11am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/1 "2010-06-08T08:11:07Z")

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> Batavia, NY - A Genessee County woman is due in court Tuesday to answer to an adultery charge; police say it stems from an incident Friday at a Batavia Park.

> Witnesses say the 41-year-old woman and a 29-year-old man were having sex on a picnic table in view of families nearby.

> She and the man are also charged with public lewdness.

> According to court papers, the woman told police she has a transgender husband with whom she no longer has relations, and that “one thing led to another.”

> The woman said she feels awful this happened, but claims she and the man were not in plain sight, and that no children were nearby.

[http://www.13wham.com/news/local/story/Woman-Charged-With-Adultery-Says-Not-in-Plain/eQ0Ck1RTEUeZIL-qR88-ow.cspx](http://www.13wham.com/news/local/story/Woman-Charged-With-Adultery-Says-Not-in-Plain/eQ0Ck1RTEUeZIL-qR88-ow.cspx)

pic:

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**Author:** ![ProgRocker](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/progrocker/32/5434_2.png) [@ProgRocker](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ProgRocker)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:13am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/2 "2010-06-08T08:13:45Z")

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and here I thought Batavia offered nothing…

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**Author:** ![boxxa](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/boxxa/32/5045_2.png) [@boxxa](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/boxxa)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/3 "2010-06-08T08:14:43Z")

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I’d hit it.

[http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/crime/Police-pair-caught-having-sex-in-park](http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/crime/Police-pair-caught-having-sex-in-park)

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:21am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/4 "2010-06-08T08:21:26Z")

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Don’t judge me.

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**Author:** ![JayS](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jays/32/15375_2.png) [@JayS](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/JayS)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:32am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/5 "2010-06-08T08:32:13Z")

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The adultery charge I think bothers me more than them having sex in the park. Welcome back to the 1800’s NYS. Charge them both with public lewdness and be done with it.

Or, if you’re serious about charging people with adultery you better charge Paterson and Spitzer since they both admitted having affairs.

EDIT:  
 ![http://i224.photobucket.com/albums/dd75/jsears77/threadworthlesswithoutpics.gif](http://i224.photobucket.com/albums/dd75/jsears77/threadworthlesswithoutpics.gif)

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**Author:** ![Fry](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/fry/32/7284_2.png) [@Fry](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Fry)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:36am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/6 "2010-06-08T08:36:06Z")

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:tif: I bet the old broad cleans up alright.

And yeah adultery being a crime is kind of goofy. Just say you’re Mormon and the charge violates your freedom of religion. :tup:

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**Author:** ![drvnkd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drvnkd/32/109615_2.png) [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:37am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/7 "2010-06-08T08:37:47Z")

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Cut the lady some slack…  
Her car is probably haunted?

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**Author:** ![theblue](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/theblue/32/5074_2.png) [@theblue](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/theblue)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:38am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/8 "2010-06-08T08:38:48Z")

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the officer witnessed penis in vagina, so adultery is legit in this case.

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**Author:** ![Viper966](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/viper966/32/7268_2.png) [@Viper966](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Viper966)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:41am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/9 "2010-06-08T08:41:13Z")

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The adultery charge will get thrown out… they already said it probably will on the news

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**Author:** ![Jam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/jam/32/7235_2.png) [@Jam](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Jam)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 8:56am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/10 "2010-06-08T08:56:46Z")

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The only good thing about Batavia- o’lacys! Love that place

I used to spend a lot of time in “blahtavia” as I call it, a bunch of my family lives there and my gf is from there originally. I’ll never live there, but it’s nice to visit from time to time

still, pretty messed up. I need to google what park it was, if it’s the one I’m thinking of that park is wide open

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**Author:** ![ItsOver](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/itsover/32/5431_2.png) [@ItsOver](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ItsOver)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 9:14am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/11 "2010-06-08T09:14:34Z")

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Dennis Gronau said, “I just feel for all the kids and mothers over there that had to endure that.”

:lolsign:

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**Author:** ![ultradriver10000](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/ultradriver10000/32/7397_2.png) [@ultradriver10000](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/ultradriver10000)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 9:27am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/12 "2010-06-08T09:27:38Z")

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She doesn’t look that bad for 41.

Do the cops let you finish when you get caught in that situation?

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**Author:** ![superfan99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@superfan99](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/superfan99)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 10:10am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/13 "2010-06-08T10:10:09Z")

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Why didn’t the dude get charged too? I’m pretty sure if you said “I didn’t know she was 16!” you’d still get charged as a pedo.

Either way, the headline should have read “Cougar attack in Batavia”

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**Author:** ![Wahoo](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/wahoo/32/8265_2.png) [@Wahoo](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Wahoo)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 10:19am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/14 "2010-06-08T10:19:54Z")

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> [@ultradriver10000](#):
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> She doesn’t look that bad for 41.

Thats what i was thinking!

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**Author:** ![bigwoode](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/bigwoode/32/5175_2.png) [@bigwoode](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/bigwoode)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 10:22am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/15 "2010-06-08T10:22:37Z")

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> [@superfan99](#):
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> Why didn’t the dude get charged too? I’m pretty sure if you said “I didn’t know she was 16!” you’d still get charged as a pedo.
> 
> Either way, the headline should have read “Cougar attack in Batavia”

Because he isn’t married. They both got charged with lewd conduct.

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**Author:** ![superfan99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@superfan99](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/superfan99)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 11:08am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/16 "2010-06-08T11:08:19Z")

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lol, his keep sgetting better. Now her transgender husband is asking that the adultery charge be dropped.  
[http://www.wgrz.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=77668&catid=37](http://www.wgrz.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=77668&catid=37)

> [@bigwoode](#):
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> Because he isn’t married. They both got charged with lewd conduct.

As I understand it, the adultery law in NY works both ways. You can be charged for sleeping with a married person if you’re single.

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**Author:** ![Willybeen](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/willybeen/32/7351_2.png) [@Willybeen](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Willybeen)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 11:51am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/17 "2010-06-08T11:51:22Z")

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not badddd

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**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 11:53am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/18 "2010-06-08T11:53:50Z")

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> [@superfan99](#):
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> lol, his keep sgetting better. Now her transgender husband is asking that the adultery charge be dropped.  
> [404 Not Found | wgrz.com](http://www.wgrz.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=77668&catid=37)
> 
> As I understand it, the adultery law in NY works both ways. You can be charged for sleeping with a married person if you’re single.

he didnt get charged because he claimed to not know she was married.

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**Author:** ![Gl1](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/gl1/32/5471_2.png) [@Gl1](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/Gl1)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 11:54am UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/19 "2010-06-08T11:54:46Z")

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LOL when i was a kid there was a couple doing this in the park next to the play ground I was playing on. All I remember was my mom going over to them screaming about how disgusting they were, and telling them they better leave or she would call the cops.

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**Author:** ![drvnkd](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex034/user_avatar/forums.speedlife.net/drvnkd/32/109615_2.png) [@drvnkd](https://forums.speedlife.net/u/drvnkd)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 12:05pm UTC](https://forums.speedlife.net/t/reason-3124332-why-i-dont-live-in-batavia-ny/156213/20 "2010-06-08T12:05:43Z")

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I remember when I was I kid, I was smart enough to not get caught…

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